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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I've been on here a while but only a few days ago, I managed to get a social meet with a wonderful couple.
But it went nowhere and I'm just wondering, what do I need to improve on profile wise to make myself somewhat attractive?
A friend from fab helped pick out my pictures but I wonder if there's anything else I should show? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since you managed to arrange a meet, your profile has worked. Maybe the meet was only supposed to be a social, in which case it went well. If it was supposed to lead to more, it's the meeting bit you need to work on, not the profile.
Hope that helps. |
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"Since you managed to arrange a meet, your profile has worked. Maybe the meet was only supposed to be a social, in which case it went well. If it was supposed to lead to more, it's the meeting bit you need to work on, not the profile.
Hope that helps."
This. The profile did its job. It landed you a meet. Also bare in mind right now people will probably be a lot more hesitant to play.
Many men wait year for a meet. Congrats! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fuck me. Move over Neo. He’s the chosen one. "
Before anyone comments. Yes I am aware that Neo is not the chosen one, Agent Smith is. But it doesn’t sound right. |
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"Fuck me. Move over Neo. He’s the chosen one.
Before anyone comments. Yes I am aware that Neo is not the chosen one, Agent Smith is. But it doesn’t sound right. "
Wow I thought it was the shimmering cat  |
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"Fuck me. Move over Neo. He’s the chosen one.
Before anyone comments. Yes I am aware that Neo is not the chosen one, Agent Smith is. But it doesn’t sound right. "
Wait until the 4th part comes out and retrons neo back into life  |
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"So I've been on here a while but only a few days ago, I managed to get a social meet with a wonderful couple.
But it went nowhere and I'm just wondering, what do I need to improve on profile wise to make myself somewhat attractive?
A friend from fab helped pick out my pictures but I wonder if there's anything else I should show? "
Are meets allowed? I thought they were not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd seek more advice on your profile pic, maybe from a different friend....it shows more of your bathroom than you!
Maybe look at some guys profiles especially the well verified ones for inspiration!
Tabitha x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd seek more advice on your profile pic, maybe from a different friend....it shows more of your bathroom than you!
Maybe look at some guys profiles especially the well verified ones for inspiration!
Tabitha x"
Yeah I need to find a better place for a picture
But thanks for all your advice guys, Fabswingers can just be a hard place sometimes |
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"So I've been on here a while but only a few days ago, I managed to get a social meet with a wonderful couple.
But it went nowhere and I'm just wondering, what do I need to improve on profile wise to make myself somewhat attractive?
A friend from fab helped pick out my pictures but I wonder if there's anything else I should show?
Are meets allowed? I thought they were not? "
This! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I've been on here a while but only a few days ago, I managed to get a social meet with a wonderful couple.
But it went nowhere and I'm just wondering, what do I need to improve on profile wise to make myself somewhat attractive?
A friend from fab helped pick out my pictures but I wonder if there's anything else I should show?
Are meets allowed? I thought they were not?
This! "
I'm in ireland where the lockdown is only level 3 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What did you expect to happen at a social meet?
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Nothing really, I just kind of lost my confidence for a while after, I've been on here a while and have struggled just to get a meet, wondered if it was my profile |
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"So I've been on here a while but only a few days ago, I managed to get a social meet with a wonderful couple.
But it went nowhere and I'm just wondering, what do I need to improve on profile wise to make myself somewhat attractive?
A friend from fab helped pick out my pictures but I wonder if there's anything else I should show? "
Did you plan just to have a social.
We often meet single guys for a social meet.
Sometimes we meet again, sometimes not.
If you have an enjoyable evening, result.
If you have a disaster of an evening, back to the drawing board.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Talking online and in person are very different. I normally get the 'oh you look so much younger in real life so not for us'"
Pretty much the same reception, I guess I should come to accept it and own it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think the best thing to do is to be honest with your photos saves time in the long run"
The photos are natural, I've heard its being different personality on text and in person, so I'll try and work on that |
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Take the rough with the smooth, dont expect to have interest all the time, dont expect socials to be anything but that, dont expect a meet to lead to a second one , the more relaxed you are about it the more likely youll come across as not too desperate, That way youll stick out from the majority of single males on here.
Happy swinging and good luck |
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