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By *ubman50 OP Man
over a year ago
chelmsford |
Hi all. I want my wife to cuckold me and meet other men but she just dosen't want to and wont talk about it, just says i can't love her if i want other men to have her, should i just accept it or does anyone have any advice on what i could say or do just to get her to try ? |
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over a year ago
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"Hi all. I want my wife to cuckold me and meet other men but she just dosen't want to and wont talk about it, just says i can't love her if i want other men to have her, should i just accept it or does anyone have any advice on what i could say or do just to get her to try ?"
If it’s not coming naturally then I’d leave it!!!
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I'd respect her decision.
This lifestyle isn't for everyone and if it's not for her forcing her into it won't end well for anyone concerned.
Maybe leave it a while, she might bring it up herself in future now she knows your keen on the idea. |
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You can ease her into it (not coerse her) this way.
As a pro masseur I have massaged many women where the husband arranged for the massage as a loving gift to his wife/partner.
As the lady feels the pleasure of being massaged and noticing that her husband isn't jealous at all that she is touched by another man, she relaxes and may be more open to go a bit further. Some women, not all of course, discover new desires in themselves.
Men too, realise the excitement of seeing their women pleasured by another man.
There's no pressure of any kind on anyone. It all comes naturally. Or simply doesn't happen.
Think about it.
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Being manipulated in to giving up a monogamous relationship is unfair, without full and honest communication. If she wants a relationship without cheating, swinging, cucolding etc, then the terms of the relationship are entirely between the 2 of you, as you've presumably agreed the terms before.
It sounds like you are probably in a very different place to her. It seems unrealistic to expect her to immediately jump into the deep end, if she doesn't swim or like water |
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Your wife’s reaction seems like the natural one, your suggestion seems to have come out of the blue. Don’t give up on the idea you might persuade her though, instead use the opportunity to ask her about her fantasies. Maybe she has one that will surprise you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can ease her into it (not coerse her) this way.
As a pro masseur I have massaged many women where the husband arranged for the massage as a loving gift to his wife/partner.
As the lady feels the pleasure of being massaged and noticing that her husband isn't jealous at all that she is touched by another man, she relaxes and may be more open to go a bit further. Some women, not all of course, discover new desires in themselves.
Men too, realise the excitement of seeing their women pleasured by another man.
There's no pressure of any kind on anyone. It all comes naturally. Or simply doesn't happen.
Think about it.
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What makes you think his wife would welcome that? |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
"Hi all. I want my wife to cuckold me and meet other men but she just dosen't want to and wont talk about it, just says i can't love her if i want other men to have her, should i just accept it or does anyone have any advice on what i could say or do just to get her to try ?"
She has spoken! Unfortunately (for you) it is probably best left now. |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"Hi all. I want my wife to cuckold me and meet other men but she just dosen't want to and wont talk about it, just says i can't love her if i want other men to have her, should i just accept it or does anyone have any advice on what i could say or do just to get her to try ?"
Stop pushing her. Accept and move on |
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"Hi all. I want my wife to cuckold me and meet other men but she just dosen't want to and wont talk about it, just says i can't love her if i want other men to have her, should i just accept it or does anyone have any advice on what i could say or do just to get her to try ?"
Asking for advice?
If she's not into it then that's it.
You can't and shouldn't try to even persuade her otherwise.
Cuckolding has to be a consensual, two way thing. Trying to coerce her is completely unacceptable.
Respect her decision.
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"Hi all. I want my wife to cuckold me and meet other men but she just dosen't want to and wont talk about it, just says i can't love her if i want other men to have her, should i just accept it or does anyone have any advice on what i could say or do just to get her to try ?"
Try changing the word ‘want’ to phrases like ‘would love’ when discussing this scenario with her. Tell her how much you love her, and find the thought of her enjoying herself with other men so horny. It’s not that you want to watch other men have sex with her, it’s the thought of her having pleasure with other men, then coming home smelling of sex, and you ‘reclaiming’ her as your wife. Tell her you know your limits as a lover, and feel she deserves more, so are happy for her to have what she wants elsewhere, and you’re happy to hear about her adventures, and be shown the occasional pic of her fun....
Cuckolding is a shared pleasure..... |
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If your wife's not into the idea, and you bring it up again, she will stop respecting you, if she hasn't already. After that, the love goes. Then you might find she's dating other men romantically, but with you on the outs. |
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