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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm using this site for more than a year but, couldn't manage to make a single meet honestly no one reply for my messages, is this not the place for my kind? |
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
No idea if you watch the news or not, but there's been a global pandemic for the last 12 months. Clubs have been closed and no one is really meeting up.
Maybe wait until it calms down a bit before throwing in the towel? |
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Showing facial pics would be a good start. People shouldn't be meeting right now anyway.
Not everyone likes Asian men but not everyone likes BBW's or Bi Men, or large group sessions or watersports etc etc etc. The point I am trying to make is not everyone likes everything but some people will like some things. Please don't play the race card.
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"I'm using this site for more than a year but, couldn't manage to make a single meet honestly no one reply for my messages, is this not the place for my kind?"
It has nothing to do with race, you have two problems to deal with 1 covid pandemic, and you are male, men on this site out number ladies 20-1 the forums are full of men complaining their messages are ignored and they do not get any replies. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And your profile says you joined 6 months ago ! I would sincerely hope no one would meet you in that time period "
Thanks for ur opinion, I joint this sit 2020 and after an year I decided to quit because nothing worked, |
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"Thanks for ur opinion, I joint this sit 2020 and after an year I decided to quit because nothing worked "
Did your old profile only have three similar pics and two sentences in the description too? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Showing facial pics would be a good start. People shouldn't be meeting right now anyway.
Not everyone likes Asian men but not everyone likes BBW's or Bi Men, or large group sessions or watersports etc etc etc. The point I am trying to make is not everyone likes everything but some people will like some things. Please don't play the race card.
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Thanks for your opinion, this is nothing about race card, because most of the profile they clearly state "no Black or Asian" I don't take this as racism its there preference |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for ur opinion, I joint this sit 2020 and after an year I decided to quit because nothing worked
Did your old profile only have three similar pics and two sentences in the description too?"
No I had more than 10 pics, and i describe about me and what I'm looking for and my interest and what I'm good at, for me sometimes feels like its bit too much, then I looked at some men profile who actually had verified by others, in their description barley 2 or 3 lines, I confused so I decided to make it short this time. Also because of my work and social nature I cant reveal 100% of myself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm using this site for more than a year but, couldn't manage to make a single meet honestly no one reply for my messages, is this not the place for my kind?
It has nothing to do with race, you have two problems to deal with 1 covid pandemic, and you are male, men on this site out number ladies 20-1 the forums are full of men complaining their messages are ignored and they do not get any replies. "
Thanks, I agree with you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for ur opinion, I joint this sit 2020 and after an year I decided to quit because nothing worked
What were your expectations?"
Thanks for your time,
Like to meet some like minded people and have great time with them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No idea if you watch the news or not, but there's been a global pandemic for the last 12 months. Clubs have been closed and no one is really meeting up.
Maybe wait until it calms down a bit before throwing in the towel?"
Thanks for your encouraging words |
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1. Trying to meet during a global pandemic hasn't done you any favours.
2. "Cannot accommodate" at 36 suggests you're either married or with live in partner...that will put some people off who don't agree with cheats.
3. Be more specific about what your expectations are. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"1. Trying to meet during a global pandemic hasn't done you any favours.
2. "Cannot accommodate" at 36 suggests you're either married or with live in partner...that will put some people off who don't agree with cheats.
3. Be more specific about what
your expectations are."
Thanks for ur opinion, everyone in here have their own reasons, if I get what I want then I won't be here looking it, we all cheat someone in some way because we r humans we have our strengths and weaknesses |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"Did you think that covid restrictions didnt apply on here, OP?
Thanks, I'm here well before covid, I joint this site 2020 and left and rejoin"
Erm, the covid pandemic was only declared in 2020 and lockdown and restrictions started in March 2020, so you can't have been here long before Covid.
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"1. Trying to meet during a global pandemic hasn't done you any favours.
2. "Cannot accommodate" at 36 suggests you're either married or with live in partner...that will put some people off who don't agree with cheats.
3. Be more specific about what
your expectations are.
Thanks for ur opinion, everyone in here have their own reasons, if I get what I want then I won't be here looking it, we all cheat someone in some way because we r humans we have our strengths and weaknesses "
To be fair, your profile doesn’t give a woman much info about yourself. Unless you are chatting in the chat rooms you aren’t going to get people contacting you/interested. The chat rooms on here aren’t the best... but can at least try. |
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"1. Trying to meet during a global pandemic hasn't done you any favours.
2. "Cannot accommodate" at 36 suggests you're either married or with live in partner...that will put some people off who don't agree with cheats.
3. Be more specific about what
your expectations are.
Thanks for ur opinion, everyone in here have their own reasons, if I get what I want then I won't be here looking it, we all cheat someone in some way because we r humans we have our strengths and weaknesses "
..and this may be a turn off to a significant number of the people you're looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your opinion, this is nothing about race card, because most of the profile they clearly state "no Black or Asian" I don't take this as racism its there preference
No they don't"
There are plenty of profile with "NO BLACK OR ASIAN" remark I don't want to point it out each individuals, please do some search |
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Thanks for your opinion, this is nothing about race card, because most of the profile they clearly state "no Black or Asian" I don't take this as racism its there preference
No they don't
There are plenty of profile with "NO BLACK OR ASIAN" remark I don't want to point it out each individuals, please do some search "
You said that most profiles state no black or Asian. I'm saying that most don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps work on spelling and grammar, a lot of people look at this to gauge a person. It's hard to express who you are over written messages, so make sure that they're written well.
And the can't accommodate thing also screams of being in a relationship. |
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"1. Trying to meet during a global pandemic hasn't done you any favours.
2. "Cannot accommodate" at 36 suggests you're either married or with live in partner...that will put some people off who don't agree with cheats.
3. Be more specific about what
your expectations are.
Thanks for ur opinion, everyone in here have their own reasons, if I get what I want then I won't be here looking it, we all cheat someone in some way because we r humans we have our strengths and weaknesses "
Oh my.
Swinging is built on trust and honesty.
Cheating is based on lies, manipulation and betrayal.
I came here looking for honesty, not more cheats and liars. A fair amount of people are the same. Find themselves here because they got a little bit broken by someone who pretended to love them and was too cowardly to tell the truth. |
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To the OP. We would never meet anyone who was seeking to do so during the pandemic. If someone contacted us asking to do so we would block them immediately.
You seem like a nice guy. Just step back and take a little more time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To the OP. We would never meet anyone who was seeking to do so during the pandemic. If someone contacted us asking to do so we would block them immediately.
You seem like a nice guy. Just step back and take a little more time."
Thank you for your encouraging words |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
Apart from the fact that most of the world has been in lockdown for a year, you could have spent the time when you weren't meeting working on your profile so that it was attractive as and when meets are allowed again.
Always remember -
Effort in = results out!
No effort = no results! |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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OP - Like you I am as a single guy of ethnic minority who can’t accommodate.My way to get more out of Fabs is to be more positive on the forums.Attend socials and go to club or spa.Perhaps be brave and add a couple of face pictures and add more to your profile. |
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"Apart from the fact that most of the world has been in lockdown for a year, you could have spent the time when you weren't meeting working on your profile so that it was attractive as and when meets are allowed again.
Always remember -
Effort in = results out!
No effort = no results! "
Are you a Maths teacher by any chance? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. Trying to meet during a global pandemic hasn't done you any favours.
2. "Cannot accommodate" at 36 suggests you're either married or with live in partner...that will put some people off who don't agree with cheats.
3. Be more specific about what
your expectations are.
Thanks for ur opinion, everyone in here have their own reasons, if I get what I want then I won't be here looking it, we all cheat someone in some way because we r humans we have our strengths and weaknesses "
So if you are cheating then obviously you won't be honest with your partner who matters most but you will likely get a little more respect by been honest about it here on your profile.
Many won't response currently because your profile hints your potentially cheating and by your admission here you are. At least by stating your cheating and looking for discretion your then allowing people who may want to meet you to make an informed choice and will attract those who don't mind if your cheating and may need discretion also.
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"Apart from the fact that most of the world has been in lockdown for a year, you could have spent the time when you weren't meeting working on your profile so that it was attractive as and when meets are allowed again.
Always remember -
Effort in = results out!
No effort = no results!
Are you a Maths teacher by any chance? "
Good guess |
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"There are plenty of profile with "NO BLACK OR ASIAN" remark I don't want to point it out each individuals, please do some search "
There are also plenty that don't say that. So that can't be why you've had no meets.
Why do you think you've not had any meets? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well..for one your profile doesn't interest me.
Theres enough on here for profile help.
To say you joined 12m ago but profile say different.. no accommodate with no reasons..
Well each to their own.. but regardless of pandemic.. it's still a no.
Good luck |
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By *konCouple
over a year ago
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"Did you think that covid restrictions didnt apply on here, OP?
Thanks, I'm here well before covid, I joint this site 2020 and left and rejoin
Erm, the covid pandemic was only declared in 2020 and lockdown and restrictions started in March 2020, so you can't have been here long before Covid.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you think that covid restrictions didnt apply on here, OP?
Thanks, I'm here well before covid, I joint this site 2020 and left and rejoin
Erm, the covid pandemic was only declared in 2020 and lockdown and restrictions started in March 2020, so you can't have been here long before Covid.
don’t let facts get in the way of all those flying chips hitting shoulders "
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you think that covid restrictions didnt apply on here, OP?
Thanks, I'm here well before covid, I joint this site 2020 and left and rejoin
Erm, the covid pandemic was only declared in 2020 and lockdown and restrictions started in March 2020, so you can't have been here long before Covid.
don’t let facts get in the way of all those flying chips hitting shoulders
I agree "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks for ur opinion, everyone in here have their own reasons, if I get what I want then I won't be here looking it, we all cheat someone in some way because we r humans we have our strengths and weaknesses "
Everyone is here for their own reasons and I don’t judge anybody for them but wtf? This screams entitlement. Your profile is lacking and so is your character by this statement. It could be a language barrier but you should take your time with what you say to people. You’re putting virtually zero effort into your profile which is going to be the results you yield. Also it’s a pandemic. Stop trying to meet people and take this break as a chance to improve your attitude and profile on this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks for ur opinion, everyone in here have their own reasons, if I get what I want then I won't be here looking it, we all cheat someone in some way because we r humans we have our strengths and weaknesses
Everyone is here for their own reasons and I don’t judge anybody for them but wtf? This screams entitlement. Your profile is lacking and so is your character by this statement. It could be a language barrier but you should take your time with what you say to people. You’re putting virtually zero effort into your profile which is going to be the results you yield. Also it’s a pandemic. Stop trying to meet people and take this break as a chance to improve your attitude and profile on this site. "
Here here |
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Just to add the other side to this.
Asian male here - and met a lot of lovely people and had a fair few meets socially and otherwise in the past.
Sadly not for a yr... But fingers crossed Boris give the green light to fix that bloody soon!! |
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We are Asian and if we saw your profile we too wouldn’t meet.
No description, no face pictures, cannot accommodate, nothing to entice us so we would move past your profile and find someone who ticks our boxes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm using this site for more than a year but, couldn't manage to make a single meet honestly no one reply for my messages, is this not the place for my kind?"
No need for drama, take on board some of the aforementioned advise and simply be patient. After the CV pandemic contagion is no longer a threat, maybe you’ll be pleasantly surprised. Stay positive and don’t be disheartened. Remember, all good things cum to those who wait. Praised is the virtue of patience. |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts |
For me your profile doesn't stand out at all. Your forum subject matter doesn't inspire me confidence or make you personality shine. Plus your typos/use of language would intice me to chat. Sorry |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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"For me your profile doesn't stand out at all. Your forum subject matter doesn't inspire me confidence or make you personality shine. Plus your typos/use of language would intice me to chat.
Sorry"
Wouldn't *** |
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I come across many profiles that say No asians, some saying no Blacks and even some that say no white guys
The honest truth is everyone has there preference, whether it be race, age, height, weight. Men are the majority on this site in a big way, my friend posted a photo and showed me around 300 msgs she received within an hour, now you look at your profile and think to yourself out of that 300 why would she choose you?
This is the harsh truth, be patient and go to some clubs when they reopen would be my best advice |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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"I come across many profiles that say No asians, some saying no Blacks and even some that say no white guys
The honest truth is everyone has there preference, whether it be race, age, height, weight. Men are the majority on this site in a big way, my friend posted a photo and showed me around 300 msgs she received within an hour, now you look at your profile and think to yourself out of that 300 why would she choose you?
This is the harsh truth, be patient and go to some clubs when they reopen would be my best advice"
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm using this site for more than a year but, couldn't manage to make a single meet honestly no one reply for my messages, is this not the place for my kind?"
What is the word for incongruent in your first language?
We have some great non entitled friends.
We are lucky. |
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OP / your pics show you have a great physique and beautiful nips. Be great to see more of you and learn more about you and what you offer/are looking for
Not everyone is into Desi and it’s a bit of a shitty time to look forward meets. But hopefully in a few months things may start to open up
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"I suspect less people will wish to meet yourself now than want to meet the OP"
Who gives a fuck? I’m not desperate to meet anyone. And I love how everyone is skipping the “spelling and grammar” part which is clearly the reason for the rant in the first place. Again, self righteous. Truth hurts. |
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What is the word for incongruent in your first language?
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Asangat in Hindi / though not sure what the OP’s first language is
What’s more important than spelling n grammar is how well versed he is at Kama Sutra |
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"For me your profile doesn't stand out at all. Your forum subject matter doesn't inspire me confidence or make you personality shine. Plus your typos/use of language would intice me to chat. Sorry"
This is one example. “Plus your typos/use of language..” while making mistakes yourself. I.e “make “you” personality shine” The irony. It’s easy to make mistakes we’re all human. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spelling and grammar are important to me, if a man cannot be bothered to check his spelling and grammar then I can't be bothered to reply to him nevermind let him into my bed. And just to be clear it doesnt matter what his race is, so it is not racist to have personal rules that apply to ALL.
Colour of skin or nationality does not matter to me, the ability to string a coherent sentence together does. |
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"Out of 78 replies....,3 people mentioned spelling/grammar.
The rest were actual profile advice "
Mine wasn't advice, I just think like many others will that the OP has a right wanky attitude in relation to not only cheating on his partner but being seemingly braggy about doing so with an air of entitlement.
Cowardly and misogynist spring to mind with fuck all to do with spelling or grammar, but it has plenty to do with intelligence. Emotional intelligence and moral values. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Out of 78 replies....,3 people mentioned spelling/grammar.
The rest were actual profile advice "
Mine wasn't advice, I just think like many others will that the OP has a right wanky attitude in relation to not only cheating on his partner but being seemingly braggy about doing so with an air of entitlement.
Cowardly and misogynist spring to mind with fuck all to do with spelling or grammar, but it has plenty to do with intelligence. Emotional intelligence and moral values."
Not all have the emotional intelligence to even comprehend the wrong doings or accept responsibility |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Out of 78 replies....,3 people mentioned spelling/grammar.
The rest were actual profile advice "
Mine wasn't advice, I just think like many others will that the OP has a right wanky attitude in relation to not only cheating on his partner but being seemingly braggy about doing so with an air of entitlement.
Cowardly and misogynist spring to mind with fuck all to do with spelling or grammar, but it has plenty to do with intelligence. Emotional intelligence and moral values.
Not all have the emotional intelligence to even comprehend the wrong doings or accept responsibility "
Agreed... a lot blatantly don’t give a shit if they can get their cock wet!
I have a way with words this evening! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Out of 78 replies....,3 people mentioned spelling/grammar.
The rest were actual profile advice "
Mine wasn't advice, I just think like many others will that the OP has a right wanky attitude in relation to not only cheating on his partner but being seemingly braggy about doing so with an air of entitlement.
Cowardly and misogynist spring to mind with fuck all to do with spelling or grammar, but it has plenty to do with intelligence. Emotional intelligence and moral values.
Not all have the emotional intelligence to even comprehend the wrong doings or accept responsibility
Agreed... a lot blatantly don’t give a shit if they can get their cock wet!
I have a way with words this evening! "
Like Shakespeare himself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morality talk on a swinging site ?
We joined this site because it’s a swinging site. It’s not a dating site. Stop confusing the two concepts
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You think morality and swinging are mutually exclusive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op, have a search on the forum for the 10s and 10s of other threads about Asian men.
Put your armour on and have a read. You won't like a lot of what you read, but it will answer your question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With a body like that I think you stand more than a chance. For anyone other than the most pedantic your spelling and grammar wouldn’t be an issue either. Good luck after lockdown, sure you’ll get plenty of offers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Out of 78 replies....,3 people mentioned spelling/grammar.
The rest were actual profile advice "
Mine wasn't advice, I just think like many others will that the OP has a right wanky attitude in relation to not only cheating on his partner but being seemingly braggy about doing so with an air of entitlement.
Cowardly and misogynist spring to mind with fuck all to do with spelling or grammar, but it has plenty to do with intelligence. Emotional intelligence and moral values.
Not all have the emotional intelligence to even comprehend the wrong doings or accept responsibility
Agreed... a lot blatantly don’t give a shit if they can get their cock wet!
I have a way with words this evening! "
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Did you think that covid restrictions didnt apply on here, OP?
Thanks, I'm here well before covid, I joint this site 2020 and left and rejoin"
I think you'll find Covid19 joined in 2020 & cancelled all meets. For some of us it will be quite some time until some of us do meet again.
There are a lot of members here and someone may be interested, you just gotta be patient or charming. Preferably both
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"No idea if you watch the news or not, but there's been a global pandemic for the last 12 months. Clubs have been closed and no one is really meeting up.
Maybe wait until it calms down a bit before throwing in the towel?"
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"I'm using this site for more than a year but, couldn't manage to make a single meet honestly no one reply for my messages, is this not the place for my kind?"
Fab is a bit like the Arc but for humans.
There's room for everyone but just like ke the Arc don't expect all of the humans to get along and want to have sex with each other just because they're all sharing the same space. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm using this site for more than a year but, couldn't manage to make a single meet honestly no one reply for my messages, is this not the place for my kind?"
Everyone has a chance. It's obviously a bit tricky at the moment with COVID. Perhaps pop along to a club once they open again OP,get chatting to people in person. See what happens.. |
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By *ouple 71Couple
over a year ago
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"I'm using this site for more than a year but, couldn't manage to make a single meet honestly no one reply for my messages, is this not the place for my kind?" seriously , like everyone else has said, did you notice the closed clubs, the global pandemic , the profiles saying no meets till
It’s safe. Very curious now as to what you thought we would all be doing in here during a year of lockdown ? Jeez. |
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