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Winked at, message, then blocked and profile hidden?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I know there are lots of posts on this subject but I really am a bit bamboozled. A couple winked me, so I winked back, they then sent a message with a face pic, I replied sending a pic( not my face) , then I see today they have hidden their profile and blocked me from messaging them. It actually made me a bit paranoid, even though there's no way they would know who I am, do you think they are maybe pic collectors just? The profile was verified but can't remember if it was in person or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's your mum!

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By *abloBackMan over a year ago

London

Similar happened to me this week, I wouldn't worry about it

More important things in life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Same thing happened to me.I had someone wink at me, I winked back then they messaged me. They said they love young guys and asked if I like older women. I said yes then I was blocked

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By *lackCherryCouple over a year ago

Bristol

We have probably given up trying to decipher all the weird behaviour that goes on here. From the people who wink at you then delete half an hour later to those that you have never interacted with but have you on block its all just odd.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

just an every day happening in the weird wacky world of swinging lol

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I think it can be where half a couple has interacted and not told their partner, when partner sees they dissaprove and then block, it would be nice if they just sent a message saying so though. In the case of single people I think they get to a certain point lose their bottle and don't have the good manners to just own up and say they don't want to take things further.

Don't get me started on people who chat to you for a few days as if you're their long lost friend and when you message a date and time to meet stop logging into the site altogether until after the time and date have passed.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I know there are lots of posts on this subject but I really am a bit bamboozled. A couple winked me, so I winked back, they then sent a message with a face pic, I replied sending a pic( not my face) , then I see today they have hidden their profile and blocked me from messaging them. It actually made me a bit paranoid, even though there's no way they would know who I am, do you think they are maybe pic collectors just? The profile was verified but can't remember if it was in person or not."

maybe they took another look at your profile and they felt a bit confused?

its a single fem profile yet you talk about 'us' and then 'I'..

it reads like a couples profile and again like a single persons..

not having a dig at all, just an observation..

good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We posted the same question not long ago, as we have experienced the same.

All we can say is take it as it comes, you'll eventually find who your looking for, and then let the fun commence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

maybe they took another look at your profile and they felt a bit confused?

its a single fem profile yet you talk about 'us' and then 'I'..

it reads like a couples profile and again like a single persons..

not having a dig at all, just an observation..

good luck "
It's not a singles profile it is a couples profile, I used to have a single profile as a secondary one to our couples profile but found that people assumed I met alone even though I stated on the profile that I dont. I also have stated at the top of the profile I am part of a couple. Everyone's right though, you never really know what's goin on with people !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've only had This happen once. A guy sent a polite message and even though not looking for more playmates I responded and over a few weeks we got to know each other and I thought he was really nice. Chatted to him in the morning and everything was fine then by afternoon his account is gone. Not hidden but no longer on site. I wish he had at least said good bye

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By *allymenacplCouple over a year ago

ballymena

happens all the time with people had a bloke block me cos i said he was out of our age range (he blocked us after sending a few cheeky messages of course) and last night a couple blocked us because we dont play on cam... different strokes for different folks never take anything to heart on here

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By *histler21Man over a year ago

Ipswich

They probably looked at your profile and decided that you were too classy for them and it made them feel inadequate - so they have blanked you.

It's not personal (that's what I tell myself when I find myself inexplicably blocked).

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By *rank_SimoneCouple over a year ago

Bideford

Theres nowt as queer as folk

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM) over a year ago

birmingham

"they then sent a message with a face pic, I replied sending a pic( not my face)"

They we're honest enough to send a face pic, you chose not to, and you wonder why you've been blocked.

We do the same, if we send a face pic, and one is not returned, they get blocked, as were clearly not for them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"they then sent a message with a face pic, I replied sending a pic( not my face)

They we're honest enough to send a face pic, you chose not to, and you wonder why you've been blocked.

We do the same, if we send a face pic, and one is not returned, they get blocked, as were clearly not for them."

honest enough? Really? Because I choose not to let any old randomer know who I am makes me dishonest . What a strange way of thinking, however I think ill stick to protecting my identity from potential weirdos ta!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Theres nowt as queer as folk "

I really wouldn't spend time trying to suss out why they behaved that way either as it'll just do your head in...

Onwards and upwards...!

Wolf

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman over a year ago

amersham

You never know people's personal circumstances, so not point in trying to second guess why they do what they do, I don't think

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By *lwood1964Man over a year ago

london

No point in wondering why. Happens to all of us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Happened to us too at pic exchange stage. Obviously didn't like what they saw which is fair enough as not everyone appeals to everyone and probably blocked to save any future pointless communication. Not sure why they'd hide their profile in your case so maybe they're taking a break and it's coincided with your message exchange.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah, its just one of those things, I have no problem with blocking, the way I look at it is it saves people from trying to contact each other. I'm not vain at all so I'm sure it was to do with they didn't like my pics, but it was jus the hiding the profile as well got me a bit worried, then I thought maybe they just like collecting pics. I see the profile isn't hidden anymore but Ive blocked anyway. Just me making something out of nothing haha.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We agree it does make you paranoid its happened to us and that was after face pics were exchanged and they said they still wanted to meet us why not just say you are not for us. I think its just plain bad manners on their behalf and glad we wouldn't sink to their level of rudeness. Honesty is the best policy xx

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By *ertcamembertMan over a year ago

Reading area

"I really wouldn't spend time trying to suss out why they behaved that way either as it'll just do your head in...

Onwards and upwards...!

Wolf

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I quite agree as I have had similar experiences. I just block timewasters and rude people, despite what you may think sometimes they are not in the majority on fabs so dont be put off by them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The sheer number of couples and singles who are rude as sin on here is ever growing. I keep coming back as it is a decent forum to meet and chat, but when you have very average looking people acting like rock stars it becomeds annoying. The bulk of women and couples would not get a second glance in a club, so why act like you and Brad and Angelina on here, you aint.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Look on it as a lucky escape!!

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By *njamesMan over a year ago

Swindon

There are some very strange people out there, and if they didn't like what they saw then they should have just said so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mite now you why they have blocked you I have blocked cpl bridge cos live Down the road from me lol x