Mindfulness and relaxation rather than anything involving sandpaper 
Also interesting are some of the "h*pnotic" cock hero style videos on pornhub. They are a bit like mindfulness/relaxation videos but for masturbation purposes.
Basically learning to understand how your body feels and focus on controlling it a bit. Being "present", "in the moment", "relaxed", "focused", etc, all those mindfulness buzzwords!!! |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
Not a fella so not 100% sure, but I think there are desensitising creams you can get that sort of numb the bellend a bit? Maybe try online Boots etc) or speak to GP.
Also agree with condoms. I’ve had a few fellas moan that condoms desensitise them a bit (although they might have just been saying that!). Maybe experiment with the different brands as some are thicker/thinner.
Maybe have a stealth wank before a meet so you don’t pop straight away.
And maybe chat to the person who you’ll be giving a seeing to and explain that sometimes you occasionally cum quick, just so that they are aware.
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"12 pints and a condom should do the trick.
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This works too, as long as the 13th pint doesn't give you Mr floppy.
You could also aim to cum at least twice in a meet, expect the first to be a quickly, after that the second usually takes more work... Like a stealth wank but without the stealth, or wank.... Just tell her she is so special you want to do her at least twice |
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