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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Profile’s....
Both ours / mine are fairly long and I’ve tried to put everything in them, so as to not waste anyone’s time.
But, looking at a lot of the messages we / I receive, it’s plain to see that most people don’t read profiles
Does a long profile put you off?
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"Profile’s
Both ours / mine are fairly long and I’ve tried to put everything in them, so as to not waste anyone’s time.
But, looking at a lot of the messages we / I receive, it’s plain to see that most people don’t read profiles
Does a long profile put you off?
" no it doesn’t put us off. We read them as it’s annoying when people don’t.
No a lot of people don’t read them. Learned just to ignore them or answer if we like their profile. |
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
Wiltshire and London |
The ones that put me off are:
1. Stream of consciousness things with no punctuation, or crap spelling;
2. Lists of no-nos, usually in capitals; or
3. “Will fill this in later” or similar.
As for those silly Sydney University things... |
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I completely agree with the above.
Long profiles, it seems, tend to turn men off more than women!
I use this to my advantage (far fewer messages, and easier to out those who don't bother to read).
Write on, guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn't seem to matter. Since I've updated mine to barely a few words - the amount of messages I'm receiving hasn't changed. It's clearly: "look at pictures, message. Profile? Was I supposed to read that?" |
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By *mg 321Man
over a year ago
Blackpool |
It’s when you see such a list of demands of do’s and don’t, must haves and must nots that you think wow I’m dealing with some kind up super model here.. then you look at the pictures and think differently. |
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"It’s when you see such a list of demands of do’s and don’t, must haves and must nots that you think wow I’m dealing with some kind up super model here.. then you look at the pictures and think differently. "
Really?
You say demands, they'll say wishlist or non negotiable. Each to their own.... |
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