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Any sexual exploration between you and your partner requires good communication whether it be in person or online.
The majority of hotwife couples have a couple's account so that the communication is free flowing between both parties and prospective individuals.
Everyone is on the same page and nothing is hidden.
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Yes it's certainly fully open. We'd just noticed a few people appear to have more than one account.
I'm sure when it comes to it there shouldn't be a problem contacting the right people either way. |
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"Yes it's certainly fully open. We'd just noticed a few people appear to have more than one account.
I'm sure when it comes to it there shouldn't be a problem contacting the right people either way."
Depends what you are after,
A single account is a different dynamic entirely.. For you guys and for the folks who are communicating with you. Works really well in some scenarios eg where the scenarios are the girl half planning and meeting on her own to come home used and ready to be reclaimed. |
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"Yes it's certainly fully open. We'd just noticed a few people appear to have more than one account.
I'm sure when it comes to it there shouldn't be a problem contacting the right people either way."
We tried a second account just for Scarlett but wasn’t worth the effort. Lots of work and heaps of creepy messages.
At least with the joint account t then we are both involved and I can act as a bouncer  |
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seIf you're looking at playing without hubby, and handling the communication yourself then a single woman account is perfectly fine.
My wife and I usually play separately and only have singles accounts. |
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over a year ago
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We have a couples account, L (Hubby) tends to deal with Fab initially (well the messaging side of it at least), almost like a vetting process and obviously L enjoys the aspect of helping C (HW) in the process of finding and getting ready for a meet.
We PLay together as HW/c or C will play alone.
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Flik opened a singles profile about a year ago now and it's meant that messages to our couples profile now tend to be from people that are actually interested in us as a couple rather than pretending, just to get to Flik. Those people can now message on her singles profile and be more honest about it. |
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over a year ago
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I have a single account but hubby does have full access to it. We have complete transparency and he likes a good laugh at some of the messages.
Its not so much for hotwifing though I do do this, but it filters the stuff thats not relevant away from the couples profile. |
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Much as everything on Fab, see what works for you, there is no 'one size fits all' for anything on here.
i have been chatting for ages to two couples both hotwife couples and their dynamics are very different, one couple have one account and i chat to both. the other couple have two accounts and she chats to me on that one, whilst hubby knows about the account and the fact that we are chatting he is not party to (nor does he want to be party to) our chat.
depends on what turns you on, do one or the other and see what works for you guys.
happy hotwifeing (if that is even a word) |
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I think that is pretty spot on. As a single guy I expect if I messaging a couple then to some degree they are both going to be involved even if its husband waiting downstairs kind of thing. If either partner is going to do totally solo meets then I think its less confusing to have a solo profile but in the end whatever works for you |
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"Hi
We're looking into me doing a bit more along the lines of hotwifing.
Do others normally have a seperate single account, or just their couples one?"
J has a separate account for her camming and solo meets, easier for her that way, damned horny too. |
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Doesn’t matter what type of account that you have, you’re still dealing with the same fab dickheads.
You’ll find that the guys want to cut your husband out of the scene and meet you solo. That’s our experience anyway. |
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|It's tough isn't it.. As a single guy who has met couples for fully involved MMF, cuck fun.. and also had ongoing relationships with married/attached women (with partners consent, I should add!). I have always found that building trust takes so much longer, due to the fact that so many single guys see the fact that they are coupled as a mere hindrance in the quest to steal them away. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"Doesn’t matter what type of account that you have, you’re still dealing with the same fab dickheads.
You’ll find that the guys want to cut your husband out of the scene and meet you solo. That’s our experience anyway."
I never understand that at all. For me it doesn't work if the husband is not involved and isn't enjoying it as much as me and his wife are. I often will spend more time chatting to the husband before meeting a couple. |
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"Doesn’t matter what type of account that you have, you’re still dealing with the same fab dickheads.
You’ll find that the guys want to cut your husband out of the scene and meet you solo. That’s our experience anyway.I never understand that at all. For me it doesn't work if the husband is not involved and isn't enjoying it as much as me and his wife are. I often will spend more time chatting to the husband before meeting a couple. "
Yeah I know it’s pretty staggering the extent of your average fabber’s conceit/ignorance. Of course there are the exceptions who don’t think this way. We ran of energy trying to find the decent ones. |
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