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Seeing somebody you know??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Up side if they on your doorstep
And u both like lots of fun
But I seen someone photos and they worked with me so I did not answer to they text lol
Hope that helps you. |
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By *ay_swing OP Man
over a year ago
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"Up side if they on your doorstep
And u both like lots of fun
But I seen someone photos and they worked with me so I did not answer to they text lol
Hope that helps you."
This is my point I think that if you know someone and your obviously on here for fun don't see the harm...but it's nerve racking reveiling yourself I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nothing? Something? 
if you don't want them seeing your stuff, block them.
if you want to get busy with them, shoot your shot.
personally, i don't usually mind. like it's whatever - im not exactly being discrete.
but yesterday i had a profile messaging me, using my first name, asking if i wanted to fuck a 'taken guy'.. Upon inspection, it was someone i know's fiance. Straight block.
Px
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Really depends how well you know them and if you are happy to risk the chance of them avoiding you or gossiping about you.
Someone I barely know saw me on here and thought it was a great idea to contact me on social media. Very creepy, certainly has me walking in the other direction whenever I see him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Up side if they on your doorstep
And u both like lots of fun
But I seen someone photos and they worked with me so I did not answer to they text lol
Hope that helps you.
This is my point I think that if you know someone and your obviously on here for fun don't see the harm...but it's nerve racking reveiling yourself I guess"
OP you from the UK right ?
Wen you live here ( Ireland) it’s a village I mean it happens a lot !
Haven’t bumped in to anyone yet off of here !
but if the day ever comes hopefully I’ll be near a cliff I can launch myself off or a steep hill I can roll down swiftly to make a slick get away
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
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We have seen a couple of people we know in real life on fab. One I blocked as I couldn't imagine playing with them the second one we said hi and I ended up playing with. Qt the end of the day we are all grown ups here after similar things x |
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By *ay_swing OP Man
over a year ago
travel with work |
"I mean would people want to be told if they were recognised... I'm in mixed minds lol
Most people don't want to be told. Would you or would it depend who it is? "
I guess it would depend who.it was..not sure what criteria but as long as they were respectful |
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Depends on their profile to me.
If they are verified with a good profile then that’s fine I’m happy for them to know it’s me.
If it’s a single guy I know with no profile just here to perv then no.
I bumped into a boss and his wife at a sex club where I was in attendance with another colleague (friend) and it was fine who cares, were all doing the else things! |
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The problem with not having a problem with seeing someone you know is that person might become a problem. Then it gets awkward.
I also find that people mostly want to see the attractive people they know who they want to sleep with, they're not so keen when it's Gladys down the road with no teeth in and will happily block her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem with not having a problem with seeing someone you know is that person might become a problem. Then it gets awkward.
I also find that people mostly want to see the attractive people they know who they want to sleep with, they're not so keen when it's Gladys down the road with no teeth in and will happily block her. "
Gladys does an amazing velvet to be fair! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After some advice...what's the best thing to do if you recognise people from here or know them personally?
Or what would you want to happen if someone recognised you? "
Personally I - male half - do not care if someone recognises me, you only live ONCE  so just enjoy it as best as possible and worry less.
I do not judge others.
All we have is this moment right now - the past is the past and the future is just a thought  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met a few people I know off here that I also know in real life . I'm not too worried as we are all here for the same thing . It's the same in the club's.
I've had some right laughs with people I already know. Nice to see them tbh |
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Out Christmas shopping in Norwich City Centre one morning , we saw 6 different people at various points that we’d either met socially or had played with . A couple nodded , a couple smiled and a couple looked away ! (we obviously left an impression !) . It takes all sorts ,but our Fab life is totally separate to our everyday life and we wouldn’t have dreamed approaching anyone . It’s all about respect on both sides . |
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"Out Christmas shopping in Norwich City Centre one morning , we saw 6 different people at various points that we’d either met socially or had played with . A couple nodded , a couple smiled and a couple looked away ! (we obviously left an impression !) . It takes all sorts ,but our Fab life is totally separate to our everyday life and we wouldn’t have dreamed approaching anyone . It’s all about respect on both sides . "
Blimey Norwich sounds amazing
We vaguely know or recognise a couple of locals but nothing awkward so far.
Anything remotely creepy would just be a straight block. |
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"After some advice...what's the best thing to do if you recognise people from here or know them personally?
Or what would you want to happen if someone recognised you? "
The number one rule is discretion. So be discrete, block them and leave it at that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After some advice...what's the best thing to do if you recognise people from here or know them personally?
Or what would you want to happen if someone recognised you? "
I would be furious if somebody came up to me and said they recognised me from Fab.
If I saw somebody I know on fab I would block them. |
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I was on my 1st visit to a club and bumped into a girl that used to date a friend of mine at high school. Always had the hots for her then but didn’t have the nerve (before she dated my friend).
We had a giggle about it in the club, and chilled out. Was not an issue as we were both there for the same reason, so why be embarrassed. Actually made it so much easier to tell her that I had fancied her at school
Yes, we did have some fun as well, for those wondering |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is this one lady in work, and she just looks at me filthy, like she wants to fuck me in the canteen in front of everyone, i imagine lots of the faceless bodies on here are her.... |
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"There is this one lady in work, and she just looks at me filthy, like she wants to fuck me in the canteen in front of everyone, i imagine lots of the faceless bodies on here are her.... "
Maybe go and have a chat with her..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Should I meet anyone on here or in a club then I would be OK as both are involved for the same reason. I probably wouldn’t play as it would breech the friend relationship in real life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is this one lady in work, and she just looks at me filthy, like she wants to fuck me in the canteen in front of everyone, i imagine lots of the faceless bodies on here are her.... "
You probably had food on your face or something  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seven years ago we went to a private house party for several bi-sexual couples some 25 miles or so from home. When we arrived at the house and our hosts for the evening introduced everyone attending the party it also included our neighbours who we talk to from across the road.
We just agreed not to play together and where possible stay in different rooms at this party and not to mention the subject in conversation in the real world.
We still talk to our neighbours across the road and our swinging escapades have never entered the conversations.
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"Seven years ago we went to a private house party for several bi-sexual couples some 25 miles or so from home. When we arrived at the house and our hosts for the evening introduced everyone attending the party it also included our neighbours who we talk to from across the road.
We just agreed not to play together and where possible stay in different rooms at this party and not to mention the subject in conversation in the real world.
We still talk to our neighbours across the road and our swinging escapades have never entered the conversations.
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swinging done properly ^^^^ |
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This incident occurred at a party I organised some years ago - there was a drop-dead-gorgeous woman attending who had confided to me that she was hoping to have sex with a number of men because her husband was incapable. One of the men at the party (a police officer) took her upstairs but came back down just a few minutes later -it had turned out that the woman was the wife of his immediate superior at work. He said that it had put him right off his stroke. |
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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
We like to keep vanilla and fab lives separate.
At the end of the day we are all here for the same reason so as long as there discreet and respectful we are happy.
We once had the subject was brought up in front of a child it wasn’t a good move. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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If I see someone I know from the site in public, I just walk on.
I have been approached a few times by people in public who have recognised me and even had three different people speak to me while I was with my kids.
I really don't feel that is ok at all.
One of them even started shouting across Sainsbury's while I was shopping with my daughter, I ended up pretending that I didn't know them and that they had me confused with someone else.
It was awkward to the max and they really should have known better.
There has been occasions where I've seen someone I know from outside the scene in a club, on those occasions, I've said hello as I would to everybody there and and moved on to chat to other people.
If they approached me and wanted to talk about knowing me from somewhere else, I wouldn't mind that as long as it was in a lifestyle venue and they were appropriate to the surroundings. |
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I think it also depends on how or where it is done, if we're out with the family, shopping, on the school run then a definitive no. But if we're on a night out and a someone came over and started chatting and then dropped it in to conversation that might be a little bit more acceptable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seen an ex’s aunt on here she was married but obviously wasn’t giving her what she needed. Messaged her a few times she was horny as hell. It all needed up in is going to some clubs so sometimes you can touch lucky but sometimes I guess you can’t. |
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By *aulW321Man
over a year ago
wAKEFIELD |
Imet my neighbour at a swingers club,we both have partners,and we both dont want to rock the boat.So we both agreed,we had never seen each other.He has spoken to me since and we are both seeing a woman together,we both like sloppy seconds,and we meet up regularly,when the clubs open we are all going swinging again.I trust him,and he trusts me. |
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When we were on Fab previously we were getting along very well with a couple via massages and then we sent them our face pictures. About a week went by and we didn't hear anything back from them so we just thought that we didn't look like what they were after.
When we did get a message it was a bit of a surprise. It turns out that they were very interested in meeting us but when they saw the photos they realised they knew us both through work. They had been debating what to do and decide the best thing would be for us not to meet and also that they wouldn't reveal who they were to us as that make things awkward in the future but they would be very discrete about it.
We understood but it led to a frustrating time looking at their body photos and trying to work out who they were. We dont know to this day and since having a break have lost track of their profile now.
We haven't talked about what we would have done had they sent their photos first |
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I’m happy too let people we know see wife’s pics as it’s a thing that nobody talks about, I have a couple o male and female friends who are on here and it’s an unwritten rule you don’t say anything, but the kink is you know that they know when you see them in the street |
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If I saw a fab couple I knew, say outside the school or somewhere like that, I would shout over to them. I would wave my arms frantically to draw their, and other people's attention. I would loudly enquire if they enjoyed the dick pic I sent them and whether or not the ten man gang bang they organised at the weekend went down smoothly. I might even enquire as to why I were not invited when Sandra's husband, Big Bob the plumber, clearly got to go in her twice. My caring side would shine through when I sympathise about how sore her cunt must be after all that dick and ask if that is why she is walking funny today. I would sign off with a smile, a happy fabbing and give them two thumbs up. It's good to talk and connect with your fab friends when you can and they will appreciate you all the more for it. |
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