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Looking for love and romance after this covid shambles is over

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just been dumped 2 weeks before Christmas by someone I really cared for looking for someone who’s kind caring and talkative to help me get back on track and make me believe there are actually good people out there for me I was told by someone come to the forums if I wanna meet and converse with people so here I am hopefully I can catch the eye of someone who’s just willing to take a chance on a genuinely decent guy I did everything for my ex helped her get over her alcohol addiction,helped her grieve when her father passed away but still I wasn’t a good enough match so please if u got negativity to bring to this thread please don’t it’s all positivity here no negatives just wanna talk and meet new interesting people

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

You seem to be asking someone to prove their worth to you. It's a two way street, nobody wants to get into a relationship Where they start on the back foot

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

No ones gotta prove anything and vice versa im happy to know anyone just don’t rip out my jugular and step on it lol

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By *usciouslips201Couple over a year ago

North Wales

"You seem to be asking someone to prove their worth to you. It's a two way street, nobody wants to get into a relationship Where they start on the back foot"

I don't see it this way at all. What I see is someone reaching out for a bit of comfort as he's going through a tough time.

I wish you a better 2021 OP. Look after yourself and the rest will follow in time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You seem to be asking someone to prove their worth to you. It's a two way street, nobody wants to get into a relationship Where they start on the back foot

I don't see it this way at all. What I see is someone reaching out for a bit of comfort as he's going through a tough time.

I wish you a better 2021 OP. Look after yourself and the rest will follow in time. "
aww thank god not everyone hates what I say lol

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"You seem to be asking someone to prove their worth to you. It's a two way street, nobody wants to get into a relationship Where they start on the back foot

I don't see it this way at all. What I see is someone reaching out for a bit of comfort as he's going through a tough time.

I wish you a better 2021 OP. Look after yourself and the rest will follow in time. aww thank god not everyone hates what I say lol "

I don't hate what you say.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"You seem to be asking someone to prove their worth to you. It's a two way street, nobody wants to get into a relationship Where they start on the back foot

I don't see it this way at all. What I see is someone reaching out for a bit of comfort as he's going through a tough time.

I wish you a better 2021 OP. Look after yourself and the rest will follow in time. "

Yes me too, the op has asked before. I was trying to suggest that he might not be going about it the right way. If this way works then I'm more than happy to be proved wrong and wish him well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok well no harm no foul I got love for all of u for taking the time out ya day to message

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You probably need to start looking when you're feeling a bit more confident. At the moment what you've said reads as though you're very damaged, hurt and (understandably) a bit pathetic. Don't worry - these bad feelings will pass.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS over a year ago

doncaster

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You probably need to start looking when you're feeling a bit more confident. At the moment what you've said reads as though you're very damaged, hurt and (understandably) a bit pathetic. Don't worry - these bad feelings will pass.did you mean pathetic or apathetic ? "
yea I’m deffo not ready for a relationship hence why I’m here on fab looking for fun and if they end up the one that’s a bonus

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You probably need to start looking when you're feeling a bit more confident. At the moment what you've said reads as though you're very damaged, hurt and (understandably) a bit pathetic. Don't worry - these bad feelings will pass.did you mean pathetic or apathetic ? "
I do show an interest tho just need someone to be interested in the same way

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By *eedsasiansCouple over a year ago

leeds

OP you been on here for 9 months so I assume you been cheating on your ex so what do you expect

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman over a year ago

Southampton

"OP you been on here for 9 months so I assume you been cheating on your ex so what do you expect "

That brings a new dimension to this!

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple over a year ago

norwich

OP. Finding inner peace and self love will be found within you so that's where your healing needs to begin.

I suggest a suppport group of other men helping build each other back up.

The universe will reflect back at you what you put out, you are two soon after a breakup and hurting to much to attract the lady you desire into your life.

Stay strong brother, todays pain is just an opportunity to grow.

From suffering and struggle comes strength

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

Did she know you were on here?

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

Also, personally, I tend to find that the WORST way to find love is to go looking for it.

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By *anshee99Woman over a year ago

all over

Why would anyone go put with you when you've been fabbing whilst with your ex?

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Just my opinion

And I do understand when you truly love someone and it ends not intended way a person prefers but maybe wasn't never ment to be but it's always nice to have me time to reevaluate ones self being single isn't that bad and don't look for happiness it normally finds you

Good luck pal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You probably need to start looking when you're feeling a bit more confident. At the moment what you've said reads as though you're very damaged, hurt and (understandably) a bit pathetic. Don't worry - these bad feelings will pass.did you mean pathetic or apathetic ? yea I’m deffo not ready for a relationship hence why I’m here on fab looking for fun and if they end up the one that’s a bonus "

Mixed signal op. Looking for love and romance but not a relationship..... seems a little conflicting.

I hope you find what you seek, whatever that is x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP you been on here for 9 months so I assume you been cheating on your ex so what do you expect "
no I just came back online not rocket science

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Also, personally, I tend to find that the WORST way to find love is to go looking for it."
how else do u find love if u don’t go looking for it no ones going to come knocking on my door saying I love you I gotta get out there to find the one I want

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You probably need to start looking when you're feeling a bit more confident. At the moment what you've said reads as though you're very damaged, hurt and (understandably) a bit pathetic. Don't worry - these bad feelings will pass.did you mean pathetic or apathetic ? yea I’m deffo not ready for a relationship hence why I’m here on fab looking for fun and if they end up the one that’s a bonus

Mixed signal op. Looking for love and romance but not a relationship..... seems a little conflicting.

I hope you find what you seek, whatever that is x"
im not rushing into it I’m wanting to date and find a real connection not a fake that’s full of lies like the last that’s why I’m not instantly going for a relationship I wanna date and if they decide they wanna date me then I’d make a decision because I always give my heart and get it broken so now I’m being far more selective and finding someone right for me

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By *eedsasiansCouple over a year ago

leeds

"OP you been on here for 9 months so I assume you been cheating on your ex so what do you expect

no I just came back online not rocket science "

What a cocky answer

Ok so let's assume u came back on here like you say

1 u not been in much of a long term relationship if it's been only a few months and you back here .so stop sulking

2 why have u kept your fab account going while you was in this lovely relationship

3 many people seek attention in this way saying there gf left them devastated are u one of them .

So stop trying the sympathy vote people on here are wiser than that

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By *eedsasiansCouple over a year ago

leeds

"Also, personally, I tend to find that the WORST way to find love is to go looking for it.how else do u find love if u don’t go looking for it no ones going to come knocking on my door saying I love you I gotta get out there to find the one I want

U expecting to find on fab ???

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh.

It’s like a bus. No luck lots of waiting then they all come along at once.

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By *oelDorianMan over a year ago

vanaheim

I think what they were trying to say is when you look for it it’s not the love that you are truly seeking. Love has its mysterious ways of working I’ve been single for the past year and me and my ex met at a swingers club. It was unplanned and I wasn’t looking for love then it found me. So that’s what I think they mean don’t go actively looking for love let it find you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s like a bus. No luck lots of waiting then they all come along at once. "
dunno think I just slept in and missed the bus all together lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aww there's going to be someone out there for you stay strong and you be fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Aww there's going to be someone out there for you stay strong and you be fine"
I hope so because it’s really hard in this pandemic I thought people be more chatty but it’s worse now than before covid lol

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By *oelDorianMan over a year ago

vanaheim

"Aww there's going to be someone out there for you stay strong and you be fineI hope so because it’s really hard in this pandemic I thought people be more chatty but it’s worse now than before covid lol "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

True but you have to think that some people might have their kids or partners home and some aren’t chatting because they want to meet not chin wag. Op I understand how you feel and many other single men do just keep your chin up"
id say a chin wag is part of meeting though and I’m not meeting until after covid anyway like most are but yea cheers for the advice bro all the best

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By *oelDorianMan over a year ago

vanaheim

you can chin wag though text or on cams it's not all in person just adapt to the situation

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"you can chin wag though text or on cams it's not all in person just adapt to the situation"
that’s what they say adapt to overcome adversity but fuck me they gotta reply to a message first that’s the hardest thing of all making yaself interesting enough to others by the first message I’m the hey how ya doing type and that just falls on deaf ears here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Aww there's going to be someone out there for you stay strong and you be fine"

This

best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Aww there's going to be someone out there for you stay strong and you be fine

This

best of luck.

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Thank you appreciate all the kind comments

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I call bullshit on this. Is this is obviously designed to get your sympathy in the hope it well get people to dm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I call bullshit on this. Is this is obviously designed to get your sympathy in the hope it well get people to dm."
no it’s called communication dunno if u heard of it before lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You made this up because you been failing the get people attention and responses. So created story in hopes that will help you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You made this up because you been failing the get people attention and responses. So created story in hopes that will help you."
no that’s your thoughts not mine buddy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your profile 9 month old which mean any relationship you claim to have had. Most of been only have for couple of month. And during a pandemic. And acting like was super long relationship. This some made up crap

. This type of stuff doesn't work on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your profile 9 month old which mean any relationship you claim to have had. Most of been only have for couple of month. And during a pandemic. And acting like was super long relationship. This some made up crap

. This type of stuff doesn't work on here "
dude did u date me ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"God no I got taste.yea that’s why Ure harassing a guy lol

This isn't harassing. You posted a fake story in an attempted to emotionally manipulate people. Your story has flaws.

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