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Am i ugly?
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"Maybe many years in and out of here has led to the update. Tough it’s the truth "
You asked for feedback. Probably best to lose the toilet shot.
Re status update. If the first thing people see is your status update it puts a dark note in the mind, changing how they then see you - truth or not!  |
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"Am i ugly? If not how can I not get anywhere on here? Feel free to ask for a pic
Yes."
Harsh
Its hard on here for lots of people and easy to get jealous (op) but be yourself and try and be happy with that, and ignore things that make you feel down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am i ugly? If not how can I not get anywhere on here? Feel free to ask for a pic
Yes.
Harsh
Its hard on here for lots of people and easy to get jealous (op) but be yourself and try and be happy with that, and ignore things that make you feel down"
not harsh, there are so meny idiots on here, and im not saying the op is one, but hes behaving like one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think your pictures are quite good. But, You come across as a very aggressive person with the 'fuck off' quote. And a touch arrogant calling others out. |
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It is difficult to say ... given your face is covered, and it is not for us to judge.
As others have alluded to, your status really is off the mark here. Theoretically you would fall in to my bracket as someone I would potentially be interested in, but reading that, and some of the narrative on your profile would put me off!
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
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"Am i ugly? If not how can I not get anywhere on here? Feel free to ask for a pic"
Define ugly, it's an emotive word.
Ugly regarding your physical looks, no idea, I can't see your face.
Ugly regarding your attitude as a human being, no idea, I've never met you or spoken to you.
Ugly aura, from your status and profile biog, I could come to that conclusion.
Your profile in general is very negative which isn't attractive, plus, the disclaimer which even Fab say is pointless is 3 times the length of your biog.
However, you're not in the demographic we're looking to meet, if it wasn't for your thread we'd never have looked at your profile, so our feedback is largely irrelevant, we're not the people you're looking to attract.
Good luck, Fab can be tough, it can be cruel at times. It cam also be fun. Hoping you can find the fun you're looking for.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like has already been said, the status is cringe worthy.
Is hard to tell what you look like. Everyone has different tastes. What is beautiful to one may be not so much for someone else. Fab is a numbers game I'm afraid. With a totally disproportionate male to female ratio.
Hope you find what you're looking for.
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By *pices69Couple
over a year ago
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Status update is ugly
Profile doesn’t tell us anything... Also, quite rude...
Come here for fun, to meet people we would want to spend time with... Looks aren’t everything, but in this case, the profile is unattractive.
Hope you have better luck in future and take feedback as constructive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That status update says more about you as a person than any picture could possibly do. Would put me off instantly even if you were the most stunning looking person on here (which you are not). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Crumbs! I stopped initially at the status update but have now read the rest of the profile. I am afraid every word comes across as ugly. I very much doubt you will get any interest as it currently stands. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a great man said once, beauty is skin deep but ugliness goes right to the bone
Id rather someone who had a pretty personality rather than a shallow diva |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am i ugly? If not how can I not get anywhere on here? Feel free to ask for a pic"
Nasty status and harsh profile. You may not be ugly we cant tell. But inside these portray an ugly person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stark reality on here and any other site is that very very few people, especially women, are actually looking to meet. Many years ago as an experiment i put an ad on Craigslist with pics as being a young guy in a central london hotel up for anything the following evening. Snowed under by replies but not one person actually contacted me the following day wanting details. Says it all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am i ugly? If not how can I not get anywhere on here? Feel free to ask for a pic"
Right Chelz. I'm not usually one to hold back on what I say...( I should be gagged and hidden in a box under the stairs sometimes, if I'm being honest....!!) But you've asked a question and I will do my best to answer it as truthfully as I can!
Your pics are fairly cute, loving the mask, really love that!! Love the outfits, super cute!! And then it comes to your 'blurb' and status..... This is your downfall, right there!!
I think people have given the perfect example of why you may have been called 'ugly'. It's not an aesthetic thing, but an attitude thing!
Honestly... Would YOU date you?
Now, come on, take the advice given as trying to help you, there's some straight talkers on here, and maybe write something with a smile on your face at the time you write it! You will see a huuuuuuge change if you do! Once you've got it sorted, sit back and let your inbox be the judge!  xx
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I agree with a previous commenter, your status is ugly and that's 10 times worse than an physically unattractive face!!
Maybe the slight issue of a global pandemic is also hindering your meet potential.
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Your profile text is unpleasant and your status update is the same. Can’t see much of you in your pics so idea if you’re physically ugly, but you’re putting yourself across that way in your profile.
In general it’s warm, friendly profiles that do best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No wonder you are struggling with a status like that, I think more positive. There is someone out there for me it might take a little time to find each other that’s the way I look at it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe many years in and out of here has led to the update. Tough it’s the truth
You asked for feedback. Probably best to lose the toilet shot.
Re status update. If the first thing people see is your status update it puts a dark note in the mind, changing how they then see you - truth or not! "
This.
I'd also add that not everyone is looking to meet Tvs and we are in a pandemic so less people are both on the site and obviously meeting.
Lastly your profile doesn't really tell anyone why they should meet you. What makes you more worth their time and effort than other people? |
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By *.W CPLCouple
over a year ago
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We have had a look at your profile can't say you look ugly as you hide your face but as for personality yes you seem like a horrible person who is very shallow and you shouldn't put others down to make yourself feel better and asking for face pics and blatantly saying you won't give one out isn't doing you any favours ether |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have had a look at your profile can't say you look ugly as you hide your face but as for personality yes you seem like a horrible person who is very shallow and you shouldn't put others down to make yourself feel better and asking for face pics and blatantly saying you won't give one out isn't doing you any favours ether "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't read the profile before, only the status update.
Now I read it and it's revolting.
Ugly personality will never attract any positivity. On fab or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't read the profile before, only the status update.
Now I read it and it's revolting.
Ugly personality will never attract any positivity. On fab or not."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ugly status suggests an ugly person.
It's not about looks, it's attitude. "
Agree totally.
Ugliness comes from the inside.
The status tells everyone what they need to know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think your status would put most off each to their own but if your personality is ugly it can be a huge put off that's not for me to say why you are not getting any meets but need to work on the inside before working on the outside, can't please everyone we are all attracted to different things I hope you eventually find what you are looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't see the point of uploading several pics of a face in a scary face mask. I also think the text on the profile is a bit nasty - have some respect for the reader. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a no , your photos are pointless they don’t show you , this site is a selling site , you have to promote yourself, why the swear words ? It makes you look a dick , maybe a total makeover is needed , |
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