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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What can I do better to encourage interaction with women"
Honestly?
You need a better profile picture to start with, IMO.
Haven't read your profile, but perhaps woman don't get past the impression that you're not willing to put much effort in (that's what your profile picture, implies). |
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"What can I do better to encourage interaction with women
Honestly?
You need a better profile picture to start with, IMO.
Haven't read your profile, but perhaps woman don't get past the impression that you're not willing to put much effort in (that's what your profile picture, implies)."
appreciate the feedback thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Urinals in the background of a profile photo... no thanks.
If you’re going to show off your torso in photos, it needs more work... or photos taken from more flattering angles. "
Of all the backgrounds possible...christ you can even change backgrounds easy enough with apps these days no experience needed.
Yet still time and time again single guys opt for the classic piss bowls and shitters in the background. 
Not saying you are OP but that can suggest your here cheating and the bog is the only safe place to take a naked picture. Also its not exactly classy.
Just food for thought buddy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people will love your pics some will not. We are here to attract the one with similar interests to ourselves so keep doing you as opposed to changing your profile to suite others. Being on the forum is a great way as it allows people to get to know a little about you. Invented scenario here. A woman writes “I love a man with a suit on. When I see a man in a suit I don’t care if it’s Sloth from Goonies I’m gushing”. You have a photo of you in a suit. So you upload it. You then message her and send the photo that she’s already guaranteed to work on her. She doesn’t reply. Point is you can’t do what works for others only what works for you. It’s a absolute cop out but be yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also the men above you and below you on any chat, search or inbox feed will be sexier, handsomer and better lover than you. To get attention from the tiny box that is your profile photo. Show something to catch their eye. Maybe a smile. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"What can I do better to encourage interaction with women"
OP...as others have said, you need to sort out your profile. However, more fundamentaly, sort out your expectations.
Nobody is obliged to reply (or even read) your messages.
You may find it easier to join in with conversations in the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take note.. Us fems Do read profiles to an inch of their lives! So make sure all you say is 110% of what you want and can offer and are looking for. It's not the best time to be on here during a pandemic..
I am against the saying do's and don'ts as it says alot to see what men desire to put in their profile.. And is a deal breaker or maker for me as to whether I message them or not.
The profile has to be your own and real! Simples!
It's not about "what's best to put, to gain the most shags!" |
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We've had a look at your profile and think you look more like you're trying to attract gay men who like to fuck in toilets than women. Even your interests are totally anal related. Sorry if this seems a little blunt but you did ask. |
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I might get some slack for saying this but if you tightened up for diet a bit with some moderate exercise you could rapidly improve your shape.
I'm not talking about getting ripped, just losing a bit of excess fat. You could have a far more appealing shape in a pretty short time with some small lifestyle changes.
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"What can I do better to encourage interaction with women"
Nothing you can do. Most women don't seem to be interested. All you can do is keep plugging away and hope for the best. Might be years or if your lucky,maybe even a few months.
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Echo what’s been said above. Your pictures need work as does your profile text. There are some great profiles on here, have a look at some other male profiles to see what you’re up against and get some ideas.
Plus it being illegal to meet at the moment means a lot of people aren’t putting much time into meeting new people at the moment, so you’ll really have to stand out. |
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Your profile needs more, you repeat yourself. Nothing stands out at all. Also, your pictures need to be sexier, not taken in locker room or bathroom. Us older women like to see men dressed nicely, be creative in words and pictures. Good luck |
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What do you write in a message when you first approach somebody? Most of the messages we receive are dreadful and we just delete them. If you are impatient, maybe you are writing something that is of no interest. Can you post an example of one of your opening messages? |
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"What can I do better to encourage interaction with women
Honestly?
You need a better profile picture to start with, IMO.
Haven't read your profile, but perhaps woman don't get past the impression that you're not willing to put much effort in (that's what your profile picture, implies). appreciate the feedback thanks"
OP you are still posting asking the same questions but seemingly have made zero effort to make any changes to your profile. What’s the point? What’s your aim? |
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