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Just come out to the wife
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I have taken that big step tonight and let the wife know I am bi and would like to try things with another man it was so scary to tell her this ut she took it so well and were still together and now looking to explore my fantasy such a big for me and a weight off my shoulders cant believe it but amazing night so far  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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Congratulations, its a big step to be open and honest with yourself and your partner.
I am sure you will be able to satisfy your fantasies easily once everyone is allowed out to play again.
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Congratulations! I know so many who don't feel they could say anything.
Take it slow, let her process it and hopefully move forward with her support.
I know it must be a huge sigh of relief for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Isn’t it such a shame that even in this day and age men still find it hard to tell their bisexual partner that they are too.
I’m pleased fir you op. Pleased your other half accepts you’re the same as she is.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A word of advice, explore together and enjoy the journey as a couple, I came out to the ex wife and we had lots of fun, but ultimately when we split she said that she only did a lot if it to support me. That's not to say she didn't enjoy it but she would not be doing it again with another partner. Dont rush things and give it time before you act on it. I know what it's like to have been there. Just make sure that she is a part if your journey. |
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"A word of advice, explore together and enjoy the journey as a couple, I came out to the ex wife and we had lots of fun, but ultimately when we split she said that she only did a lot if it to support me. That's not to say she didn't enjoy it but she would not be doing it again with another partner. Dont rush things and give it time before you act on it. I know what it's like to have been there. Just make sure that she is a part if your journey."
She will always be the main part of my exploring and if shes not there then I'm not intrested and all will be passed by her first but thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow, that’s fantastic. Good on you and on her too. You must feel not only relief but a huge rush of closeness and excitement that’s comes from knowing there’s exploring to be done. |
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By *shantyWoman
over a year ago
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It’s a big step to make and sad so many feel they can’t discuss it with their closest. I’ve recently by accident discovered my partner was on here and bi, I’ve not approached the bi subject with him as I know he won’t be willing to discuss it as he wasn’t about the rest of it so no point. It doesn’t bother me that he is and if that’s what he enjoys I’m not going to stop him, however what does bother me and hurts so much more are the lies. I know everyone will respond differently but I’d far rather be able to be open about it and support each other but it’s such a hard subject to approach for many |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s a big step to make and sad so many feel they can’t discuss it with their closest. I’ve recently by accident discovered my partner was on here and bi, I’ve not approached the bi subject with him as I know he won’t be willing to discuss it as he wasn’t about the rest of it so no point. It doesn’t bother me that he is and if that’s what he enjoys I’m not going to stop him, however what does bother me and hurts so much more are the lies. I know everyone will respond differently but I’d far rather be able to be open about it and support each other but it’s such a hard subject to approach for many"
i know where you are coming from.my ex husband kept his sexuality a secret. When i eventually found out i told him to leave that day.
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"It’s a big step to make and sad so many feel they can’t discuss it with their closest. I’ve recently by accident discovered my partner was on here and bi, I’ve not approached the bi subject with him as I know he won’t be willing to discuss it as he wasn’t about the rest of it so no point. It doesn’t bother me that he is and if that’s what he enjoys I’m not going to stop him, however what does bother me and hurts so much more are the lies. I know everyone will respond differently but I’d far rather be able to be open about it and support each other but it’s such a hard subject to approach for manyi know where you are coming from.my ex husband kept his sexuality a secret. When i eventually found out i told him to leave that day."
Could you not talk to him about it?
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By *shantyWoman
over a year ago
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"It’s a big step to make and sad so many feel they can’t discuss it with their closest. I’ve recently by accident discovered my partner was on here and bi, I’ve not approached the bi subject with him as I know he won’t be willing to discuss it as he wasn’t about the rest of it so no point. It doesn’t bother me that he is and if that’s what he enjoys I’m not going to stop him, however what does bother me and hurts so much more are the lies. I know everyone will respond differently but I’d far rather be able to be open about it and support each other but it’s such a hard subject to approach for manyi know where you are coming from.my ex husband kept his sexuality a secret. When i eventually found out i told him to leave that day.Could you not talk to him about it? "
Easier said than done sadly |
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Well done for having the courage to talk openly to your wife. And congratulations on having a wife who is understanding and open-minded. Hope you'll have great adventures on your journey together, when it's safe to meet others again. |
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Sounds like your a proper partnership who can talk to each other about anything even if it might take time but keep talking and confirm your both happy for things to go further before you try anything good luck and hope you have some fab times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need to pluck up the courage to tell my wife I'm bi curious.
In the bedroom she rims, fingers and uses a strap on plus other toys on my arse. I've also sucked a cock like dildo in front of her. She must have some idea I'm bi......mustn't she?
How do I take the next step and tell her?
If she accepts me being bi it may open up new things for us as a couple.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm assuming most of the males in couples here are bi or at least curious.
Having a woman present somehow justifies them needing cock 
Good for you OP
Enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Woman announces she is bisexual or wants to explore, society cheers and is accepting
Man does the same, very mixed reactions, but often not nearly as accepting.
Shocks me how often I see ladies profiles that will not meet bi men, like they are carrying the plague or some other disease.
OP well done, good times ahead |
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"Isn’t it such a shame that even in this day and age men still find it hard to tell their bisexual partner that they are too.
I’m pleased fir you op. Pleased your other half accepts you’re the same as she is. "
Very well said |
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As much as I couldn't exactly want my man to meet other females, I wouldn't mind him meeting guys. 