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"Is not safe sex.
A guy we met once got quite upset that I wouldn't let his uncovered penis near me.
That is a regular occurrence  "
We regularly had guys look bemused when we've produced condoms but fortunately it's rare (for us) to find a man who doesn't understand that he needs to cover up before any contact. |
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"Is not safe sex.
A guy we met once got quite upset that I wouldn't let his uncovered penis near me.
That is a regular occurrence
We regularly had guys look bemused when we've produced condoms but fortunately it's rare (for us) to find a man who doesn't understand that he needs to cover up before any contact."
Condoms have not been an issue on a 1 to 1 for me but quite often at private parties where it’s been a regular occurrence . And frankly it has stopped me attending alone . |
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"Is not safe sex.
A guy we met once got quite upset that I wouldn't let his uncovered penis near me.
That is a regular occurrence
We regularly had guys look bemused when we've produced condoms but fortunately it's rare (for us) to find a man who doesn't understand that he needs to cover up before any contact.
Condoms have not been an issue on a 1 to 1 for me but quite often at private parties where it’s been a regular occurrence . And frankly it has stopped me attending alone ."
I can imagine. |
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"Even if asked to go bareback from a lady is a no from me & if that means no play then so be it."
Same here I wouldn't dream of any contact in that way without being covered. For my safety as well as anyone else's.
Blow jobs are different though I wouldn't cover unless asked, or am I wrong ? |
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"Got to be safe sex. But what about oral? "
Mindfulness would dictate covered oral too including a mouth dam for reverse oral but my reality is that I might as well become celibate
Same as guys tend to give themselves a little tug now and then during play , should I prevent them from touching my bits from then on or making them use the one hand for touching themselves and the other for touching me ...
There’s some risks I’m prepared to take and others that are a plain nono |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always cover up to respect a woman & to make her safe & myself with been a kidney transplant recipient, I’m allow to have sex using protection but transplant patients who want children have got to get advise from their consultant regarding changing medication as some transplant drugs can cause birth defects in an unborn child |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have had this too. Always make it clear that a condom is going to be used, then get - "but can I take it off and come over your pussy?"
Errr... nope!"
I just don’t see how they think it’s ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We was at a house party once and the guys would be in one room playing with a girl and when finished with her, they wanted to come play with me BUT some of them didn’t want to change their condom between girls !!
My hubby made sure that whoever came to play with me, put on a fresh condom from a new packet !!!
Also, I’d never let anyone cum over my clit!! |
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"We was at a house party once and the guys would be in one room playing with a girl and when finished with her, they wanted to come play with me BUT some of them didn’t want to change their condom between girls !!
My hubby made sure that whoever came to play with me, put on a fresh condom from a new packet !!!
Also, I’d never let anyone cum over my clit!!"
Whats wrong with people ? Of course you would use a new one in that situation (not that I've been lucky enough to have that happen lol) |
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"Also cumming in your eyes, which should be punished by a life sentence, is also not safe sex"
Cum on your face should be punishable by DEATH. Fucking hate it, not even Mr.J is allowed to contemplate it.
Burns your eyes, your face is tacky as fuck for days and it's absolutely horrible. There, I'm done moaning now.  |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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It's the same as cumming over your stomach or back, rubbing the cum over you then fingering your pussy this also carries the cum into the pussy.
Some people do not understand what safe sex it they think using a condom is the be all and end all of it |
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People have no respect, would it be possible to ask you lovely ladies some advice please ? Is it wrong for a guy to want sex more than relationship ? the thing is I always wanted it but I don’t want to set out & use anyone
Thoughts please . |
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"People have no respect, would it be possible to ask you lovely ladies some advice please ? Is it wrong for a guy to want sex more than relationship ? the thing is I always wanted it but I don’t want to set out & use anyone
Thoughts please . "
You could always post a thread to ask.
Just a thought. |
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"People have no respect, would it be possible to ask you lovely ladies some advice please ? Is it wrong for a guy to want sex more than relationship ? the thing is I always wanted it but I don’t want to set out & use anyone
Thoughts please . "
No not at all, there are plenty of women looking for sex with no ties as well that you'd be compatible with. The only thing I will say is be honest upfront. Don't play the whole vanilla dating game and then tell her after you've had sex. State clearly from the offset that we want NSA, a fuck buddy, FWB, just a fuck, or whatever. You'll get some women walk away no doubt but the others will appreciate the honesty and migh just want a simple fuck as well. Also think about where you're searching, going on eHarmony, or other serous dating sites, etc. might not be the best place to look. On here, and causal sex dating sites - no probs, like I said plenty of us are happy with the same. Xx |
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"People have no respect, would it be possible to ask you lovely ladies some advice please ? Is it wrong for a guy to want sex more than relationship ? the thing is I always wanted it but I don’t want to set out & use anyone
Thoughts please .
No not at all, there are plenty of women looking for sex with no ties as well that you'd be compatible with. The only thing I will say is be honest upfront. Don't play the whole vanilla dating game and then tell her after you've had sex. State clearly from the offset that we want NSA, a fuck buddy, FWB, just a fuck, or whatever. You'll get some women walk away no doubt but the others will appreciate the honesty and migh just want a simple fuck as well. Also think about where you're searching, going on eHarmony, or other serous dating sites, etc. might not be the best place to look. On here, and causal sex dating sites - no probs, like I said plenty of us are happy with the same. Xx "
I’m happy with just fun , that’s it , I don’t use many dating sites to be honest as it’s all monthly subscriptions but I aren’t working at the moment , plus my parents don’t know I’m on here even thou I’m 36 , they are really protective & because I’m classed as a vulnerable person my parents always check my in comings & outgoings in my accounts so if I payed for this it would come up on my bank records.
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"People have no respect, would it be possible to ask you lovely ladies some advice please ? Is it wrong for a guy to want sex more than relationship ? the thing is I always wanted it but I don’t want to set out & use anyone
Thoughts please .
No not at all, there are plenty of women looking for sex with no ties as well that you'd be compatible with. The only thing I will say is be honest upfront. Don't play the whole vanilla dating game and then tell her after you've had sex. State clearly from the offset that we want NSA, a fuck buddy, FWB, just a fuck, or whatever. You'll get some women walk away no doubt but the others will appreciate the honesty and migh just want a simple fuck as well. Also think about where you're searching, going on eHarmony, or other serous dating sites, etc. might not be the best place to look. On here, and causal sex dating sites - no probs, like I said plenty of us are happy with the same. Xx "
Juicey Jessica , thanks again for your advice , also I would like to say , you look really pretty , stunning smile & figure |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And another thread gets hijacked! 
Highjacked by who ? "
By your good self sir, by posing your own question rather than a fresh thread. It’s called hijacking. |
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