FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Support and Advice > Profile advice

Profile advice

Jump to: Newest in thread

By *teelcitycouple85 OP Couple over a year ago

sheffield

Hi guys

Can anyone suggest any way we could improve our profile?

Don’t be to harsh lol x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

The first pic we see is extremely graphic. Maybe put it in friends only ? Other than a penis we see nothing at all of the man.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *edantic SheilaWoman over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"The first pic we see is extremely graphic. Maybe put it in friends only ? Other than a penis we see nothing at all of the man. "
Agreed

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *uliaChrisCouple over a year ago

westerham

We are a bit shy and retiring in swinging terms, so don't take this too seriously, but all your pics are too graphic for us. Way too scary.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

You're looking for soft swing with a woman, so why do you think pics of intercourse will attract her ?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *uliaChrisCouple over a year ago

westerham

Your text is confusing as well, you talk in terms of starting with soft swing with a girl, but your interests are down as couples.

It's been discussed before on fab, I think the consensus was that the number of single women looking for soft swing with couples was v v small indeed.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *iss DevilWoman over a year ago

Bedford

What can you offer the woman? Soft swing- meaning no intercourse with the man, but would he be involved? How? Oral, fingering, kissing? Anything else?

What is the lady's experience with women? Has she had any before? I know she's labelled as bisexual on your profile but you'd be surprised how many times I got told "oh, yes, she is bisexual, though she has never been with a woman"... Huh? So how does she know she is bisexual then?

I would like to know, before making a decision whether or not to meet them, what kind of experience the woman has. And preferably hear it from her rather than him.

Talking about photos- I would certainly tune them down a tad, leave something for the imagination.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

As others said, you need more pics of the man, any women playing with both, would want to see both of you and you can't see much of him.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Too many action pics...we know what fucking looks like...maybe some clothed classy pics?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ent in BlackMan over a year ago

Silsden

Reading your profile, I interpret it as you’re looking for just a woman for a threesome?

I could be totally wrong and apologise if I am, it’s just how it reads to me.

I’d possibly change the profile pic to one that’s a bit less full on.

Good luck happy swinging.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman over a year ago

London

It is hard to know sometimes what will work for a profile and also there is an element of self and sexual expression for many of us of course.

Personally I would suggest to think about the people you wish to attract and orient it towards that (not a failproof method but it does help). For example, if I you are interested in single women then think what they would be attracted to, mention in your profile what you have to offer, what's in it for her. Also, your photos while undoubtedly hot, seem to be taken by the man for the male gaze - which works perfectly if you are looking for the third man but if you are looking for couples or single women then think more about the female gaze, what she would want to see.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

» Add a new message to this topic