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By *ust1fb OP Man
over a year ago
leeds |
I have a female friend we have never had sex or done anything she just a mate shes now asking me about the swinging.
Should I introduce to this scene when the law allows.
Should I take her to a club only
Or should I take her to a club and fuck her too .
Not sure what to do will I lose my friendship with her??
Advice please no wise cracks thankx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not suggest a night out at Pandora’s, strictly sober and just go as a voyeur couple as it were, if you value your friendship and don’t want to change the dynamic you have with her then don’t change it by complicating it unless you BOTH want to.
Nothing ventured nothing gained. |
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As she's asked you about swinging tell her about fab. What was your very long conversation about if the subject of clubs and Internet sites didn't crop up?
Hinting and swinging don't go together well. Have another long conversation with her and ask outright if she'd like you as a guide or as a swinging partner. Also tell her that the most successful swingers are absolutely clear about what they want and open with the people they want to meet but most importantly with their swinging partner.
Good luck |
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You need to have a direct conversation with her about what she is looking for. Very important not to misjudge the situation if you have a friendship. Genuine friendships are valuable, don’t cross the line if you think it might ruin what you have. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
There’s a huge difference between being inquisitive and wanting to actually try.
To some the thought of doing it all is horn inducing enough. Actually going through with it is a wholly different matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does she know you’re on the scene?
Like others have said, show her the site. Plus you can verify her.
I've shown her the site hopefully get her to create profile soon"
Instead of "getting" her to create a profile, you've shown her the site, talked about it ... how about just letting be what will be and leaving her alone! She's an adult and if she wants to make one she will, if she would like assistance I'm sure she's capable of asking but just let her do want she wants! As many have said in many threads most people like to keep here private from friends, family and work colleagues!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just suggest a club visit where you both hang at the bar and socialise only. You’ll soon know what her level of interest is."
Very good advice. I lost a good female friend though fucking her. I will always regretvit also as we had been friends since nursery in school. john |
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"Does she know you’re on the scene?
Like others have said, show her the site. Plus you can verify her.
I've shown her the site hopefully get her to create profile soon"
What she does next is up to her. She's asked your advice once if she needs more advice she'll ask. If she does create a profile the one thing I'd say to tell her is to set her !message filters from the minute she opens her account. |
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"I have a female friend we have never had sex or done anything she just a mate shes now asking me about the swinging.
Should I introduce to this scene when the law allows.
Should I take her to a club only
Or should I take her to a club and fuck her too .
Not sure what to do will I lose my friendship with her??
Advice please no wise cracks thankx"
A club visit if she is prepared to go. But she may find clubs too much at first, so a sensual show, as others suggested, may be safer than gang bang no holes barred action.
Also or in the alternative, take her along on a visit to a playmate. Let her explore at her own pace. Gentle touching, or just observe or full on, as she desires.
Why do you think that sex with her will ruin your friendship? It's up to you both if you fancy doing it or not. |
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I was lucky enough to be introduced to swinging at a party ?
The people there understood it was my first time doing anything like that and just let me watch and wonder round chatting! Yes may seem wired to most but I was thankful to be under no pressure to join in or do anything I wasn’t ready for
Took some amazing photos ( her words ) for the hostess which sort of broke the ice needless to say thanks to everyone there I had a great time
So if when this lockdown breaks a party could be an option? |
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By *eeandsexymCouple
over a year ago
Between selby/york |
"Has she created a fab profile.
Being localish, I'm curious to have a nosey and maybe even help her start her journey 
You don't know the woman or what she's looking for  "
Very true.. But nothing wrong with curiosity surely |
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