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over a year ago
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I think to ask for a reason is a fair request although you shouldnt have to ask as I think it is just good manners to give a reason why the other person/couple couldn't meet |
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over a year ago
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It really depends on why it didn't go to plan and after weeks of work for it to go wrong seems odd ?
If one or both parties don't understand what the meet and boundaries etc entail after all the planning its kinda weird and if that's what went wrong then surely an explanation is in order .
If it was just down to no connection upon meeting then leave it - no explanation needed. |
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"If you had a meet that didn't go according to plan, (weeks of planning and messaging) would you want to know why or would you just let it go?
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Don't do weeks of planning. Arrange coffee from there decide whether I want a play meet. Sometimes I've been disappointed but put it down to not everyone being able to float your boat straight off...but I train em!  |
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there has to be some spontaneity for me
i can chat to people for weeks if not months and not mention the possibility of sex - or at least possibility of sex between the two of us
and then click, summat happens that means we are both in the same position and of the same mindset and it happens.
i find if i start talking about it too early, the novelty wears off very quickly
if something happens somewhere along the line, great. if it doesn't, then great again
you don't have to shag (or even want to shag) everyone you chat with and get on with and i never start chatting with anyone with that as the sole intention
if i am horny and in a position to meet, i will post a 'meet now' and update my status accordingly
sometimes that approach shows results, other times it doesn't
the whole be at a set place at a set time and do a set number of things to me holds absolutely no attraction at all |
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