 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Hi.
Hope you guys can offer us some advice...
We would prefer for Amanda to meet a guy on a night out as it won't feel as though it's 'staged' , if you know what we mean! The problem that we have is that none of Amanda's friends know that we are on here or are maybe more sexually open minded than them... In fact a few of them are very straight laced! On a night out she would be with friends and she would find it hard to distance herself from her friends to spend a bit of time with a guy. We both find it a huge turn for Amanda to have some fun on a night out so she could home and tell me all about it. We just aren't sure how to approach it so this could happen.
Any people in similiar situation? Help appreciated!
She gets chatted up all the time on nights out, even when I'm with her but making a move on a guy when her friends are around could be tricky!
We have thought about me arranging it whilst she's out and kind of making it a surprise when a guy tries it on with her... Then we are back to the problem of how to progress it!!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
If her friends don't know and you need to be discreet I wouldn't do it when they are around.
You could arrange for her to be in a bar on her own and he could come over and 'chat her up'. You (the guy) could be watching at another table so you know she's safe.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If her friends don't know and you need to be discreet I wouldn't do it when they are around.
You could arrange for her to be in a bar on her own and he could come over and 'chat her up'. You (the guy) could be watching at another table so you know she's safe.
"
Could the guy not come over and them act like they knew each other, possibly an old friend of yours. Who's going to question that? Obviously have to play down and fun happening until safely away from her friends. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hi.
Hope you guys can offer us some advice...
We would prefer for Amanda to meet a guy on a night out as it won't feel as though it's 'staged' , if you know what we mean! The problem that we have is that none of Amanda's friends know that we are on here or are maybe more sexually open minded than them... In fact a few of them are very straight laced! On a night out she would be with friends and she would find it hard to distance herself from her friends to spend a bit of time with a guy. We both find it a huge turn for Amanda to have some fun on a night out so she could home and tell me all about it. We just aren't sure how to approach it so this could happen.
Any people in similiar situation? Help appreciated!
She gets chatted up all the time on nights out, even when I'm with her but making a move on a guy when her friends are around could be tricky!
We have thought about me arranging it whilst she's out and kind of making it a surprise when a guy tries it on with her... Then we are back to the problem of how to progress it!!!"
It might be better to make a compromise and semi stage it in another area to your home. If your partners friends see what is going on you could get a very negative and potentially problematic situation. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Can't really see how it is going to work of Amanda's friends are there and they are un-aware of your hobby.
We would also say perhaps arranging for her to meet a guy on her own with you watching at a distance would be best.
Hope it works out for you guys and whoever you get to meet will be very lucky indeed!
Xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
