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Regretting not swinging years ago
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I am now widowed and have started swinging on my own but I do regret not doing this years ago I think it’s far more successful if you’re a couple, my wife did suggest it but like an idiot I wouldn’t do it , |
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"I am now widowed and have started swinging on my own but I do regret not doing this years ago I think it’s far more successful if you’re a couple, my wife did suggest it but like an idiot I wouldn’t do it , "
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
Better late than never!
Whilst you may regret not exploring it with your wife, it can be great fun. I've had 20 years plus and for the most part enjoyed it.
Not the best time for it with covid, but hopefully make some friends that you can meet in the future.
You may already have, sorry I never looked at your profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish I had started earlier too.
I was married and sexually frustrated for nearly 20 years of marriage. Only discovered the scene when I divorced.
Now feel I'm too old for the people I fancy.  |
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We started swinging when I was in my 40s,and hubby in his 30s,it took me alot of talking my hubby into trying swinging,alittle jealous at first seeing him with a woman for first time but also excited and seeing her face when hubby took down his boxers. her face was a picture lol,to this day we are still good friends and chat on the phone so it's not just about sex brilliant friendships can be made also |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This lockdown has made me mad at myself for not doing more when I had the opportunity. Sometimes I just felt to lazy to drive to a club or sauna. Now regretting the missed fun. Definitely can't wait for things to return to normal then definitely planning to make up for lost time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No regrets here. Don’t get me wrong, we wish we’d played earlier but would our relationship have taken it? We’re not so sure. Just means plenty of making up for lost time!
Cowboy x |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Not necessarily op
I'm half a couple and we don't find it easy to meet other couples, there's the issue of four way attraction and connection. Then availability of 4 people if there's attraction.
We meet separately due to this
Glad you have found this community though and wish you lots of luck x |
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By *iBloomCouple
over a year ago
Carmarthen |
After years of friendship we finally got together......then married and after many years of discussions we finally came to the decision we would like to visit clubs and explore the swinging scene in........ 2020!
Bugger off Covid! |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
I myself honestly never thought would be possible for anything like this so been a pleasant eye opener but fulfilling meeting like minded people and catching up with lost youth things were a lot different but happy to be part of the experience to explore and making some lovely friends  |
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Timing is all and if a point is not the right one for you, then you'd not value it. I could deter you or harm a relationship.
It's different as a single man, so you can gain from that, once the virus is out of the way.
Take things steadily and not let the imagined missing out from the past, pressure you |
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