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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Bye now ave been blocked bye evrybody lol well am sorry and a do mean it need to grow up,   "
banter more, show your personality and you can do well...
we have all done something silly, so don't let it get ya down
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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go the shop, get your self the biggest bag of salt you can find, have it next to you always whilst your logged in here (you will also need a dust pan & brush to clear up)
This is fab, not real life. The people behind the profile my not be who they claim to be. Just be more aware, if something doesnt sound right, it may not be |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can't do that then evry1 will delete me Lmao
"Bye now ave been blocked bye evrybody lol well am sorry and a do mean it need to grow up,
banter more, show your personality and you can do well...
we have all done something silly, so don't let it get ya down
good luck"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wats the point pple"
have to state the obvious. your profile and your posts on here are very negative, remember fun is the name of the game xx relax and have fun.. knock that chip off your shoulder..    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ano sorry if I offended "
Stop worrying about offending people (as you are clearly offended by others not responding and blocking you) and start concerning yourself on how you come over to others.
Have to say I agree with an earlier post regarding the negativity which comes over in both your profile narrative and your posts (had a look at those in the Scottish forum - tut tut!!!).
YOU have got to accept some basic facts about 'life' on Fab (or any other swinging site) or you WILL crash and burn. As a single male, the odds ARE stacked against you. There are possibly 100 single males for every single female on here - so you don't need to be Einstein to work that one out. Secondly, put yourself in a womans shoes - you message her through Fab and she gets a message from a complete stranger. Just from a basic personal security point do you honestly expect her to come running a drop her knickers for every stranger who messages her? No. So YOU have to work at it, my friend.
Lastly (nearly at the end of my rant!), THE best way to get anywhere in the swinging world as a single guy is to go to clubs - or in fact, ONE club on a regular basis. And I do mean REGULAR. Get your face (and cock!) known so that people TRUST you, then you will start to get somewhere and you can ignore the ones who don't reply, block etc.
Like all things in life - YOU took the decision to join this 'world', so YOU have to play by the rules which existed when you joined - YOU cannot expect those 'rules' to be varied to suit your temperament/issues etc etc etc....
If you don't like my bluntness - I make no apologies. I have 'swung' as a single guy for a long time, and have learned there is no point in pussy-footing around on this. The problem lies within YOU - and most certainly NOT within anyone else.... 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank for the good info and iam happy you told me how it is so wot do I do with my profile put a lot of bullshit in it I don't know wot to do "
Why don't you do a search on single guys of your age and, I would say, slightly older (up to 40) - look for the ones with a good range of veris BY MEETING - NOT webcam - and take a good look at how they write their profiles, what pics they show in public etc. One little thing about profile narratives (what you say about you) - women like to see that you can write REAL English - not text speak (innit) or any variation thereof. Compared to men, women are great readers - in general they will put more into what you say than even what your pics show (cant wait for the Fab Sistahood to shoot me down for that one!) - and it is a VERY common theme in the forums that the guys who whinge/moan about not getting meets are almost 100% the ones who think it is acceptable to write 'pple' when the really mean 'people'...... Point made????????
It all takes time - you have only been on here for four weeks (well, with this profile anyway - I see someone thinks they have seen you on here before) -some guys have been on here MONTHS before they have even got a sniff at a meet!
Try doing the search I suggested and see if you get any ideas from it.
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