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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive asked ppl why they do it. Some said it was accidental, others said it gets them noticed over sending a message.
I do think ppl do it just to see private pics. I Dont delete them as they cant send another for 30 days.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mostly op it’s just to see your private pictures so we have put “no friend requests “ in our profile which is one of the ways we can tell if they have read it or not which helps out the chaff on here.
Best of luck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it normal to get friend requests from people who have never even messaged you?
I think it’s strange so I delete them. "
Your get more now youve mentioned it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive asked ppl why they do it. Some said it was accidental, others said it gets them noticed over sending a message.
I do think ppl do it just to see private pics. I Dont delete them as they cant send another for 30 days.
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To be fair this is true. If you are friends then msgs will go to the top of the list and if you are getting lots of msgs its actually a pretty smart move as it can be difficult to maintain conversation and progress when you get lost because others are flooding the inbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get them - and we don’t have any friends pics 
We normally get an message with the excuse “sorry meant to hit wink but hit add as friend instead” when they’ve managed to get past the pics and perhaps actually read our profile. Fact trying that excuse as it’s two different screens  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to delete them... then I thought maybe they want me to see their pics. So I wait till they are off line, accept the request, look at their pics then delete them as friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OMG..don’t get me started..!!!!!
I get tons every day, what’s a guy to do..?!?! 
Had the very rare one without so much as a message, one today in fact, from some random living in Scotland no less.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see a lot of women posting this about people requesting them as friends before even messaging.
I don’t get it, I mean they will get to see my friends pic too, and I’d like to send at least a few messages to know that they won’t be a fake pic collector also.
I think it’s the ones who request a friend request that have no friends pics of their own that are untrustworthy or more likely to be not quite who they say they are. |
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By *rs BxxWoman
over a year ago
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"Ive asked ppl why they do it. Some said it was accidental, others said it gets them noticed over sending a message.
I do think ppl do it just to see private pics. I Dont delete them as they cant send another for 30 days.
To be fair this is true. If you are friends then msgs will go to the top of the list and if you are getting lots of msgs its actually a pretty smart move as it can be difficult to maintain conversation and progress when you get lost because others are flooding the inbox."
I never knew this, I'll be watching now to see if it's true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same OP.. Unless I've chatted they just get deleted..
My theory is... If they cba... Neither can i"
Could not agree more, adds more to the thrill as well, wondering what pics they may/may not have......... I mean it does for me anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Total Stranger friend requests are very `Fab Normal` total stranger as in never even sent a msg. I keep my `friends` list extremely limited. And yes better to not delete as then they cannot keep sending a friend request. I find it quite off the wall tbh... Avoid Them as I do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve had instances where we get a message saying “ X X has accepted your friend request” when we’ve never even sent one!
Has anyone else had this happen? x |
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"I don't have any pics set to friends only and still get random friend requests. I rarely check the requests but when I do I tend to just delete the lot."
Same here, all.my pics are public. Friends are those I've actually met or know.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we get them, always from single men, we have now blocked single men from contacting us, guys, you dont help yourselves, and then come on the forums complaining you cant get meets, its just rude, block and delete, its the only way, shame that we felt the need to block single men, as we do like to meet them sometimes, but as always a few idiots ruin it for the rest |
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