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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys,
Does anyone know of any sites where we can post amateur pics?
I'm wanting to boost the wife's body confidence.
She's a size 18 and very sexy but doesn't agree.
She needs compliments to help her agree with what I'm telling her.
Any help/ ideas much appreciated.
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"I think trying to persuade her to put pictures out online if she doesn’t want to is dangerous ground x"
Totally agree and now with new law you could find yourself in bother with the police if she decides it is a breach of trust.
I would encourage her and you to talk more and try to compliment her all the time so it resets her beliefs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont think that's a good idea. While there are guys who do like BBW and may give compliments unfortunately there are others who are very likely to give abuse so you'd be defeating your objective. I don't know what the solution is but exposing her to potentially abuse isn't it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think trying to persuade her to put pictures out online if she doesn’t want to is dangerous ground x"
Hi, not gonna do it without her permission.
I need ideas so I can discuss them with her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think trying to persuade her to put pictures out online if she doesn’t want to is dangerous ground x
Totally agree and now with new law you could find yourself in bother with the police if she decides it is a breach of trust.
I would encourage her and you to talk more and try to compliment her all the time so it resets her beliefs."
Hi, not gonna do it without her permission.
I need ideas so I can discuss them with her. |
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"I dont think that's a good idea. While there are guys who do like BBW and may give compliments unfortunately there are others who are very likely to give abuse so you'd be defeating your objective. I don't know what the solution is but exposing her to potentially abuse isn't it. "
Hi and thanks for your.
I'm looking for sites where bbw is a category to post in.
But I take on board what you've said |
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"I dont think that's a good idea. While there are guys who do like BBW and may give compliments unfortunately there are others who are very likely to give abuse so you'd be defeating your objective. I don't know what the solution is but exposing her to potentially abuse isn't it.
Hi and thanks for your.
I'm looking for sites where bbw is a category to post in.
But I take on board what you've said "
Maybe have a go on cam with her as it might be better for her and maybe if you strike up a private chat with another couple or fem or man they can help with the confidence |
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Fab! There are many guys who like fuller figures. Start maybe with one of a body part she likes. It took me a while to post a picture of my ass but I've had many lovely compliments on it. Maybe even shell out on a boudoir shoot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys,
Does anyone know of any sites where we can post amateur pics?
I'm wanting to boost the wife's body confidence.
She's a size 18 and very sexy but doesn't agree.
She needs compliments to help her agree with what I'm telling her.
Any help/ ideas much appreciated.
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That’s how my wife got started on here and it worked a treat for here so I suggest here.
T |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Readers wives section of escort/fiesta magazine. There will be thousands of teenage lads up and down the country wanking over her pics. That’s after they found the mag in a random hedge/bush walking home from school/college (don’t forget a big hairy beaver is compulsory)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fab! There are many guys who like fuller figures. Start maybe with one of a body part she likes. It took me a while to post a picture of my ass but I've had many lovely compliments on it. Maybe even shell out on a boudoir shoot."
Hi K, yeah that's a great idea. I love curves on a women. More to grab hold of. Do you know where I can get a bodouir shoot done? I'd like a couples photo shoot.
Love your pics by the way.
James x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I dont think that's a good idea. While there are guys who do like BBW and may give compliments unfortunately there are others who are very likely to give abuse so you'd be defeating your objective. I don't know what the solution is but exposing her to potentially abuse isn't it.
Hi and thanks for your.
I'm looking for sites where bbw is a category to post in.
But I take on board what you've said
Maybe have a go on cam with her as it might be better for her and maybe if you strike up a private chat with another couple or fem or man they can help with the confidence "
Yeah I'd like to cam or chat with another couple. She has said that she won't swing so this may be better for us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Readers wives section of escort/fiesta magazine. There will be thousands of teenage lads up and down the country wanking over her pics. That’s after they found the mag in a random hedge/bush walking home from school/college (don’t forget a big hairy beaver is compulsory) "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi guys,
Does anyone know of any sites where we can post amateur pics?
I'm wanting to boost the wife's body confidence.
She's a size 18 and very sexy but doesn't agree.
She needs compliments to help her agree with what I'm telling her.
Any help/ ideas much appreciated.
That’s how my wife got started on here and it worked a treat for here so I suggest here.
T"
Hi, thanks for the message. Wife won't agree to fab as she has said she won't swing. Need another site for pics only. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any forum you post pictures in that allows comments, no matter what site, will attract both positive and negative. For everyone who thinks a bigger girl is beautiful there are just as many, if not more who want to tell her she’s disgusting.
I’d suggest she posts on here. Getting ‘fabs’ on your pics can be a little confidence boost and there’s no way anyone can comment so you don’t get the negative side of it.
Feel comfortable with your body is a tricky thing. Sometimes you still feel shit even if other people like what they see.
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"Hi guys,
Does anyone know of any sites where we can post amateur pics?
I'm wanting to boost the wife's body confidence.
She's a size 18 and very sexy but doesn't agree.
She needs compliments to help her agree with what I'm telling her.
Any help/ ideas much appreciated.
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If she wants confidence, change your misleading single male profile to a couple, bring her on here, and see how it goes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seeking confidence from the validation of people on the internet is why society is in the mess it is is in it won't achieve what you want.
If she isn't happy with her body there isn't a quick fix and you being in a swinging site without her isn't helping. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont think that's a good idea. While there are guys who do like BBW and may give compliments unfortunately there are others who are very likely to give abuse so you'd be defeating your objective. I don't know what the solution is but exposing her to potentially abuse isn't it. "
I agree with you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys,
Does anyone know of any sites where we can post amateur pics?
I'm wanting to boost the wife's body confidence.
She's a size 18 and very sexy but doesn't agree.
She needs compliments to help her agree with what I'm telling her.
Any help/ ideas much appreciated.
That’s how my wife got started on here and it worked a treat for here so I suggest here.
T
Hi, thanks for the message. Wife won't agree to fab as she has said she won't swing. Need another site for pics only."
So why are you here? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi guys,
Does anyone know of any sites where we can post amateur pics?
I'm wanting to boost the wife's body confidence.
She's a size 18 and very sexy but doesn't agree.
She needs compliments to help her agree with what I'm telling her.
Any help/ ideas much appreciated.
If she wants confidence, change your misleading single male profile to a couple, bring her on here, and see how it goes."
Morning, yeah I might just do that as many have said fab is the place to show pics. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi guys,
Does anyone know of any sites where we can post amateur pics?
I'm wanting to boost the wife's body confidence.
She's a size 18 and very sexy but doesn't agree.
She needs compliments to help her agree with what I'm telling her.
Any help/ ideas much appreciated.
That’s how my wife got started on here and it worked a treat for here so I suggest here.
T
Hi, thanks for the message. Wife won't agree to fab as she has said she won't swing. Need another site for pics only.
So why are you here? "
I'm here to get help an ideas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Body confidence comes from within regardless of how many people tell you how wonderful you look. Unfortunately on sites like these the compliments are likely to feel shallow due to ulterior motives so sometimes work in reverse, especially as insults are equally likely and a thick skin is needed.
Perhaps work together outside of these forums to build her up naturally? Hopefully she knows you're here as that could be a huge confidence knock ... there are also websites with good advice and help about so could try googling those together too? It's not really everyone's cup of tea posting naked or half clad pictures online regardless of body confidence issues ... I definitely don't as it's a bit of a minefield to be honest |
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"Hi guys,
Does anyone know of any sites where we can post amateur pics?
I'm wanting to boost the wife's body confidence.
She's a size 18 and very sexy but doesn't agree.
She needs compliments to help her agree with what I'm telling her.
Any help/ ideas much appreciated.
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Once pictures are out there... They are out there... Is it really for her benefit or for yours? Maybe if she's got confidence issues that can be addressed before she bears all for random strangers on the Internet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Show her the pics on your profile and say " this is how hot you can look"
His wife looks good in those pics....
Yeah she is stunning mate"
She knows you've put those pics on a website? I hope so |
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"Hi guys,
Does anyone know of any sites where we can post amateur pics?
I'm wanting to boost the wife's body confidence.
She's a size 18 and very sexy but doesn't agree.
She needs compliments to help her agree with what I'm telling her.
Any help/ ideas much appreciated.
That’s how my wife got started on here and it worked a treat for here so I suggest here.
T
Hi, thanks for the message. Wife won't agree to fab as she has said she won't swing. Need another site for pics only.
So why are you here?
I'm here to get help an ideas"
So you been here over a year looking for ideas for your wife's body issues who is clearly not the person shown in your pics .... very sad |
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"Hi guys,
Does anyone know of any sites where we can post amateur pics?
I'm wanting to boost the wife's body confidence.
She's a size 18 and very sexy but doesn't agree.
She needs compliments to help her agree with what I'm telling her.
Any help/ ideas much appreciated.
That’s how my wife got started on here and it worked a treat for here so I suggest here.
T
Hi, thanks for the message. Wife won't agree to fab as she has said she won't swing. Need another site for pics only.
So why are you here?
I'm here to get help an ideas"
And how are the webcam sessions with men helping with that?
Lou x |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
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Forgive me if I have this wrong.
But
You say she has no confidence. Is it you that that wants to post her pictures to see what reactions you get?
I'm getting the impression she has no knowledge of any of this. Others have suggested webcam on here, but it appears you are steering that idea towards the bin.
She doesn't have to swing to be on here.
Or is it you don't want her to see you have a single account on here.
As I say I might be wrong, but it isn't adding up for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys,
Does anyone know of any sites where we can post amateur pics?
I'm wanting to boost the wife's body confidence.
She's a size 18 and very sexy but doesn't agree.
She needs compliments to help her agree with what I'm telling her.
Any help/ ideas much appreciated.
That’s how my wife got started on here and it worked a treat for here so I suggest here.
T
Hi, thanks for the message. Wife won't agree to fab as she has said she won't swing. Need another site for pics only.
So why are you here?
I'm here to get help an ideas
So you been here over a year looking for ideas for your wife's body issues who is clearly not the person shown in your pics .... very sad "
Posting pics without consent is illegal i think? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lol..
Love it when you get a reply, directly to our inbox...
From an OP.
Forums are that place to discuss Forum things
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Sorry clicked wrong tab.
Hi,
I'm looking for ideas on where to post pics of her and me.
Once I've got advice I'll then mention it to her and if she says yes we'll do some research ourselves.
I'd like to us to both cam with others and I'm not steering away from that.
She has said that she won't swing so mentioning cam fun now will probably not be a goer.
A lot of people have said post pics on here but I'm not to sure about that?
James x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol..
Love it when you get a reply, directly to our inbox...
From an OP.
Forums are that place to discuss Forum things
Sorry clicked wrong tab.
Hi,
I'm looking for ideas on where to post pics of her and me.
Once I've got advice I'll then mention it to her and if she says yes we'll do some research ourselves.
I'd like to us to both cam with others and I'm not steering away from that.
She has said that she won't swing so mentioning cam fun now will probably not be a goer.
A lot of people have said post pics on here but I'm not to sure about that?
James x
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Does she know your on here?
Is she the person in your pics
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lol..
Love it when you get a reply, directly to our inbox...
From an OP.
Forums are that place to discuss Forum things
Sorry clicked wrong tab.
Hi,
I'm looking for ideas on where to post pics of her and me.
Once I've got advice I'll then mention it to her and if she says yes we'll do some research ourselves.
I'd like to us to both cam with others and I'm not steering away from that.
She has said that she won't swing so mentioning cam fun now will probably not be a goer.
A lot of people have said post pics on here but I'm not to sure about that?
James x
Does she know your on here?
Is she the person in your pics
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She knows I'm on here for chat fun and the women in the pics is not her but I have permission for the pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So your wife knows about the pics of other person?
Yes she does "
Do you believe that you being on here, with pictures of you with another lady are helping her confidence levels? Likewise do you really think putting raunchy pictures of her on the internet will actually help? Instead, maybe getting help with her issues and supporting her on her journey fully may have more of a positive impact in her life? And therefore both of yours ... |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
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"Show her the pics on your profile and say " this is how hot you can look"
His wife looks good in those pics....
Yeah she is stunning mate
She knows you've put those pics on a website? I hope so"
So are the pictures on your profile her or not, one reply suggests they are and on another you say they are not her |
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Don’t think you need pictures to boost your wife ,talk and do it yourself , my wife was very nervous at the start due to motherhood with two children .let her buy clothes that make her feel comfortable,my wife felt good about her boobs so I encouraged her to wear more revealing tops ,she was complimented which Helped a lot ,started wearing underwear that enhanced her figure ,basques etc.at the club she got chatted up quite a lot really boosting her confidence,let me take photos ,and the ones she likes I’m allowed to post ,tell her you love her treat her nice leads to a better married life with the extra fun of swinging |
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"Lol..
Love it when you get a reply, directly to our inbox...
From an OP.
Forums are that place to discuss Forum things
Sorry clicked wrong tab.
Hi,
I'm looking for ideas on where to post pics of her and me.
Once I've got advice I'll then mention it to her and if she says yes we'll do some research ourselves.
I'd like to us to both cam with others and I'm not steering away from that.
She has said that she won't swing so mentioning cam fun now will probably not be a goer.
A lot of people have said post pics on here but I'm not to sure about that?
James x
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Sounds to me like you are doing this backwards. Surely talking openly with her first, & establishing whether she has any interest in posting pics of herself online, would make more sense? Posting pics may give her a confidence boost, but it could also have the opposite effect.
You say she knows you are on here for chat etc, has she seen your profile & the pics you have with others? I'm not sure that will really be helping her with her confidence issues.
Communication is integrally important in any relationship, as is total honesty. I'd say your time would be far better spent talking to her and putting your energy in to building her up & helping her, rather than asking strangers on a swingers site, that you are on as a single male, for advice.
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"Hi guys,
Does anyone know of any sites where we can post amateur pics?
I'm wanting to boost the wife's body confidence.
She's a size 18 and very sexy but doesn't agree.
She needs compliments to help her agree with what I'm telling her.
Any help/ ideas much appreciated.
That’s how my wife got started on here and it worked a treat for here so I suggest here.
T
Hi, thanks for the message. Wife won't agree to fab as she has said she won't swing. Need another site for pics only.
So why are you here?
I'm here to get help an ideas
So you been here over a year looking for ideas for your wife's body issues who is clearly not the person shown in your pics .... very sad
Posting pics without consent is illegal i think? "
I didn't appreciate his pm saying it is ... she's clearly not 18 stone and I'm not a dumb blonde  |
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"Hi guys,
Does anyone know of any sites where we can post amateur pics?
I'm wanting to boost the wife's body confidence.
She's a size 18 and very sexy but doesn't agree.
She needs compliments to help her agree with what I'm telling her.
Any help/ ideas much appreciated.
That’s how my wife got started on here and it worked a treat for here so I suggest here.
T
Hi, thanks for the message. Wife won't agree to fab as she has said she won't swing. Need another site for pics only.
So why are you here?
I'm here to get help an ideas
So you been here over a year looking for ideas for your wife's body issues who is clearly not the person shown in your pics .... very sad
Posting pics without consent is illegal i think?
I didn't appreciate his pm saying it is ... she's clearly not 18 stone and I'm not a dumb blonde "
Yeah I think he PM’d most people. God loves a trier.
Lou x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi guys,
Does anyone know of any sites where we can post amateur pics?
I'm wanting to boost the wife's body confidence.
She's a size 18 and very sexy but doesn't agree.
She needs compliments to help her agree with what I'm telling her.
Any help/ ideas much appreciated.
That’s how my wife got started on here and it worked a treat for here so I suggest here.
T
Hi, thanks for the message. Wife won't agree to fab as she has said she won't swing. Need another site for pics only.
So why are you here?
I'm here to get help an ideas
So you been here over a year looking for ideas for your wife's body issues who is clearly not the person shown in your pics .... very sad
Posting pics without consent is illegal i think?
I didn't appreciate his pm saying it is ... she's clearly not 18 stone and I'm not a dumb blonde
Yeah I think he PM’d most people. God loves a trier.
Lou x "
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"Hi guys,
Does anyone know of any sites where we can post amateur pics?
I'm wanting to boost the wife's body confidence.
She's a size 18 and very sexy but doesn't agree.
She needs compliments to help her agree with what I'm telling her.
Any help/ ideas much appreciated.
That’s how my wife got started on here and it worked a treat for here so I suggest here.
T
Hi, thanks for the message. Wife won't agree to fab as she has said she won't swing. Need another site for pics only.
So why are you here?
I'm here to get help an ideas
So you been here over a year looking for ideas for your wife's body issues who is clearly not the person shown in your pics .... very sad
Posting pics without consent is illegal i think?
I didn't appreciate his pm saying it is ... she's clearly not 18 stone and I'm not a dumb blonde
Yeah I think he PM’d most people. God loves a trier.
Lou x "
Guess he got no where he's now gone UNLOS  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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His poor wife. I’m sure she’d be far more confident if her husband wasn’t on Fab, trying to get her to swing and wanting to show her off all over the internet to meet his own needs. She knows she’s not enough for him, obviously, because he keeps asking for more. I’m sure that doesn’t do a thing for making her feel good.
He private messaged me too, I told him the above. |
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