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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I have been on here before as a single male, when me and the mrs got together she had come out of a same sex relationship, something she wanted to keep on the table, i suggested this.

All was well until a friend of hers messaged us, i never actually got to read the message but shes good looking and had been flirty with me in the past. The mrs didn't not like this at all, she said we shouldn’t play with people we know ( I agree to avoid complications) but now shes not as enthusiastic about the whole thing.

We’re still willing but finding it hard to find the right person / couple, especially as she doesn’t want to meet anyone the friends met. She no longer wants to go to a club incase she sees said friend.

How can i reassure my other half and get the excitement back for us ??

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Reassure her about what? If she's concerned about seeing her friend of meeting anyone her friends met I'm not sure you can reassure her any further.

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By *amesB66Man  over a year ago

St Peter Port

It sounds as though she's very undecided,in which case, just support her, talk to her and don't put any pressure on.

It might be that it will never happen...so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe your partner is trying to tell you she doesn't want to go to clubs at all. But assuming she just doesn't want to bump into anyone she knows, then when the lockdown's lifted go to a club far away from home - plan ahead and book a hotel.

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