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"Women think I’m attractive what’s the problem " You've only been on here 4 weeks, OP. During a pandemic, too. Join in on the forums, get yourself involved and don't put too much pressure on yourself x | |||
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"They’re all Gay ...some don’t even know it "  | |||
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"I’d bum you Mike "I wanna watch  | |||
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"I think you're nice looking (but, alas, I'm not a woman) The pics away from the mirror show you off a bit better The bevel on the mirror makes your head look oddly flat "Also, keep the beard It suits ya | |||
"The problem is within yourself op!!!! Some will like you and some will not like you and some will be on the French about you but bleating about it helps no one so chin up and learn to be comfortable with what and who you are.!!!! Best of luck. T" Ultimately the only thing you can do, as noted, is work on yourself. Not "if I work on myself I'll get laid", but work on yourself. It's frustrating but - trust me, I've been where you are, it is also correct. | |||
"I’d bum you Mike
I wanna watch "I’ll bum you, you fist Mike | |||
"I’d bum you Mike
I wanna watch
I’ll bum you, you fist Mike "No change of plans! | |||
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"Lol another attention seeker!! " Everyone is attention seeking on the forum to a certain extent, even those who comment on the posts started by those who want the attention. I think OP that no one is attractive to everyone and doing things that make you happy will be attractive to others. If you're talking about on here? I can't really comment on that. | |||
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"Lol another attention seeker!! " Why try and make someone feel bad!? I don’t get it. | |||
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"Women think I’m attractive what’s the problem " I think you're attractive. | |||
"An awful lot of people are feeling incredibly flat at the moment oh here and in general. I've had guys message me that when I've been on good form I'd have had fanny flutters upon viewing their pics. Now my brain just appreciates they're good looking to me, and that's it. I've nothing. Nothing to give, nothing to really say. So I've been hotlisting those profiles for if I get back to myself again and then I'll make contact. It ain't always about you and how you come across its about the person/people who you're speaking to too, and how they're feeling. I buzz past profiles that have nothing that jumps out at me. Sometimes that "jump out" can be one picture or one word. " Yeah I don't have much bandwidth for new people at the moment. Talk yes, in theory attractive yes. Meet? Nah. I'll start to get my motor running again when I'm in the group that's due to be vaccinated. | |||
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Welcome to the forums put a lot of the disinterest in your profile down to the pandemic at the moment. | |||
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"Another thread where the OP is fairly new and people feel the needs to be mean. Op there has been some really good advice on here and some not so great just focus on what works for you. " Not his first rodeo  | |||
"Another thread where the OP is fairly new and people feel the needs to be mean. Op there has been some really good advice on here and some not so great just focus on what works for you. Not his first rodeo "It's not, no. But still... | |||
"Another thread where the OP is fairly new and people feel the needs to be mean. Op there has been some really good advice on here and some not so great just focus on what works for you. Not his first rodeo
It's not, no. But still..."I'm not being mean Look what he said, Look at his pose... What do you think he wants? | |||
"Another thread where the OP is fairly new and people feel the needs to be mean. Op there has been some really good advice on here and some not so great just focus on what works for you. Not his first rodeo
It's not, no. But still...
I'm not being mean
Look what he said, Look at his pose... What do you think he wants? "What do any of us want and why do newbies get a particularly hard time of it? | |||
"Another thread where the OP is fairly new and people feel the needs to be mean. Op there has been some really good advice on here and some not so great just focus on what works for you. Not his first rodeo
It's not, no. But still...
I'm not being mean
Look what he said, Look at his pose... What do you think he wants? "He wants people to find him attractive? To me, that is intrinsically different to 'attention seeking' Attention seeking, to me at least, implies need as opposed to want | |||
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"Another thread where the OP is fairly new and people feel the needs to be mean. Op there has been some really good advice on here and some not so great just focus on what works for you. Not his first rodeo
It's not, no. But still...
I'm not being mean
Look what he said, Look at his pose... What do you think he wants?
What do any of us want and why do newbies get a particularly hard time of it?"Nothing to do with him being a newbie... But as stated not his first rodeo. Just get on with it. Sure you need to be lucky to get meets etc but don't cry about your lack of attention to get attention | |||
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"sorry op you dont apeal to us in any way, plus you are on a swingers site, swinging always used to be about couples having fun together, maybe a singles site would suit you more" You said it yourself... Swinging USED to be about couples Not 100% the case any more, the boundaries have shifted | |||
"sorry op you dont apeal to us in any way, plus you are on a swingers site, swinging always used to be about couples having fun together, maybe a singles site would suit you more" Everyone is welcome here, single or couple. | |||
"sorry op you dont apeal to us in any way, plus you are on a swingers site, swinging always used to be about couples having fun together, maybe a singles site would suit you more Everyone is welcome here, single or couple. " the problem weve found is that alot of single guys come on here expecting instashag, not just our observation either, we go to socials, or used to before covid, and very rarly saw single guys, yes they are all over the forum complaining they cant get meets, put the efffort in and things happen | |||
"sorry op you dont apeal to us in any way, plus you are on a swingers site, swinging always used to be about couples having fun together, maybe a singles site would suit you more Everyone is welcome here, single or couple. the problem weve found is that alot of single guys come on here expecting instashag, not just our observation either, we go to socials, or used to before covid, and very rarly saw single guys, yes they are all over the forum complaining they cant get meets, put the efffort in and things happen" *puts hand up ... but, but, but, but, but you just told them not to put the effort in You said swinging was for couples, not for singles You even suggested the OP looked elsewhere in what read as a kinda arsey way (if you don't mind me saying) So now, are we saying that guys who you two do fancy should stick around, but those that don't should bugger off? | |||
" Ultimately the only thing you can do, as noted, is work on yourself. Not "if I work on myself I'll get laid", but work on yourself. It's frustrating but - trust me, I've been where you are, it is also correct." This is the best advice. Its law of attraction stuff. The universe will reflect back at you want you put out. Become happy and confident within yourself and watch how others suddenly become attracted to you. Many guys with fantastic bodies on here but if they spent as much time working on their inner self to they would be killing it. | |||
"sorry op you dont apeal to us in any way, plus you are on a swingers site, swinging always used to be about couples having fun together, maybe a singles site would suit you more Everyone is welcome here, single or couple. the problem weve found is that alot of single guys come on here expecting instashag, not just our observation either, we go to socials, or used to before covid, and very rarly saw single guys, yes they are all over the forum complaining they cant get meets, put the efffort in and things happen" Iv been to loads of Socials where there have been more single guys than couples or women. Yes you might be frustrated but you get to decide who should and shouldn't be here. | |||
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"sorry op you dont apeal to us in any way, plus you are on a swingers site, swinging always used to be about couples having fun together, maybe a singles site would suit you more Everyone is welcome here, single or couple. the problem weve found is that alot of single guys come on here expecting instashag, not just our observation either, we go to socials, or used to before covid, and very rarly saw single guys, yes they are all over the forum complaining they cant get meets, put the efffort in and things happen *puts hand up ... but, but, but, but, but you just told them not to put the effort in You said swinging was for couples, not for singles You even suggested the OP looked elsewhere in what read as a kinda arsey way (if you don't mind me saying) So now, are we saying that guys who you two do fancy should stick around, but those that don't should bugger off? "we have made friends with alot of people, male and femail that we wouldnt play with, all im saying is put in the effort, dont just come on a forum and moan about not getting meets, its not that easy, we find it hard enough as a couple, so put in some effort, men being the highest number on here obviously also have to put aeeort in, fair, maybe not, but thats the way it is | |||
"sorry op you dont apeal to us in any way, plus you are on a swingers site, swinging always used to be about couples having fun together, maybe a singles site would suit you more Everyone is welcome here, single or couple. the problem weve found is that alot of single guys come on here expecting instashag, not just our observation either, we go to socials, or used to before covid, and very rarly saw single guys, yes they are all over the forum complaining they cant get meets, put the efffort in and things happen *puts hand up ... but, but, but, but, but you just told them not to put the effort in You said swinging was for couples, not for singles You even suggested the OP looked elsewhere in what read as a kinda arsey way (if you don't mind me saying) So now, are we saying that guys who you two do fancy should stick around, but those that don't should bugger off? we have made friends with alot of people, male and femail that we wouldnt play with, all im saying is put in the effort, dont just come on a forum and moan about not getting meets, its not that easy, we find it hard enough as a couple, so put in some effort, men being the highest number on here obviously also have to put aeeort in, fair, maybe not, but thats the way it is"Again you don't get to decide what people can post on the forums. You seem very negative towards single men and it's unfair to project that onto the OP. You have no idea what effort this man has put in so just accept that hes allowed to post on the forum without being told he should look for another site. | |||
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"Hugs Op You are a handsome man and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise......" This.  | |||
"Lol another attention seeker!! " Awww how sad, Big9 wants everything to be about him lol OP we will get our day on the battlefield bro! Keep your head high and your cock hard! Our time will come!! | |||
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"Women think I’m attractive what’s the problem " The problem is you obviously think you are more attractive than you are. Swinger does not mean I shag anybody who asks me. | |||
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"I know, right? I was expecting a flood of moist pantied ladies with huge norks to be knocking down my door when I joined too. My penis has fallen off since and I’m a born again virgin now Sucks to be us, huh?" | |||
