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Is my profile OK?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, I'm pretty new to this, I'm Jem, would anyone mind looking over our profile, give me any pointers, it would be great to get some feedback.
Thanks guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I agree, it's a nice profile and there isn't much that immediately stands out. I agree with faces on friends is a safer move but it's very much down to personal choice and it's not a bad thing. Why do you think it needs changing? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah I agree, it's a nice profile and there isn't much that immediately stands out. I agree with faces on friends is a safer move but it's very much down to personal choice and it's not a bad thing. Why do you think it needs changing? "
Thank you, I wasn’t sure if it would need changing, we’ve not long joined so was just checking. I’ll change the photo too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, I'm pretty new to this, I'm Jem, would anyone mind looking over our profile, give me any pointers, it would be great to get some feedback.
Thanks guys"
There seems to be a slight hint of a male profile under the guise of a couples profile.
Just the phrasing and stating that the female would love for him to please another woman solo rings a number of alarm bells.
This may of course be the case but whilst the profile has zero veris etc I think many would be suspicious.
In this dynamic in my experience the female wants to be very actively involved in the selection process to make sure she’s comfortable with partners who are chosen. The lack of any of that mentioned would make me question the reality behind the profile.
Happy fabbing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The reality is that there's a fair number of guys masquerading as Cpls on here so to get off the ground you'll need to get a verification by camming if into that, or through meets at a club when they re-open, to be trusted as a Cpl. Or be prepared to give good proof, e.g. sexual photos that are clearly you both, fem/fem phone chat, etc. Being photo verified is a good step in the right direction.
At the moment you can add on top of the normal suspicion of single guys the suspicion of fake profiles by vanilla people, press, whoever, who may want to expose swingers breaking the law, for moral or law enforcement reasons.
Hopefully you are genuine and you will find that useful! Being photo-verified is meaningless in this context.
So, hopefully you are totally genuine and will find that really useful as you move towards getting your spurs! Good luck (if so!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi, I'm pretty new to this, I'm Jem, would anyone mind looking over our profile, give me any pointers, it would be great to get some feedback.
Thanks guys
There seems to be a slight hint of a male profile under the guise of a couples profile.
Just the phrasing and stating that the female would love for him to please another woman solo rings a number of alarm bells.
This may of course be the case but whilst the profile has zero veris etc I think many would be suspicious.
In this dynamic in my experience the female wants to be very actively involved in the selection process to make sure she’s comfortable with partners who are chosen. The lack of any of that mentioned would make me question the reality behind the profile.
Happy fabbing x"
Oh wow thank you, I didn't even think that people would read it as a man rather then me, we have been photo verified hopefully that will help on that part.
Thank you for the advice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The reality is that there's a fair number of guys masquerading as Cpls on here so to get off the ground you'll need to get a verification by camming if into that, or through meets at a club when they re-open, to be trusted as a Cpl. Or be prepared to give good proof, e.g. sexual photos that are clearly you both, fem/fem phone chat, etc. Being photo verified is a good step in the right direction.
At the moment you can add on top of the normal suspicion of single guys the suspicion of fake profiles by vanilla people, press, whoever, who may want to expose swingers breaking the law, for moral or law enforcement reasons.
Hopefully you are genuine and you will find that useful! Being photo-verified is meaningless in this context.
So, hopefully you are totally genuine and will find that really useful as you move towards getting your spurs! Good luck (if so!)"
Thank you for the advice,I'll hopefully be able to get verified soon. We have done the photo verification already. |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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It’s not a bad profile.
However, you are looking for a single female to join you and they are scarce.
From my single female perspective I would want to see a bit more about both of your personalities. What interests do you have outside of sex for instance.
Good luck and I would definitely recommend going to the clubs when they finally open. It’s the best place to find women. |
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You are after a single woman which is basically what most of the single guys and couples are after.
So therefore you are competing with hundreds of profiles and at the moment nothing stands out on your profile for a single girl to find it appealing.
You have two pics, one blurred and the other the male in shot. There’s none of the female other than your stomach and so the single girl would have to contact you for a pic. But why when she can just go on to the next couple with pics.
None of your personalities come through on the profile. There’s hardly any wording to say what you like and what you can offer.
This seems harsh and it’s not, we are trying to help you...
Clubs and organised socials would be the best place to find single women, when they open.
Good luck x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You are after a single woman which is basically what most of the single guys and couples are after.
So therefore you are competing with hundreds of profiles and at the moment nothing stands out on your profile for a single girl to find it appealing.
You have two pics, one blurred and the other the male in shot. There’s none of the female other than your stomach and so the single girl would have to contact you for a pic. But why when she can just go on to the next couple with pics.
None of your personalities come through on the profile. There’s hardly any wording to say what you like and what you can offer.
This seems harsh and it’s not, we are trying to help you...
Clubs and organised socials would be the best place to find single women, when they open.
Good luck x
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Thank you for the advice, I did remove the face pics as advised by others but I think your right, would you suggest single pics of each of us? I’m so bad at this type of thing, I think my profile screams inexperienced which is true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it looks fine OP. It’s early days but you’ve become a member, got photo verified, have pics and have written a profile. That’s more than some do in three years, never mind three weeks.
You’ll end up tweaking your profile as you spend more time on the site.
It’s a difficult time to have joined. Best advice? Get involved on the forums and get to know people.
I hope you enjoy Fab
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"Hi, I'm pretty new to this, I'm Jem, would anyone mind looking over our profile, give me any pointers, it would be great to get some feedback.
Thanks guys"
hi jem most of your profile is ok but I do suggest some more pictures of you , get you sexy gear on and snap away , |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi, I'm pretty new to this, I'm Jem, would anyone mind looking over our profile, give me any pointers, it would be great to get some feedback.
Thanks guys hi jem most of your profile is ok but I do suggest some more pictures of you , get you sexy gear on and snap away , "
Thank you, I'll definitely do that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it looks fine OP. It’s early days but you’ve become a member, got photo verified, have pics and have written a profile. That’s more than some do in three years, never mind three weeks.
You’ll end up tweaking your profile as you spend more time on the site.
It’s a difficult time to have joined. Best advice? Get involved on the forums and get to know people.
I hope you enjoy Fab
V x"
Thank you, I only found the forums yesterday, definitely looks like a good place to chat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You are after a single woman which is basically what most of the single guys and couples are after.
So therefore you are competing with hundreds of profiles and at the moment nothing stands out on your profile for a single girl to find it appealing.
You have two pics, one blurred and the other the male in shot. There’s none of the female other than your stomach and so the single girl would have to contact you for a pic. But why when she can just go on to the next couple with pics.
None of your personalities come through on the profile. There’s hardly any wording to say what you like and what you can offer.
This seems harsh and it’s not, we are trying to help you...
Clubs and organised socials would be the best place to find single women, when they open.
Good luck x
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I just wanted to say your guys photos are amazing. |
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I tried to private message you but you’ve got couples blocked
Your profile will evolve over time...we were both singles on here prior to getting together so we have a good understanding of what the site is about, so we’ve put a lot into our profile from the start.
It’ll take time and I’d say whilst people aren’t meeting, use this time to build up your pics (I see you’ve already put a couple of extra ones on now, which look good) and profile.
When you send a message, girls will look at 3 things...your message and how you come across, your pics and also your bio, what you can offer, what you like..etc so it’s important to have them all in a good shape.
Also get involved in the forums...get yourselves known and people will see your personalities too...it’ll help, but only on forums, which is probably only 5% of the site.
Most of all enjoy it!
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"Hi, I'm pretty new to this, I'm Jem, would anyone mind looking over our profile, give me any pointers, it would be great to get some feedback.
Thanks guys"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi, I'm pretty new to this, I'm Jem, would anyone mind looking over our profile, give me any pointers, it would be great to get some feedback.
Thanks guys
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Thank you I've already done this part. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can someone have a look at my profile please."
Looks good to me but I'm a newbie so maybe not the best to ask, maybe some more photos and as the others said to me maybe not have your face in your profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can someone have a look at my profile please.
Looks good to me but I'm a newbie so maybe not the best to ask, maybe some more photos and as the others said to me maybe not have your face in your profile "
Thank you, i got told as a single male not to hide face pics and stuff like that. I just struggle writing bios |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like the way you've said which is the male and which is the female. It's sometimes confusing on profiles where the couple has put initials instead of names. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like the way you've said which is the male and which is the female. It's sometimes confusing on profiles where the couple has put initials instead of names."
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I was looking to meet couples, photos of them together would be important to me.
Other than that it looks fine."
Thank you, I have planned a nice little dress up/photo session soon, hopefully we can get some nice pics of us together up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately you've blocked couples from winking.....Char here would love to have a chat as Bry doesn't need to be involved at all.
Nice photos, anyway "
Thank you, I'll have a look at the settings |
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