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Advice for a young guy on fab
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"Been on fab quite a while now spoke to some good people . Since coming on here I have found it hard like I don’t get many replies I know this is normal with how many messages people get ect but just wondering has anyone got any advice for someone my age who is looking to meet women and couples 40+. That’s what I came on here for originally " personally your age would put me off , but there are plenty that like the younger man , and really most people don’t see any point in engaging in conversation at the moment | |||
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"Been on fab quite a while now spoke to some good people . Since coming on here I have found it hard like I don’t get many replies I know this is normal with how many messages people get ect but just wondering has anyone got any advice for someone my age who is looking to meet women and couples 40+. That’s what I came on here for originally " Far too young for a lot on here OP. Try clubs when they open but be polite to people. Good luck. | |||
"Been on fab quite a while now spoke to some good people . Since coming on here I have found it hard like I don’t get many replies I know this is normal with how many messages people get ect but just wondering has anyone got any advice for someone my age who is looking to meet women and couples 40+. That’s what I came on here for originally Far too young for a lot on here OP. Try clubs when they open but be polite to people. Good luck. " This is about spot on. Also, anyone who may be remotely interested will firstly take a look at your profile. At that point they will probably question your attention to effort, and click on another profile. | |||
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"One picture and a sentence on your profile, screams I’m not taking this site seriously. You need to buff them both up and then create a presence on the site. Just get involved on the forums and if clubs reopen attend clubs and socials, basically get seen on here or in the community. If you don’t you’ll just blend into the background like many other thousands of guys profiles on the site. "Surely you know that all a young guy has to do is put up one sentence and all the oldies will be running for them?? | |||
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"Been on fab quite a while now spoke to some good people . Since coming on here I have found it hard like I don’t get many replies I know this is normal with how many messages people get ect but just wondering has anyone got any advice for someone my age who is looking to meet women and couples 40+. That’s what I came on here for originally " When I was your age, I was hanging out in the Student Union and associated nightclubs and pubs with people around my own age, enjoying quite a lot of ‘wild oat sowing’   Go and enjoy yourself in the vanilla world for another 5 years or so, this lifestyle will still be here for you, and people will be more likely to be interested in a 25 year old guy | |||
"Been on fab quite a while now spoke to some good people . Since coming on here I have found it hard like I don’t get many replies I know this is normal with how many messages people get ect but just wondering has anyone got any advice for someone my age who is looking to meet women and couples 40+. That’s what I came on here for originally When I was your age, I was hanging out in the Student Union and associated nightclubs and pubs with people around my own age, enjoying quite a lot of ‘wild oat sowing’ Go and enjoy yourself in the vanilla world for another 5 years or so, this lifestyle will still be here for you, and people will be more likely to be interested in a 25 year old guy "This! | |||
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"Blanket bomb copy and paste messages to every account you see, be sure to send a pic of your dick with every message also have second copy and paste message ready to send saying "fuck off you ugly fucker" just incase they send you a polite thanks no thanks message back...hope this has been helpful looking forward to hearing the feedback when your neck deep in messages. " is this what you do very bad advice | |||
"Blanket bomb copy and paste messages to every account you see, be sure to send a pic of your dick with every message also have second copy and paste message ready to send saying "fuck off you ugly fucker" just incase they send you a polite thanks no thanks message back...hope this has been helpful looking forward to hearing the feedback when your neck deep in messages. is this what you do very bad advice " hahaha you can't be asking that seriously  | |||
"Blanket bomb copy and paste messages to every account you see, be sure to send a pic of your dick with every message also have second copy and paste message ready to send saying "fuck off you ugly fucker" just incase they send you a polite thanks no thanks message back...hope this has been helpful looking forward to hearing the feedback when your neck deep in messages. is this what you do very bad advice hahaha you can't be asking that seriously "well a lot of man do actually what you said lol | |||
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"I think most couples aren’t really looking to meet someone younger than their own kids. " It's lockdown. Loads of young kids on here. Thinking just an appearance means a free fuck!! | |||
"Blanket bomb copy and paste messages to every account you see, be sure to send a pic of your dick with every message also have second copy and paste message ready to send saying "fuck off you ugly fucker" just incase they send you a polite thanks no thanks message back...hope this has been helpful looking forward to hearing the feedback when your neck deep in messages. is this what you do very bad advice hahaha you can't be asking that seriously well a lot of man do actually what you said lol "People do actually do shit luke that though. | |||
"Post a better selection of photos. Write more about yourself in your bio - who are you? What can you offer? And get to know people using the forums or chatrooms to build connections that you can then grow sparks from. Good luck x" What do you mean when you say what can you offer lol | |||
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"Expand your description. Explain what you're looking for and what you've got to offer the other party. Add a few pictures but definitely not any cock pics. All the women on here have seen plenty of the real thing. A torso pic wearing tight briefs or boxers with a nice bulge looks good. Best of luck. " He didn't take the advice to add any pictures and write a profile description that was given to him a week ago when the thread was made. Since then he hasn't logged into fab for 6 days now so as kind as your advice was its probably falling on deaf ears. KJ | |||
"Been on fab quite a while now spoke to some good people . Since coming on here I have found it hard like I don’t get many replies I know this is normal with how many messages people get ect but just wondering has anyone got any advice for someone my age who is looking to meet women and couples 40+. That’s what I came on here for originally " I assume you don’t have an active profile atm? If you do then there is nothing on it that would interest me no photos or text. What is it that you are hoping for? | |||
"Been on fab quite a while now spoke to some good people . Since coming on here I have found it hard like I don’t get many replies I know this is normal with how many messages people get ect but just wondering has anyone got any advice for someone my age who is looking to meet women and couples 40+. That’s what I came on here for originally " Hello OP Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc. There is no point contacting people hundreds of miles away if you cannot 100% commit to a meet. Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs. Consider how you approach people, don't just write 'Hi', 'Fancy a chat' or any other generic one liner, It WILL get you ignored. If you followed the advice above and read the persons profile then there should be some common ground to write about. Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Quite frankly the 16 words you have managed to write on your profile won't impress anyone. It says nothing about you, and could be interpreted as 'I have nothing to say so you need to contact me', which I'm sure is not the impression you intended to make. At present your profile couldn't sell a Big Mac to a starving man, so it's not going to sell you to prospective meets. We are a couple that do meet guys of your age, and one look at your profile would put us off from looking any further. Nobody knows you as well as you know you, and if you have nothing to say about yourself it could be interpreted as there is nothing worth saying about you. That's probably not true, but would you start a conversation in person with someone if you thought you would only get single word answers because they have nothing to say? Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you. As a single guy you are already fighting an uphill battle; as a young guy too your battle isn't uphill, its practically up a cliff! That doesn't mean you won't have any luck, but you really need to look at your profile, so as to ensure you make the best possible first impression. Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile, and anything in between is great. Next time it's a lovely day, get out and take some selfies somewhere nice. However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too, both are great ways of getting to know people with no pressure and no first time nerves. When it's safe to do so... get off the site and meet people socially or try a club. You could always sign up to an organised social, where you may meet many people from the area, and perhaps make a better impression face to face than via the Internet. It might be a little nerve wracking the first time, but what harm can having a coffee or a pint with a stranger really do? Good luck | |||
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"Expand your description. Explain what you're looking for and what you've got to offer the other party. Add a few pictures but definitely not any cock pics. All the women on here have seen plenty of the real thing. A torso pic wearing tight briefs or boxers with a nice bulge looks good. Best of luck. He didn't take the advice to add any pictures and write a profile description that was given to him a week ago when the thread was made. Since then he hasn't logged into fab for 6 days now so as kind as your advice was its probably falling on deaf ears. KJ" Why do guys ask for advice then don’t take it? Had one the other day on a different thread doing the same, kept saying I was picky. Makes me not want to give advice in future, my time is precious! | |||
