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" Surely if you also meet as an FB couple it wouldn't be too much hassle to create a profile?" 
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"we have had this alot with single fems, no mention of the fb until your arranging a meet, then o i only meet with my fb, now we understand a first meet wanting a fb there for safety, and for us a first meet is always a social, but then to be told sorry i only play with fb "To be honest profiles like that shouldbe reported in my opinion. There are 6 categories on FAB single males, single females, M?F couples, MM couples, FF couples and TV/TS. Now if a guy had a couple profile but said he only met as a single guy, he'd get a right pasting by people off here and rightlt so, so a single female doing the opposite should be treated no differently. I agree with the safety issue, but thats why anyone should meet in a public place or a club, and I know many single female peofiles that say they'll only meet in a club. Personally I have seen this issue of FB's arrive quite a number of times on threads. Maybe a couples profile should be changed into M/F couples (whom are married. live together or are in a serious relationship albeit not living together) and Couples whom are FB's, thus meaning such an issue shouldn't raise it's head again. | |||
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"we have had this alot with single fems, no mention of the fb until your arranging a meet, then o i only meet with my fb, now we understand a first meet wanting a fb there for safety, and for us a first meet is always a social, but then to be told sorry i only play with fb
To be honest profiles like that shouldbe reported in my opinion. There are 6 categories on FAB single males, single females, M?F couples, MM couples, FF couples and TV/TS. Now if a guy had a couple profile but said he only met as a single guy, he'd get a right pasting by people off here and rightlt so, so a single female doing the opposite should be treated no differently. I agree with the safety issue, but thats why anyone should meet in a public place or a club, and I know many single female peofiles that say they'll only meet in a club.
Personally I have seen this issue of FB's arrive quite a number of times on threads. Maybe a couples profile should be changed into M/F couples (whom are married. live together or are in a serious relationship albeit not living together) and Couples whom are FB's, thus meaning such an issue shouldn't raise it's head again."Yup singles profile who only meet with FB's should be reported. If you only meet for the first time over coffee with a friend for safety reasons thats fine.. but if you agree to play then as a single you play singularly. If as a single you only play with a FB, well then you are clearly not playing singularly and should have a couples profile.. | |||
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"we have had this alot with single fems, no mention of the fb until your arranging a meet, then o i only meet with my fb, now we understand a first meet wanting a fb there for safety, and for us a first meet is always a social, but then to be told sorry i only play with fb
To be honest profiles like that shouldbe reported in my opinion. There are 6 categories on FAB single males, single females, M?F couples, MM couples, FF couples and TV/TS. Now if a guy had a couple profile but said he only met as a single guy, he'd get a right pasting by people off here and rightlt so, so a single female doing the opposite should be treated no differently. I agree with the safety issue, but thats why anyone should meet in a public place or a club, and I know many single female peofiles that say they'll only meet in a club.
Personally I have seen this issue of FB's arrive quite a number of times on threads. Maybe a couples profile should be changed into M/F couples (whom are married. live together or are in a serious relationship albeit not living together) and Couples whom are FB's, thus meaning such an issue shouldn't raise it's head again."i dont see why its so much as a problem though, guy pretending to be a couple is a fraud, single girl or single guy who are single but have someone they play with that are looking for a couple meet for them both shouldnt be forced to make another account, maybe its not a regular thing they do. maybe if she only plays with fb she should mention it on her profile, but cant force them to get couple accounts, after all she might want total control of the matter rather than sharing an account and having him doing the messages etc and arranging something she's not into, that kinda conduct is when you get people make crap excuses like their kids playing up or got no babysitter last minute, when its just a case of the guy arranging everything and the woman seeing last minute and being like this is not for me, and you get excuse and they never contact again to arrange again | |||
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"I have some female friends, some Ive taken to couplesmeets...do I want a fuckbuddy profile with them all?...think I'll stick to having my own profile" exactly if you got a few people you could end up with lots of profiles left right and centre, that come and get deleted not long afterwards singles should be able to have fun meets and decide to do something extra together and not be foreced to make a profile, it should be their choice. i think thought it might cost them some meets if they arnt open about it until the last minute (thats why i said they should mention on profile if they always there) but for me maybe that would be a sign its not a 100% genuine profile if they arnt being open about that till the last minute, it would be a warning sign for me and i probally wouldnt meet, but if they said all along id of been game. but stuff like thats a warning flag for me and i wouldnt meet someone who dramatically changed the meet at the last minute unless i knew they were totally genuine and plans changed for genuine reasons | |||
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"but someone with a fuc k buddie is a single person so why would they have a couples profile? I have a bi guy i meet off here that i also meet other bi guys with for MMF, i just contact the guys off this profile asking if they would like to join me and a friend for a 3sum and ive never had any problems with this Im not a couple so im not setting a couples profile up, meeting every now and again with someone does not warrent a couples profile personally i think people are just nit picking "The problem is those that only ever meet with their fb. Not those who sometimes meet with their fb | |||
"but someone with a fuc k buddie is a single person so why would they have a couples profile? I have a bi guy i meet off here that i also meet other bi guys with for MMF, i just contact the guys off this profile asking if they would like to join me and a friend for a 3sum and ive never had any problems with this Im not a couple so im not setting a couples profile up, meeting every now and again with someone does not warrent a couples profile personally i think people are just nit picking
The problem is those that only ever meet with their fb. Not those who sometimes meet with their fb"Yeah I'm single but I have fb's and yes I'd like to take them to meets too sometimes but I sure as hell don't want to be on a couples profile. Why is it any different to meeting in a club? | |||
"but someone with a fuc k buddie is a single person so why would they have a couples profile? I have a bi guy i meet off here that i also meet other bi guys with for MMF, i just contact the guys off this profile asking if they would like to join me and a friend for a 3sum and ive never had any problems with this Im not a couple so im not setting a couples profile up, meeting every now and again with someone does not warrent a couples profile personally i think people are just nit picking
The problem is those that only ever meet with their fb. Not those who sometimes meet with their fb"yeah they should mention it on their profile at a minimum if its all the time and only way they do meet. but maybe its not thought and they just used it as an excuse not to meet or to get them in on it as well, or if they not got much verifications or expierience, then maybe they got nervous and decided they couldnt do it all on their own so said that hoping he could come along or maybe they are a man, made an account for their mrs, and once they got a meet decided to tell the truth! might be a little unlikley as i think a guy would make a couple profile instead, but you never know, small chance they not genuine, as for me someone who switches meets at the last minute adding a guy to the mix usually isnt a female i think, its a bit like the old couple trick where the woman half of the couple suddenly cant make the meet but mr can, and then u realise the woman was never coming in the first place lol | |||
"We are often contacted by single guys who want to meet with their FB. We wouldnt mind meeting an FB couple but If we did it wouldn't be from a single profile. When we inform the guy of this, however, he invariably takes offence. Surely if you also meet as an FB couple it wouldn't be too much hassle to create a profile?" If they only bring it up at the last minute that would really do my head in. I think it should be on their profile, at the very least as an 'offer' that sometimes they can meet with a fb if required. I think if you're messaging a 'single' profile then its fair enough that you should expect it to be just one person. Otherwise you'd be looking at couple's profiles.  | |||
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"but someone with a fuc k buddie is a single person so why would they have a couples profile? I have a bi guy i meet off here that i also meet other bi guys with for MMF, i just contact the guys off this profile asking if they would like to join me and a friend for a 3sum and ive never had any problems with this Im not a couple so im not setting a couples profile up, meeting every now and again with someone does not warrent a couples profile personally i think people are just nit picking
The problem is those that only ever meet with their fb. Not those who sometimes meet with their fb
Yeah I'm single but I have fb's and yes I'd like to take them to meets too sometimes but I sure as hell don't want to be on a couples profile.
Why is it any different to meeting in a club?
"thing is if you did set up a couples profile then you would have problems trying to meet on your own because people would moan your not single as you have a couples profile | |||
"but someone with a fuc k buddie is a single person so why would they have a couples profile? I have a bi guy i meet off here that i also meet other bi guys with for MMF, i just contact the guys off this profile asking if they would like to join me and a friend for a 3sum and ive never had any problems with this Im not a couple so im not setting a couples profile up, meeting every now and again with someone does not warrent a couples profile personally i think people are just nit picking
The problem is those that only ever meet with their fb. Not those who sometimes meet with their fb"no such thing
ive had plenty of guys mail me off couples profiles and soon as i say i dont meet couples they are willing to meet me alone 
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"It's one thing to sometimes look for fun with a playmate. But if someone always or only meets with their fb then they should be on a couples profile. If every meet is going to be the two of them then they are a couple. "yeah but u dont know for sure thats the case, gotta remember alot of people make excuses to get out of things sometimes so they dont have to say the truth if they think the person they saying it too might not like the real reason why deffos should have something on the profile, but if they have nothing wrote on their profile about it then i think they either used it as an excuse, or said that they always with with fb as a excuse to include them last minute (maybe double booked meets or prefer that way) or maybe its a guy your speaking to all along and once you agreed he's getting his lass to do it. they should have a couple profile if they a couple, but that dont mean every fuck buddy comination or anyone who meets with someone else should be forced to have a couples profile as i think it gets daft when you have loads of profiles but deffos should be upfront if someone else is to come along, last minute is bad form and tends to make me think they a big element of bullshit in there either from the girl or from a guy in disguise trying to arrange something on his mrs part! | |||
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"I have a couple profile on here as well as this one. This one states that I am only looking for FF play. It also says that I am not looking for couples unless the lady plays on her own. I do play with couples, but only with my guy. Does anyone think that I am doing it wrong??" No I'd say your doing it right, so that if someone contacts you off this profile they know what they are getting and similarl;y off your couples profile. On the wider point, I think it's where someone always meets with a FB that they would be incorrect haveing a singles profile, if they sometimes meet as a single and sometimes with a FB but not necessarily the same person, then a singles profile seems fine to me. | |||
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"we wont go near fuck buddies we are a couple who like to share others partners,not someone they are not really that bothered about. swinging is about sharing partners,not an aquaintance." | |||
"we wont go near fuck buddies we are a couple who like to share others partners,not someone they are not really that bothered about. swinging is about sharing partners,not an aquaintance." So do you check marriage certificates?....or look them up on the electoral role? If not, how would you know the difference? The best couple I ever met were FB's....I only found out a few weeks later, wouldn't have known the difference. | |||
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"Of course it's your choice.....but how would you know the difference? Because they tell you they have been together for years?..... I'm just interested to know how you can assertain if they live together or not." | |||
"we wont go near fuck buddies we are a couple who like to share others partners,not someone they are not really that bothered about. swinging is about sharing partners,not an aquaintance." so the single men u have met arent swingers...just used as pawns for ur sexual gratification???-hardly anyone can come up with a definition of what a swinger is these days, wifeswappings a definite no-no..carkeys in the bowls a definite no-no, just as is having to have a 'proper' partner to swing with. | |||
"we wont go near fuck buddies we are a couple who like to share others partners,not someone they are not really that bothered about. swinging is about sharing partners,not an aquaintance. so the single men u have met arent swingers...just used as pawns for ur sexual gratification???-hardly anyone can come up with a definition of what a swinger is these days, wifeswappings a definite no-no..carkeys in the bowls a definite no-no, just as is having to have a 'proper' partner to swing with." single men a dildos that walk and talk | |||
"we wont go near fuck buddies we are a couple who like to share others partners,not someone they are not really that bothered about. swinging is about sharing partners,not an aquaintance. so the single men u have met arent swingers...just used as pawns for ur sexual gratification???-hardly anyone can come up with a definition of what a swinger is these days, wifeswappings a definite no-no..carkeys in the bowls a definite no-no, just as is having to have a 'proper' partner to swing with. single men a dildos that walk and talk" charming......  | |||
I meet as a single, I've never required a companion for safety as I have my own safety steps in place and I won't have 2 couple profiles in place for the fact that I play with 2 different guys at clubs.....my twopennorth for what it's worth  | |||
"we wont go near fuck buddies we are a couple who like to share others partners,not someone they are not really that bothered about. swinging is about sharing partners,not an aquaintance. so the single men u have met arent swingers...just used as pawns for ur sexual gratification???-hardly anyone can come up with a definition of what a swinger is these days, wifeswappings a definite no-no..carkeys in the bowls a definite no-no, just as is having to have a 'proper' partner to swing with. single men a dildos that walk and talk" So what's a single female? A walking talking flesh-light?? | |||
"we wont go near fuck buddies we are a couple who like to share others partners,not someone they are not really that bothered about. swinging is about sharing partners,not an aquaintance." How do you know that fuck buddies aren't bothered about each other? Just because we don't live together, doesn't mean that we don't, we have been 'together' for over a year now so we are definitely not acquaintances | |||
Single women are obviously the "Unicorns" of the site and some seem to command unrealistic things from guys that want to meet them.. I don't believe they are here just to make someone elses life better!
Unlike a pay site we are on, this site does seem to be more of a dating or one night stand site! It has an inordinately high male membership and there are far too many singles in our opinion!
That said, there are some very good singles of our prefered four flavours on here and we have met some, but in general? No thanks! | |||
Usually I spot her eyeing up a guy she likes (usually already knows) and chuck them both in a private room Or she will find a girl (that I usually already know) and tell her to take me off her hands lol. It works for us.
4) We don't actually look for couples - we recognise how hard it is for one person to click with another, factor 4 people that all like and are attracted to each other. Call it lazy? We just know what we like.
5) If a couple (or pair of fuck buddies) that are interested in us get in touch, and the feeling is mutual, then we don't say no. Why should we? We don't have a rule "you must be a couple" or "you must have a couples profile". What next? "You must be married and have marriage certificate to hand to prove it" ??
6) We don't even ask if a "couple" we meet are even legitimate couples (a lot of the ones we know aren't and/or don't live together - but it does not stop us having a fun time when we get together!)
7) Most of the couples that contact TattooedHB usually "want a bi fem" but she refuses (her choice) to meet couples on her own - quite a number of times the offer turns into a 4some (she shows me the emails later) but every now and then she gets a response from the guy wanting to meet her on her own, despite their profile suggesting "single guys - don't try to meet the wife on her own, we don't play separately so it won't happen". Double standards?
8) Statistically, 4 out of 5 fuck-buddies (that we know of) that end up getting a couples profile end up going their separate ways in under 12 months. We've been together over 2 years and are still getting comments of "when's the wedding?" from our friends (PS: "piss of, we ain't getting married!" is our reply lol)
So, do we need a couples profile? Does it change who we are? Does it serve any purpose (as far as we are concerned) that is beneficial to our swinging life? the answer to all the above is "No".
Do the people that already know us over the years and happy to play with us care that much if we have a couples profile or not? they would be the first to say no.
As far as I can see, the only purpose it would serve (us) is to please people that frankly, if they are more concerned by our lack of a couples profile, than what fun we can all have together or what friendships can be made (as we are not into one-offs), then tough: they're not for us anyway. | |||
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"we wont go near fuck buddies we are a couple who like to share others partners,not someone they are not really that bothered about. swinging is about sharing partners,not an aquaintance. How do you know that fuck buddies aren't bothered about each other? Just because we don't live together, doesn't mean that we don't, we have been 'together' for over a year now so we are definitely not acquaintances" I was going to say something similar but just couldn't be arsed as similar comments have been made on other posts...I enjoy playing with my fb both personally and with others, but neither of us want a full time relationship. As for the OP - we have our own profiles and a couples profile so we can dip into each as we see fit. The couples profile states what we are very clearly so if that is not what someone is looking for they can pass us by. Neither of us would throw the other at an unsuspecting meet...that's not fair on anyone x | |||
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"fuck buddies are critising our choice for not to go near them,then moan that they dont want a couples profile??? for fucks sake,you want everything. its our choice,we want real couples not people who just meet up for a shag" No-one is criticising your choice at all nor are we moaning, for me personally its all about a choice and a preference, your preference is not to play with fuck buddies, I don't have a problem with that at all but you need to remember that for some of us, its not about having a group of fuck buddies, some of us don't have time nor do I personally want that; a group of people but have given up on that idea as its not happened. Secondly, my friend and I don't just meet up for a shag, we go to the cinema, we go out for a meal, we have been away on holiday together, we go to clubs and parties. And we don't always shag after any of it, sometimes cuddly in bed is all we want, so in essence, we are in a boyfriend/girlfriend situation without the titles. As to having a couples profile, we haven't got round to it, his new patch means like I said, it would be almost impossible to meet, and its likely, if he stays with this new job, he may have to move away, in which case we will no longer be able to meet. I have 2 jobs so having the time is the same for me. And we both have children. So for us whilst it would be nice to have a couples profile, at this moment in time it would be a waste of time. Your comment 'we are a couple who like to share others partners,not someone they are not really that bothered about.' doesn't apply to all of us but may to some So no we all don't want everything and like I said, your choice not to meet fuck buddies and am happy to comply with that. | |||
"fuck buddies are critising our choice for not to go near them,then moan that they dont want a couples profile??? for fucks sake,you want everything. its our choice,we want real couples not people who just meet up for a shag" perhaps this is when taking both niknak,and _umours points into view, ur both entirely seeing the singles as ONLY looking for sexual gratification, you claim that singles cant share.Other people actually do meet up in venues and sometimes never play with each other(thats called companionship),some people can actually meet up on the premise of not having sex..I should know as I've met a fair deal of people I know....some I've slept in the same bed with without playing...maybe I just take the sharing of experiences and friendship more into the equation than your opinions appear to give.Yes do go on and generalize singles, I dont mind doing it with couples either..90% as I've said in another post are people who might not get much attention meetswise if they were single anyway(the obvious group spring to mind). I'm no advocate of fuckbuddy profiles I'm happy to have an occasional friend join with others though its not something I often deliberately go out to find. look out for my new couple profile- Paddy plus_side_bit | |||
"fuck buddies are critising our choice for not to go near them,then moan that they dont want a couples profile??? for fucks sake,you want everything. its our choice,we want real couples not people who just meet up for a shag perhaps this is when taking both niknak,and _umours points into view, ur both entirely seeing the singles as ONLY looking for sexual gratification, you claim that singles cant share.Other people actually do meet up in venues and sometimes never play with each other(thats called companionship),some people can actually meet up on the premise of not having sex..I should know as I've met a fair deal of people I know....some I've slept in the same bed with without playing...maybe I just take the sharing of experiences and friendship more into the equation than your opinions appear to give.Yes do go on and generalize singles, I dont mind doing it with couples either..90% as I've said in another post are people who might not get much attention meetswise if they were single anyway(the obvious group spring to mind). I'm no advocate of fuckbuddy profiles I'm happy to have an occasional friend join with others though its not something I often deliberately go out to find. look out for my new couple profile- Paddy plus_side_bit" | |||
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"ive noticed at least 1 guy ive met turning into a dick and trying to arrange meets with me involved without my knowledge. its really annoys me and it must piss the other person off. It really annoys me that when a guy has met with a single girl they automatically think they can find me someone else to fuck. Like a pimp!" I sometimes browse profiles looking for meets for my partner and me as we prefer meet as a couple, I would feel too guilty if I was to meet or go to a club without her, somehow if feels wrong even if she says she has no problems with it. The final say on who we play with is with the female half of our couple, that way She in in control and knows I'm not using her as a way in to getting a meet. | |||
"We are often contacted by single guys who want to meet with their FB. We wouldnt mind meeting an FB couple but If we did it wouldn't be from a single profile. When we inform the guy of this, however, he invariably takes offence. Surely if you also meet as an FB couple it wouldn't be too much hassle to create a profile?" Your point is very true and if you read my profile you will see why we havent got ajoint profile yet xxx | |||
"fuck buddies are critising our choice for not to go near them,then moan that they dont want a couples profile??? for fucks sake,you want everything. its our choice,we want real couples not people who just meet up for a shag" no one is criticising who you choose to meet: my take is however more on how you decide who you want to meet. All I've said is if anyone's decision to 'not' meet myself and partner is purely because we don't have a couples profile, ie they would if we got one, then we don't think its worth it. Think about it, if a couple you meet get rid of their couple profile and choose to take up singles profiles but still reference each other available to meet couples, and live together in a relationship... you'll stop meeting them? | |||
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