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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So I've seen a few of these and I also like a good perspective check...any one any thoughts on the profile? Like a lot of people I struggle with the write up sometimes, but any thoughts good, bad or indifferent would be appreciated.

In terms of messaging what do people look for? I try and go on something from their profile but sometimes there isn't anything. I know also the lovelly ladies of this site are bombarded by either idiotic or demanding or down right creepy arse messages from a bunch of cock wombles, I get it beleive me. But with everyone being different I would like to hear what works in terms of getting you to notice the message and check out the profile.

Also do winks work? Do people check them/are you bothered about them

Thanks in advance ladies and gents x

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple  over a year ago

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I don't think those percentage things ever go down well when people ask for profile advice.

Claims if being dominant tend to be off putting. It's not that Women don't want a dominant man, but more that they will likely choose the man they submit to based on personality and presence.

Those needing to claim to be dominant often are not.

If your talking dominant in a BDSM D/s situation maybe talk about your experience.

A sub will want confidence in thier dom and are unlikely to submit to the inexperienced.

It says 98% rigger but there is not mention of your skills with the rope.

If you just enjoy a bit of restraint I'd remove that.

But

If you are skilled in shibari why not talk about that or post photos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thank you.

This is helpful. I shall expand or may be it's better to say that I am learning/evolving when it comes to these things and it's early days guided by some wonderful teachers. Maybe add it's the first test I've done and these are the answers that I connected with the most which has spearheaded my exploration of shibari and D/s dynamics.

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