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What should I change on my profile
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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You have a lot of pictures which are very similar, and a lot of cock pics. I'd try to add a bit more variety.
The profile text is better than some I have read, but there's nothing that really stands out or gives any idea of your personality, interests or what you have to offer.
Having said that, you've had meets & got verifications, so it's clearly working for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've made some changes after your advice. Hope it's more palatable
Thanks all"
Sometimes can accommodate? You should explain on profile why you can only Sometimes |
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"Hi all just after some advice on what I should chang about my profile
Your feedback would be appreciated"
Your profile states that you'd meet people agged 18-99. If that's true (which I doubt) it doesn't give the impression that you're very choosy. If it isn't true, why not change it? Likewise, you might want to review your list of interests.
People who bother to read your profile will form a judgement based on its contents so the more accurate the representation of you and what you really want, the better. Yes there will be those who couldn't care less about what you've written but if you were satisfied with the response from them so far you wouldn't have posted asking for feedback on your profile.
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I think you need to have another look at your pics.
17 Nov 2020 and 27 Nov 2020 are identical.
15 Aug 2020 and 19 Nov 2020 are identical.
3 Sept 2020 and 22 Sept 2020 are identical except one is colour and one black and white.
20 October 2018 and 20 October 2019 are identical except one is colour and one black and white. |
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"Do women look at that much detail when looking at a profile?"
I do. I would find it odd that the same photo was posted a year apart. I would then wonder if the dates on the others were accurate.
I would think if someone couldn't be bothered to check if half their pics were duplicated, would they make much effort if I met them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And still you can't accommodate? For what ever reason it will be a red flag to people "
I have now put the reason up it's due to my teen kids live with me but I'm apprehensive about putting that information up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do women look at that much detail when looking at a profile?
I do. I would find it odd that the same photo was posted a year apart. I would then wonder if the dates on the others were accurate.
I would think if someone couldn't be bothered to check if half their pics were duplicated, would they make much effort if I met them. "
That's understandable |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And still you can't accommodate? For what ever reason it will be a red flag to people
I have now put the reason up it's due to my teen kids live with me but I'm apprehensive about putting that information up "
Just put single parent like i have done |
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Still 3 cock pics up. The one with the smarties on will make women think you are juvenile. If you think showing your cock all over your profile attracts women, it doesn’t. We know what a cock looks like.
You don’t need to say you have grown up kids, just that you have family commitments which it is in that category.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Still 3 cock pics up. The one with the smarties on will make women think you are juvenile. If you think showing your cock all over your profile attracts women, it doesn’t. We know what a cock looks like.
You don’t need to say you have grown up kids, just that you have family commitments which it is in that category.
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I have removed a lot from ther but I am leaving 1 dick pic up lol |
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"And still you can't accommodate? For what ever reason it will be a red flag to people
I have now put the reason up it's due to my teen kids live with me but I'm apprehensive about putting that information up "
I would say single parent as family commitments still screams married.
And yes I carefully read profiles. |
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"Still 3 cock pics up. The one with the smarties on will make women think you are juvenile. If you think showing your cock all over your profile attracts women, it doesn’t. We know what a cock looks like.
You don’t need to say you have grown up kids, just that you have family commitments which it is in that category.
I have removed a lot from ther but I am leaving 1 dick pic up lol"
You ask for advice, you don’t take it. Majority of women on Fab are not keen on cock pics on profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This has definitely been an eye-opener I had no Idea that women look at profiles in that way
Although I do have a look at the pics on profiles first I do like to read their profile but I guess I don't put as much thaught in to it as I should |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And still you can't accommodate? For what ever reason it will be a red flag to people
I have now put the reason up it's due to my teen kids live with me but I'm apprehensive about putting that information up
I would say single parent as family commitments still screams married.
And yes I carefully read profiles."
Wow....some of us single dads didn't get to choose that family commitment.... |
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"And still you can't accommodate? For what ever reason it will be a red flag to people
I have now put the reason up it's due to my teen kids live with me but I'm apprehensive about putting that information up
I would say single parent as family commitments still screams married.
And yes I carefully read profiles.
Wow....some of us single dads didn't get to choose that family commitment...."
Family commitments would be fine as it covers all aspects. Some guys live with an elderly parent for example but why would they have to state it on a profile? |
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"This has definitely been an eye-opener I had no Idea that women look at profiles in that way
Although I do have a look at the pics on profiles first I do like to read their profile but I guess I don't put as much thaught in to it as I should"
We scrutinise men’s profiles and 9/10 times men get the profile so wrong..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And still you can't accommodate? For what ever reason it will be a red flag to people
I have now put the reason up it's due to my teen kids live with me but I'm apprehensive about putting that information up
I would say single parent as family commitments still screams married.
And yes I carefully read profiles.
Wow....some of us single dads didn't get to choose that family commitment....
Family commitments would be fine as it covers all aspects. Some guys live with an elderly parent for example but why would they have to state it on a profile? "
Thats the point I was trying to make....family commitments is great...I personally chose to say im a single parent |
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"Thank you all for taking the time out of your day to advise me. I really respect all your feedback"
Don't forget, it's not only women who will view your profile, it could be their partners too. The best way to be here is honest and open. Keep your privacy but be open about what you want and don't want. Good luck. |
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Just for the record we have loads of admiration for guys who want to play an active role in their children's lives and we know how hard that can be after a split. The family law system in the UK is institutionally biased against fathers, unlike in the US.
Guys - not everyone here is interested in the size of your cock and how often you can repeat. Some are far more interested in what sort of person you really are. If you're one of those decent guys who wants the best for his kids we'd certainly applaud you.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m being real picky now but the 14 December pic makes you look like you have 2” feet. Why can’t guys see how their pics will look to a woman?
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Yes I think that is picky lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m being real picky now but the 14 December pic makes you look like you have 2” feet. Why can’t guys see how their pics will look to a woman?
Yes I think that is picky lol"
I'd lose the second pic in.
Dicks hanging over the top of trousers and pants is not a good look. |
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"I’m being real picky now but the 14 December pic makes you look like you have 2” feet. Why can’t guys see how their pics will look to a woman?
Yes I think that is picky lol"
You did ask for advice and I have given it. I’m a woman, a picky woman but there are pickier on here. I once helped a chap on here with his profile and he got what he called ‘success’ from my advice, whatever that means.
If you don’t like the answers then don’t ask for help!!!!!!!!! |
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