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over a year ago
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Relax, take your time and be patient.
If at first you don't succeed, leave it for another day.
Im working on a bigger toy and can't quite manage it fully but perseverance , stubbornness and sheer determination is what will get me there. ( oh and lube)
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"Relax, take your time and be patient.
If at first you don't succeed, leave it for another day.
Im working on a bigger toy and can't quite manage it fully but perseverance , stubbornness and sheer determination is what will get me there. ( oh and lube)
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By (user no longer on site)
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foreplay, lube, foreplay, lube.
then when you think you've done enough.. more foreplay 
making sure you're 100% comfortable and relaxed, and ease into it.. no rushing.. and listen to your body 
enjoy! i fucking love anal 
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By (user no longer on site)
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So I love anal and have given and received. Here are my top tips!
1) it will fit! Some people are very small but generally it’s a psychological issue and relaxation is key.
2) lube- if you think your got too much-add more.
3) fore play: this is essential and not just anal play. Fingers, dimming, oral, breast play, kissing, massage. You need to bring the A- game to play the A game.
4) orgasm first can help though some women in my experience find the tension or not coming makes them horny to try and take it. In essence know your partner!
5) hard cock- you can’t thumb it in
6) position is key! In my experience a soggy style pounding is not the best start. A nice spooning position is great and means your partner can control pace and depth.
7) communication- duh!
8) control- guys don’t get over excited and pound away until told to do so.
9) bet you wish you had an average cock now!
10) cum in the ass can cause irritation. |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
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Lube.
When you think you've used enough, add a bit more too.
Relax.
If you aren't relaxed you will tighten up making it more painful, therefore making it more stressful. Be wary of using alcohol too much fir thus purpose, one or two drinks may be OK, getting d*unk, won't be.
Douche/enema
Helps to feel relaxed knowing its not likely to get messy. Can also be the beginning of the prep to help take larger stuff. Clean out, butt plug in to start stretching and relaxing.
If it hurts, stop, if the pain continues after a few seconds, stop anal play for a bit, prolonged, intense pain is a warning sign. A slight bit of discomfort is normal but that should ease.
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
London |
"Any tips on how to get relaxed for a good anal session ?
We want to try some thing a bit bigger but not sure on the best way to help make it fit  "
Looks like from your photos that you get pretty damn wet! So that's a good start because foreplay is important anyway but even more so prepping for anal. Gets your muscles nice and relaxed. Use your own juices, once they get flowing, to lube up your arsehole. Give it a slow but good fingering to get it open and lubed internally as well. Then you're good to go - as long as you don't get anxious and tense up.
If that does happen then you may need actual lubrication (from a bottle rather than your vagina) and he will have to slowly inch it in.
But trust me, if all goes to plan, you will both love it!
2 of my previous 'regulars' could actually orgasm from it. |
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Highly recommend silicone lube. Pjur analise me is fantastic. It's relaxing without numbing and stays slick for ever. Go slow, build up gradually through the sizes of toys until you get to the size you want. The human body is amazing at how much it can stretch if you give it time and be gentle. Don't shock it or it will tense up to protect itself. And use 5 times the lube you thing you might need then use some more. Never use numbing agents as your body needs to be able to warn you when it's at its limits for now. And more lube |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lube. Lube. And then more lube. And lube.
We love coconut oil (it's edible and smells nice).
And make sure Mrs has had a few orgasms before you tap the back door.
And lube.
And then it's amazing.
And lube. M |
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