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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My daughetrs best mate made a serious suggestion, she wants me to go to bed with her. She's only 20, but meant it.
It was saturday night at a 21st, she made it very clearr, her boyfriends a knob, likes his drink. I gave her my number and told her to txt me sunday if she meant it, she did, and found a lot out about her, she's been with 5 men, 2 who lot older than her.
she's back off holiday on friday n wants to meet, do i, or not, she only looks 17, and best mates with my daughter???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This girl is offering to cheat on her boyfriend and you're worried about her age? I know everyone's different but your priorities here make no sense to me at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She's no happy at all with her bf think she wants more, she knows i got divorced and remarried, she likes older menn"
Oh right, didn't realise you're a cheat too. Guess that explains it then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You seem to have made your own mind up!!
As long as you can handle the fall out with your daughter when she finds out, (because i can't see her best pal keeping it from her), oh, and your missus too when the daughter tells HER!! But, each to their own!!! |
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Part of me wonders if you have just written this as a wind up....
But assuming it is true, don't do it. As a parent your daughter needs to be able to trust you more than anyone else. For you to betray that trust just for one fuck might be a step you never recover from. Then there's your wife, is it worth betraying her too? Try looking at it from a different angle, how would you have felt if your Mum had fucked your best friend at 20 and maybe even split your parents marriage up? It might sound heavy but it's more serious than just another fuck. You risk hurting others who don't deserve to be hurt. Act like a father she should trust ans be proud of, not despise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Part of me wonders if you have just written this as a wind up....
But assuming it is true, don't do it. As a parent your daughter needs to be able to trust you more than anyone else. For you to betray that trust just for one fuck might be a step you never recover from. Then there's your wife, is it worth betraying her too? Try looking at it from a different angle, how would you have felt if your Mum had fucked your best friend at 20 and maybe even split your parents marriage up? It might sound heavy but it's more serious than just another fuck. You risk hurting others who don't deserve to be hurt. Act like a father she should trust ans be proud of, not despise."
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"My daughetrs best mate made a serious suggestion, she wants me to go to bed with her. She's only 20, but meant it.
It was saturday night at a 21st, she made it very clearr, her boyfriends a knob, likes his drink. I gave her my number and told her to txt me sunday if she meant it, she did, and found a lot out about her, she's been with 5 men, 2 who lot older than her.
she's back off holiday on friday n wants to meet, do i, or not, she only looks 17, and best mates with my daughter??? "
Another poster with a Walter Mitty fantasy  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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yes curious....
if everyone in the thread had said "no, wouldn't touch with a bargepole!".... would it have changed your mind?
just because it looks like you had ya mind set from the beginning..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wanted peoples opinion, thanks, it as been helpfull"
the question to ask is this...has she always been your daughters mate? Did you know her as a small child? Were you a trusted friend of the family? Do you know her parents and they see you as someone with whom they previously trusted their child? Is a crafty shag with a potentially vulnerable young woman really worth it because " lifes too short"? Or will you end up coming across as a creepy old guy praying on younger women when it all goes tits up? |
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"No real reason not to. Plus being the nice guy a girl needs is helpful to them, I never got why so many girls choose to be with guys who are obvious scum and will just end in misery."
Being the nice guy a girl needs???
He's cheating on his wife, what is so fucking nice about that?!?!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My daughetrs best mate made a serious suggestion, she wants me to go to bed with her. She's only 20, but meant it.
It was saturday night at a 21st, she made it very clearr, her boyfriends a knob, likes his drink. I gave her my number and told her to txt me sunday if she meant it, she did, and found a lot out about her, she's been with 5 men, 2 who lot older than her.
she's back off holiday on friday n wants to meet, do i, or not, she only looks 17, and best mates with my daughter???
Another poster with a Walter Mitty fantasy "
Possibly, but what if he met the same girl in a club, didn't know she was his daughters 'best' (really???) mate and fucked her? Would be NO different to meeting any other 20yr old fem in a club and having sex with them, would it...?
The thing that clouds the issue is that she is his daughters 'supposed' best mate - she is not a blood relative, nor in any other way other than being friends with his daughter.
The issue for me would NOT be the relationship between his daughter and this girl - it's the fact that she sounds like she could cause serious damage to his marriage on her own - forget what his daughter could do!
A case of ones cock ruling ones head, me thinks.........
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a younger woman who likes older men,,, i would say dont do it... your putting her at risk (if her boyfriend really is a knob and likes a drink god knows how he would react) your risking your relationship with your daughter (because i can guarantee it wouldn't stay secret for long with someone so clearly emotionally immature) and your relationship with your wife. although she would probably be better off without you by the sound of things imo |
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"I don't recall any mention of a wife. If a wife is involved then yeah I'd advise against cheating but if there isn't then that argument is pretty invalid."
Says on his profile he his cheating, but he has reasons, so that must be ok!!  |
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she wants more, because her fella is a knob, so she is going to sleep with her 'best mates' dad, who, its turns out, is married, so, coincidentally, is as big a knob as her fella currently seems to be.
cheat on her fella
cheat on your daughter
cheat on your missus
by christ its lucky you already have a single profile up, cuz if you do it, i reckon you will be in need of it soon enough |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I don't recall any mention of a wife. If a wife is involved then yeah I'd advise against cheating but if there isn't then that argument is pretty invalid."
I think the title of his profile.... "married guy looking for extramartial fun"... would be a bit of a giveaway....
so as others have noticed... daughters best friend... daughter... and wife... all have potential knock on effects from what he is proposing......
are there any good ramifications from this???? if it all goes wrong can you imagine the fallout...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My daughetrs best mate made a serious suggestion, she wants me to go to bed with her. She's only 20, but meant it.
It was saturday night at a 21st, she made it very clearr, her boyfriends a knob, likes his drink. I gave her my number and told her to txt me sunday if she meant it, she did, and found a lot out about her, she's been with 5 men, 2 who lot older than her.
she's back off holiday on friday n wants to meet, do i, or not, she only looks 17, and best mates with my daughter??? "
Not exactly the same scenario but how would
u feel if your best mate slept with your daughter??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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another idiot who thinks with his cock rather than his head.
You want to seriously jeopardise your relationship with your daughter over a some silly little girl, go for it. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I am assuming, so please forgive me if I am wrong..
you were at a 21st, I assume your wife and daughter were at the event and you were chatting to this young lady in almost front of them... that shows little regard for them.. .. You gave her your number so the idea appealed to you...
and the fact that you put at the end of your asking for advice kinda gives the impression you know what you want..
good luck, whatever you decide...
a little sex, a lifetime of regret. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd seriously consider your daughters feelings in this. All girls remember the best friends, but who can forget the best friend who also fucked her father? A double betrayal which should not even be considered |
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"My daughetrs best mate made a serious suggestion, she wants me to go to bed with her. She's only 20, but meant it.
Not exactly the same scenario but how would
u feel if your best mate slept with your daughter?? "
oooo go on i want to read your answer to this one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why all the negativity on here? The op has made a mistake and just posted onto the wrong forum!!
The stories and fantasies forum is further down the list m8!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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why do people assume its a fantasy???
this happened to me, exactly the same secenario. and was discussed at length on a thread last week.
these thinsg do happen you know, just because it hasnet happened to you doesnt make it a fantasy...
anyway onto the OP. in my case i said no and for, i think, good reason.
i value my daughters friendship more than the need for a shag with a younger woman who happens to be her mate.
my advice.. say no no no and in case she didnt get it first time. NO....
its not worth losing the respect of your daughter. |
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"why do people assume its a fantasy???
this happened to me, exactly the same secenario. and was discussed at length on a thread last week.
these thinsg do happen you know, just because it hasnet happened to you doesnt make it a fantasy...
anyway onto the OP. in my case i said no and for, i think, good reason.
i value my daughters friendship more than the need for a shag with a younger woman who happens to be her mate.
my advice.. say no no no and in case she didnt get it first time. NO....
its not worth losing the respect of your daughter."
i dont doubt hes telling the truth but i have a 22yr old daughter who likes older men but if i found out one of our friends hit on her then i would be livid that prob leaves me open as a hypocrite but i dont care my relationship with my daughter is more important to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just what is this insistence on wanting to be on Jeremy Kyle though..
can anyone not see the fights in their minds already.
OP..please dont show us fabswingers up,they way scottish folk normally show up scottish folk! |
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I think the fact you gave her your number says it all really but just remember if your daughter and her friend have a fall out it could quite easily turn quite nasty ..or what if they are out for drinks one nite and have one too much we all know how drink can loosen the tongue .
Do yourself a favour and keep the young girl thing going on in your head a fantasy .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My daughetrs best mate made a serious suggestion, she wants me to go to bed with her. She's only 20, but meant it.
It was saturday night at a 21st, she made it very clearr, her boyfriends a knob, likes his drink. I gave her my number and told her to txt me sunday if she meant it, she did, and found a lot out about her, she's been with 5 men, 2 who lot older than her.
she's back off holiday on friday n wants to meet, do i, or not, she only looks 17, and best mates with my daughter??? "
This wouldn't be a good idea, as she's a bit young and doesn't know how this could effect her relationship with your daughter!! Give me her number and I'll have a word |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My daughetrs best mate made a serious suggestion, she wants me to go to bed with her. She's only 20, but meant it.
Not exactly the same scenario but how would
u feel if your best mate slept with your daughter??
oooo go on i want to read your answer to this one "
So do i!  |
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"My daughetrs best mate made a serious suggestion, she wants me to go to bed with her. She's only 20, but meant it.
Not exactly the same scenario but how would
u feel if your best mate slept with your daughter??
bet he doesnt tho
oooo go on i want to read your answer to this one
So do i! "
bet he doesnt tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My daughetrs best mate made a serious suggestion, she wants me to go to bed with her. She's only 20, but meant it.
Not exactly the same scenario but how would
u feel if your best mate slept with your daughter??
bet he doesnt tho
oooo go on i want to read your answer to this one
So do i!
bet he doesnt tho "
He's disappeared!?!?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My daughetrs best mate made a serious suggestion, she wants me to go to bed with her. She's only 20, but meant it.
Not exactly the same scenario but how would
u feel if your best mate slept with your daughter??
bet he doesnt tho
oooo go on i want to read your answer to this one
So do i!
bet he doesnt tho
He's disappeared!?!? "
well maybe he has a life to attend to lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My daughetrs best mate made a serious suggestion, she wants me to go to bed with her. She's only 20, but meant it.
Not exactly the same scenario but how would
u feel if your best mate slept with your daughter??
bet he doesnt tho
oooo go on i want to read your answer to this one
So do i!
bet he doesnt tho
He's disappeared!?!?
well maybe he has a life to attend to lol"
Or a divorce...
It's actually pretty frightening to read this thread and see so many people talking about betraying his daughter but barely a soul talking about betraying his wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My daughetrs best mate made a serious suggestion, she wants me to go to bed with her. She's only 20, but meant it.
Not exactly the same scenario but how would
u feel if your best mate slept with your daughter??
bet he doesnt tho
oooo go on i want to read your answer to this one
So do i!
bet he doesnt tho
He's disappeared!?!?
well maybe he has a life to attend to lol
Or a divorce...
It's actually pretty frightening to read this thread and see so many people talking about betraying his daughter but barely a soul talking about betraying his wife."
we'd be here all day on that subject itself lol- as the sites got its fair share of 'cheats' lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we'd be here all day on that subject itself lol- as the sites got its fair share of 'cheats' lol"
It does, but you get used to the fact that some people are just scum and you stay away from them. What's more worrying to me is the casual attitude that a much higher number seem to have towards it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we'd be here all day on that subject itself lol- as the sites got its fair share of 'cheats' lol
It does, but you get used to the fact that some people are just scum and you stay away from them. What's more worrying to me is the casual attitude that a much higher number seem to have towards it"
ooohhh... a bit strong that 'scum'???
whilst i dont cheat myself i can sometimes understand peoples reason for it. i think 'scum' is a bit OTT in my opinion...
There are some that would think the same of you for being a swinger, but its not nice is it?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ooohhh... a bit strong that 'scum'???
whilst i dont cheat myself i can sometimes understand peoples reason for it. i think 'scum' is a bit OTT in my opinion...
There are some that would think the same of you for being a swinger, but its not nice is it??"
I don't think it's strong at all. There are different types of cheats of course - if you're out drinking and give in to temptation that's one thing. But the people who cool headedly seek out affairs online, I think "scum" is putting it very politely indeed.
And so what if there are people who would think I was scum? Somebody else thinking I'm scum doesn't mean I can't have morals and values. |
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its either a fantasy which worries me that 'she looks 17' should come into it..
if she is 20 she is 20, why add that bit?
especially after the op seems to have already made up his mind..
and to all the guys on here saying yeh dive in there m8..
put yourself in the position of the 20 year olds dad if she were to come home in tears as it had all gone pete tong..
if it is true and the op goes down that path, nothing but contempt tbh and if he thinks the girl wont throw it in the face of his daughter if they fall out..then dream on.. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"its either a fantasy which worries me that 'she looks 17' should come into it..
if she is 20 she is 20, why add that bit?
especially after the op seems to have already made up his mind..
and to all the guys on here saying yeh dive in there m8..
put yourself in the position of the 20 year olds dad if she were to come home in tears as it had all gone pete tong..
if it is true and the op goes down that path, nothing but contempt tbh and if he thinks the girl wont throw it in the face of his daughter if they fall out..then dream on.."
the daughter and the wife.....
thats why i was sad to see some many men say "yeah I'd do it" and not think about the consequences...
mind you I suppose its another way of seperating those who brains are in their trousers... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This girl is offering to cheat on her boyfriend and you're worried about her age? I know everyone's different but your priorities here make no sense to me at all."
Personally I'd be more concerned for my daughter
I would think his daughter would be the higher of priorities. but hey ho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a simple philosophy to life, if something could potentially bring a shitload of hassle in to my life it really isn't a good idea.
Seriously OP get a grip why are you even asking this question? What part of this scenario seems even a remotely sensible idea?
Are you that desperate to get laid that you would risk fucking up your relationship with your daughter probably for good?
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"I have a simple philosophy to life, if something could potentially bring a shitload of hassle in to my life it really isn't a good idea.
Seriously OP get a grip why are you even asking this question? What part of this scenario seems even a remotely sensible idea?
Are you that desperate to get laid that you would risk fucking up your relationship with your daughter probably for good?
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best post so far |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This girl is offering to cheat on her boyfriend and you're worried about her age? I know everyone's different but your priorities here make no sense to me at all.
Personally I'd be more concerned for my daughter
I would think his daughter would be the higher of priorities. but hey ho."
Yeah, that's whag makes no sense. Two counts of adultery are no big deal possibly making your daughter feel a bit awkward is... I don't get it at all, they're both grown women. |
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"No real reason not to. Plus being the nice guy a girl needs is helpful to them, I never got why so many girls choose to be with guys who are obvious scum and will just end in misery."
That's hilarious. To me "obvious scum" would be a married guy who would knowingly fuck his daughters friend, knowing she's also in a relationship.
Some people have a really warped sense of right & wrong.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cannot believe you are even considering it!!! My god mate she is the same age as your daughter... its just WRONG!!!
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just checked ur age range lol...er.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I cannot believe you are even considering it!!! My god mate she is the same age as your daughter... its just WRONG!!!
just checked ur age range lol...er.."
No problem with my age range... theres a 10 year gap between that and the eldest member of the kids in my family including nieces and nephews!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I cannot believe you are even considering it!!! My god mate she is the same age as your daughter... its just WRONG!!!
just checked ur age range lol...er..
No problem with my age range... theres a 10 year gap between that and the eldest member of the kids in my family including nieces and nephews!!!"
just pointing out tho...some would consider 20years to be a bit sick
the issue isnt age for the OPs post..its the relationship/consequences to daughter and wife that leaves the taste of sourness in most ppls mouths... |
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Well the fact you already started sexting and asking about how many men she hadetc sorta says you already made your mind up.... A real dad would have just been a nice guy an talked not ask sexual stuff
As you already divorced and remarried wow your willing to throw a second chance away for a fuck which if daught finds out could loose everything
But as many ppl have said by readin the post an the later one life's too short means ur already decided just shame for your daughter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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just pointing out tho...some would consider 20years to be a bit sick
the issue isnt age for the OPs post..its the relationship/consequences to daughter and wife that leaves the taste of sourness in most ppls mouths..."
Do you care to explain why you think that some people might think it's "a bit sick"? I understand the sentiment that not everyone would agree with an age gap like that but sick seems an unnecessarily harsh and judgmental term to use. |
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"Just wanted peoples opinion, thanks, it as been helpfull"
No, you were showing off. At your age you don't need the opinion of strangers. You seem proud of yourself.
Good for you, we all now know you're sleazy. |
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"Just what is this insistence on wanting to be on Jeremy Kyle though..
can anyone not see the fights in their minds already.
OP..please dont show us fabswingers up,they way scottish folk normally show up scottish folk!"
Haahaahaahaa! Tickled me no end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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just pointing out tho...some would consider 20years to be a bit sick
the issue isnt age for the OPs post..its the relationship/consequences to daughter and wife that leaves the taste of sourness in most ppls mouths...
Do you care to explain why you think that some people might think it's "a bit sick"? I understand the sentiment that not everyone would agree with an age gap like that but sick seems an unnecessarily harsh and judgmental term to use."
Sorry to tell you but I am one of those that think 20 yrs age difference is sick, in fact the worst I have seen is a 52 yr old woman and an 18 yr old lad, seriously tell me that that is okay???? |
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just pointing out tho...some would consider 20years to be a bit sick
the issue isnt age for the OPs post..its the relationship/consequences to daughter and wife that leaves the taste of sourness in most ppls mouths...
Do you care to explain why you think that some people might think it's "a bit sick"? I understand the sentiment that not everyone would agree with an age gap like that but sick seems an unnecessarily harsh and judgmental term to use.
Sorry to tell you but I am one of those that think 20 yrs age difference is sick, in fact the worst I have seen is a 52 yr old woman and an 18 yr old lad, seriously tell me that that is okay???? "
profile says your 51 and you met a 35yo which is only 4 years away from the 20 years which you find sick ? surely if both parties are happy whats the harm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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just pointing out tho...some would consider 20years to be a bit sick
the issue isnt age for the OPs post..its the relationship/consequences to daughter and wife that leaves the taste of sourness in most ppls mouths...
Do you care to explain why you think that some people might think it's "a bit sick"? I understand the sentiment that not everyone would agree with an age gap like that but sick seems an unnecessarily harsh and judgmental term to use.
Sorry to tell you but I am one of those that think 20 yrs age difference is sick, in fact the worst I have seen is a 52 yr old woman and an 18 yr old lad, seriously tell me that that is okay???? profile says your 51 and you met a 35yo which is only 4 years away from the 20 years which you find sick ? surely if both parties are happy whats the harm"
It was when I lowered my age preference to hopefully widen my choice but I changed it when I realised that a) it hadnt helped and b) I was old enough to be his mother |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a shame really isnt it, these middle aged guys hankering over their childrens friends.
OP go and have a wank, its obvious you can't think straight with a erection, then look at your dilemma again. |
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Only the OP can decide what to do. If it was me, tempting as it may be I'd have to be strong and not do it. If I may tell a story of what happened to a friend of mine: A girlfriend of his daughter had been coming on to him for weeks and eventually the temptation was too much and they began a relationship, all legal, she was 19, he was 38 though and her dads mate... Sure enough it all turned sour and big fallouts happened. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Sorry to tell you but I am one of those that think 20 yrs age difference is sick, in fact the worst I have seen is a 52 yr old woman and an 18 yr old lad, seriously tell me that that is okay???? "
Its OK
Seriously, why would you care about how two other people find pleasure? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sorry to tell you but I am one of those that think 20 yrs age difference is sick, in fact the worst I have seen is a 52 yr old woman and an 18 yr old lad, seriously tell me that that is okay????
Its OK
Seriously, why would you care about how two other people find pleasure?"
I was commenting on what someone else said, no I don't care but I was making a point |
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just pointing out tho...some would consider 20years to be a bit sick
the issue isnt age for the OPs post..its the relationship/consequences to daughter and wife that leaves the taste of sourness in most ppls mouths...
Do you care to explain why you think that some people might think it's "a bit sick"? I understand the sentiment that not everyone would agree with an age gap like that but sick seems an unnecessarily harsh and judgmental term to use.
Sorry to tell you but I am one of those that think 20 yrs age difference is sick, in fact the worst I have seen is a 52 yr old woman and an 18 yr old lad, seriously tell me that that is okay???? profile says your 51 and you met a 35yo which is only 4 years away from the 20 years which you find sick ? surely if both parties are happy whats the harm
It was when I lowered my age preference to hopefully widen my choice but I changed it when I realised that a) it hadnt helped and b) I was old enough to be his mother "
So judgemental and hypocritical then...
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"My daughetrs best mate made a serious suggestion, she wants me to go to bed with her. She's only 20, but meant it.
It was saturday night at a 21st, she made it very clearr, her boyfriends a knob, likes his drink. I gave her my number and told her to txt me sunday if she meant it, she did, and found a lot out about her, she's been with 5 men, 2 who lot older than her.
she's back off holiday on friday n wants to meet, do i, or not, she only looks 17, and best mates with my daughter??? "
Shame on you. You daughter would prob disown both of you if she found out. |
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just pointing out tho...some would consider 20years to be a bit sick
the issue isnt age for the OPs post..its the relationship/consequences to daughter and wife that leaves the taste of sourness in most ppls mouths...
Do you care to explain why you think that some people might think it's "a bit sick"? I understand the sentiment that not everyone would agree with an age gap like that but sick seems an unnecessarily harsh and judgmental term to use.
Sorry to tell you but I am one of those that think 20 yrs age difference is sick, in fact the worst I have seen is a 52 yr old woman and an 18 yr old lad, seriously tell me that that is okay???? profile says your 51 and you met a 35yo which is only 4 years away from the 20 years which you find sick ? surely if both parties are happy whats the harm
It was when I lowered my age preference to hopefully widen my choice but I changed it when I realised that a) it hadnt helped and b) I was old enough to be his mother
So judgemental and hypocritical then...
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Not at all, its called a preference and choice of changing because it wasn't working and didn't feel right |
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So what happened??! Do we think he shagged the young lass, her boyfriend found out and kicked the shit out of both of them... His wife kicked him out and his daughter will never speak to him again?
Or is he now on a couple's profile with his young girly?! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Sorry to tell you but I am one of those that think 20 yrs age difference is sick, in fact the worst I have seen is a 52 yr old woman and an 18 yr old lad, seriously tell me that that is okay????
Its OK
Seriously, why would you care about how two other people find pleasure?
I was commenting on what someone else said, no I don't care but I was making a point"
Although i think the OP is misguidede, I don't tIink shagging people so much younger or older than you is 'sick'. Two consenting adults shagging is not 'sick'. |
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Sorry to tell you but I am one of those that think 20 yrs age difference is sick, in fact the worst I have seen is a 52 yr old woman and an 18 yr old lad, seriously tell me that that is okay????
Its OK
Seriously, why would you care about how two other people find pleasure?
I was commenting on what someone else said, no I don't care but I was making a point
Although i think the OP is misguidede, I don't tIink shagging people so much younger or older than you is 'sick'. Two consenting adults shagging is not 'sick'."
You obviously haven't seen some of the videos on x-hamster then lol  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Sorry to tell you but I am one of those that think 20 yrs age difference is sick, in fact the worst I have seen is a 52 yr old woman and an 18 yr old lad, seriously tell me that that is okay????
Its OK
Seriously, why would you care about how two other people find pleasure?
I was commenting on what someone else said, no I don't care but I was making a point
Although i think the OP is misguidede, I don't tIink shagging people so much younger or older than you is 'sick'. Two consenting adults shagging is not 'sick'.
You obviously haven't seen some of the videos on x-hamster then lol "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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After a long serious talk, we did fuck, it was'nt sleazy or perverted, as for the age difference, well my x wife went with 50yr old man when she was 17, and had a fling with 62yr old when she was 36, and still with me then, the 1 thing wrong, was to do behind wifes back, so there are women who do have and like older men. |
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"ooohhh... a bit strong that 'scum'???
whilst i dont cheat myself i can sometimes understand peoples reason for it. i think 'scum' is a bit OTT in my opinion...
There are some that would think the same of you for being a swinger, but its not nice is it??
I don't think it's strong at all. There are different types of cheats of course - if you're out drinking and give in to temptation that's one thing. But the people who cool headedly seek out affairs online, I think "scum" is putting it very politely indeed."
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By (user no longer on site)
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just pointing out tho...some would consider 20years to be a bit sick
the issue isnt age for the OPs post..its the relationship/consequences to daughter and wife that leaves the taste of sourness in most ppls mouths...
Do you care to explain why you think that some people might think it's "a bit sick"? I understand the sentiment that not everyone would agree with an age gap like that but sick seems an unnecessarily harsh and judgmental term to use."
Can u please read exactly what I have been saying earlier in the thread!!!....I never said I thought anything was sick..I was pointing out its some peoples _iews that vast age differences are sick.Do not misread MY post thanks, I hate being misquoted, |
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"Just what is this insistence on wanting to be on Jeremy Kyle though..
can anyone not see the fights in their minds already.
OP..please dont show us fabswingers up,they way scottish folk normally show up scottish folk!
Haahaahaahaa! Tickled me no end. "
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"you know its wrong thats why your trying to justify if.
But i hope it doesnt back fire on you, or maybe you deserve it to"
Fully agree. If you have to question you're actions then you're genrally doing wrong.The young lady as you state is twenty years old and as of yet not legally responsible to make many decisions.personaly i find this post worrying |
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"you know its wrong thats why your trying to justify if.
But i hope it doesnt back fire on you, or maybe you deserve it toFully agree. If you have to question you're actions then you're genrally doing wrong.The young lady as you state is twenty years old and as of yet not legally responsible to make many decisions.personaly i find this post worrying "
Sorry the only thing she isnt legal to do is drive a HGV and Drink in America,, she is legally allowed to make the decision to own a home, start a family, have sex, drive a car, enter into a contract with someone.... but i wouldnt worry about this post,,, as the OP hasn't got back to it i assume it was just one of those fantasy things... |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"After a long serious talk, we did fuck, it was'nt sleazy or perverted, as for the age difference, well my x wife went with 50yr old man when she was 17, and had a fling with 62yr old when she was 36, and still with me then, the 1 thing wrong, was to do behind wifes back, so there are women who do have and like older men."
to be fair I think your mind was well made up before your post. You got a lot of advice, you made your decision....
good luck to you ALL for the future....
I hope it was the correct one longer term. |
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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago
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"we'd be here all day on that subject itself lol- as the sites got its fair share of 'cheats' lol
It does, but you get used to the fact that some people are just scum and you stay away from them. What's more worrying to me is the casual attitude that a much higher number seem to have towards it"
Scum ? Scum ?
A judgemental person from Scotland. Does it get any more insulting ? Lol. |
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How splendid to see that despite the social revolution which took place in the late 60s and 70s so many British people still deserve the reputation they have for being sexually repressed and dysfunctional and of course hypocritical. |
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I can only imagine this is a timebomb waiting to go off!
The fallout from this could create a family split that might never mend.
If you really want a 20yo girl then why not try for one on here rather than a family friend.
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By (user no longer on site)
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There's 2 tangents going on here, the age range thing is another can of worms entirely.
What the OP is telling us is that fantasy or not he has no respect for the people he supposedly cares about in his life, cheating on your wife is bad enough but if his daughter finds out I'm not sure he'd ever be able to win back her respect.
Although judging by his posts I'm guessing this guy doesn't command a lot of respect anyway. |
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"My daughetrs best mate made a serious suggestion, she wants me to go to bed with her. She's only 20, but meant it.
It was saturday night at a 21st, she made it very clearr, her boyfriends a knob, likes his drink. I gave her my number and told her to txt me sunday if she meant it, she did, and found a lot out about her, she's been with 5 men, 2 who lot older than her.
she's back off holiday on friday n wants to meet, do i, or not, she only looks 17, and best mates with my daughter??? "
Best paying for a hotel and a ticket to Glasgow I will look after her for you ! Your daughters relationship with you should be more important than just a one off fling BUT I would hate to see the girl stuck x |
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