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Want to introduce my gf to fab
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I really want to show my gf fab to maybe start a couples profile, the interest in threesomes is there however we’ve never spoke about how we would go around it.
I want to introduce fab to her but in a way where she thinks i don’t know much about it if that makes sense, if anyones got any ideas that could be helpful let me know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honesty is the best policy my dude. You don't need to tell her your whole history of being on Fab. Focus on telling her about your kinks in a transparent manner. Fab is just a vehicle for whatever that kink is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree with all comments. I’d probably delete single profile and start again. Incase you open a can of worms with your account activity. I’d say you used to have a profile. Honest chat for definite though |
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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago
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Honesty is the best way to go, no chance of being caught out that way.
You could try talking dirty while having sex, mentioning how much you'd love to see her with another guy for instance.
Or try watching orgy or threesome porn and get a conversation going about whether she'd like to try something similar. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah we have spoke about trying new things etc such as threesome or another couple and have watched porn but weve never really mentioned the next step so i just wanted to find a way to kind of mention it and put it out there to see how she feels because then atleast if she’s comfortable we will progress and if she’s uncomfortable about it then theres no harm done and we just carry on with how we are |
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"Yeah we have spoke about trying new things etc such as threesome or another couple and have watched porn but weve never really mentioned the next step so i just wanted to find a way to kind of mention it and put it out there to see how she feels because then atleast if she’s comfortable we will progress and if she’s uncomfortable about it then theres no harm done and we just carry on with how we are"
next time you speak about trying a threesome suggest ways of achieving it. If you're already discussing trying it then its a natural next step to talk about how to go about it.
Be brave |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yeah we have spoke about trying new things etc such as threesome or another couple and have watched porn but weve never really mentioned the next step so i just wanted to find a way to kind of mention it and put it out there to see how she feels because then atleast if she’s comfortable we will progress and if she’s uncomfortable about it then theres no harm done and we just carry on with how we are
next time you speak about trying a threesome suggest ways of achieving it. If you're already discussing trying it then its a natural next step to talk about how to go about it.
Be brave"
Just trying to mention fabswingers for example is the bit where i feel like im struggling |
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"Yeah we have spoke about trying new things etc such as threesome or another couple and have watched porn but weve never really mentioned the next step so i just wanted to find a way to kind of mention it and put it out there to see how she feels because then atleast if she’s comfortable we will progress and if she’s uncomfortable about it then theres no harm done and we just carry on with how we are
next time you speak about trying a threesome suggest ways of achieving it. If you're already discussing trying it then its a natural next step to talk about how to go about it.
Be brave
Just trying to mention fabswingers for example is the bit where i feel like im struggling"
ok. Next time you talk about a threesome say "shall we see if we can find a hook up site on google?" then look together. I'd delete your account first if I was you. 
Bear in mind that nothing can happen until covid clears off though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yeah we have spoke about trying new things etc such as threesome or another couple and have watched porn but weve never really mentioned the next step so i just wanted to find a way to kind of mention it and put it out there to see how she feels because then atleast if she’s comfortable we will progress and if she’s uncomfortable about it then theres no harm done and we just carry on with how we are
next time you speak about trying a threesome suggest ways of achieving it. If you're already discussing trying it then its a natural next step to talk about how to go about it.
Be brave
Just trying to mention fabswingers for example is the bit where i feel like im struggling
ok. Next time you talk about a threesome say "shall we see if we can find a hook up site on google?" then look together. I'd delete your account first if I was you.
Bear in mind that nothing can happen until covid clears off though"
Yeah i guess thats i good idea, atleast then it will get the ball rolling for when this all clears up |
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"Yeah we have spoke about trying new things etc such as threesome or another couple and have watched porn but weve never really mentioned the next step so i just wanted to find a way to kind of mention it and put it out there to see how she feels because then atleast if she’s comfortable we will progress and if she’s uncomfortable about it then theres no harm done and we just carry on with how we are
next time you speak about trying a threesome suggest ways of achieving it. If you're already discussing trying it then its a natural next step to talk about how to go about it.
Be brave
Just trying to mention fabswingers for example is the bit where i feel like im struggling
ok. Next time you talk about a threesome say "shall we see if we can find a hook up site on google?" then look together. I'd delete your account first if I was you.
Bear in mind that nothing can happen until covid clears off though
Yeah i guess thats i good idea, atleast then it will get the ball rolling for when this all clears up"
yep! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm
Well you’re kinda screwed !!!
You should have spoke to her about it before having a account for 9 weeks on here lol
If I was you I wouldn’t !!!"
If she sees you have been on here 9 weeks...she will assume your cheating on her... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm
Well you’re kinda screwed !!!
You should have spoke to her about it before having a account for 9 weeks on here lol
If I was you I wouldn’t !!!"
Personally I would be pissed that you hadn't mentioned at the start of your relationship and furthermore, been on here for weeks, not good, I would kick your ass out. |
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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago
Fairy Land |
How well do you feel you really know her OP?
This is the second thread since joining where you’ve asked a bunch of complete strangers advice about her and how you should introduce things to her.
I’d advocate talking and openly listening to her on a range of subjects. |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
Dorset |
Delete your single account, talk to her about checking out fab as recommended by a friend, so you can join as a couple, then give her time to delete her single account so you can both pretend you have never used it before.... (will be a shame that she has to lose all those verifications though) |
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Her reaction will gauge if you can continue the convo or not. 
