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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would love constructive criticism on my profile if some people would be willing, would be much appreciated.
Also, I would love to couple up and explorer rather than from a single perspective... any tips on dating? Tinder/bumble its not exactly on people’s profile and neither ok fab?
Cheers. Chris |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m sure you won’t have any issues finding someone!! I think you’re hot x"
Thank you, feeling is most definitely mutual! Almost just getting a foot in the door as a single male on a swingers site, but would love to couple up and enjoy the scene Elmore. |
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Profile looks pretty good.
You got a good body so maybe take some slighty differnt photos than the bicep flex, be a bit more subtle.
Could try lying on the bed one arm above head so it looks more relaxed and casual but still shows off your guns.
Dating wise, on tindr just make a girl laugh and your winning. I used to look for something in their photos to make some light hearted fun at, this would often start some good banter.
If theres a good sexual energy between you both when you date talk about swinging early on, will often start some interesting conversations and sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Profile looks pretty good.
You got a good body so maybe take some slighty differnt photos than the bicep flex, be a bit more subtle.
Could try lying on the bed one arm above head so it looks more relaxed and casual but still shows off your guns.
Dating wise, on tindr just make a girl laugh and your winning. I used to look for something in their photos to make some light hearted fun at, this would often start some good banter.
If theres a good sexual energy between you both when you date talk about swinging early on, will often start some interesting conversations and sex."
Thank you so much, great advice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would love constructive criticism on my profile if some people would be willing, would be much appreciated.
Also, I would love to couple up and explorer rather than from a single perspective... any tips on dating? Tinder/bumble its not exactly on people’s profile and neither ok fab?
Cheers. Chris"
I think you just need a slight tweek, perhaps switch your outlook to bi and then add TV/TS to your interests and you’ll find someone I’m pretty sure...
Joking aside, really nice profile and your only barrier, a global pandemic x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I like your jacket , it’s not cashmere and from Hugo Boss is it ? "
Thank you! I think it was River Island or something like that and not cashmere no. Public sector wage won’t stretch that far hahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would love constructive criticism on my profile if some people would be willing, would be much appreciated.
Also, I would love to couple up and explorer rather than from a single perspective... any tips on dating? Tinder/bumble its not exactly on people’s profile and neither ok fab?
Cheers. Chris
I think you just need a slight tweek, perhaps switch your outlook to bi and then add TV/TS to your interests and you’ll find someone I’m pretty sure...
Joking aside, really nice profile and your only barrier, a global pandemic x"
Hahahah had me laughing there, nice one! And thank you, here’s to hoping to global pandemic fucks right off for all of us lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You're good looking and have a lush body, I'd have moved on though as there's too many posing pics about your muscles. I'd just think dick ( being honest). Would you be intrigued with a pic of my bicep??
Ditch the clenched muscle pics, have a couple of pics of you topless so we can see your gorgeous 'v' shape. Tease us with a pic of your boxers so we have an idea of size.
Your written stuff is okay. I like to get an idea what that person is into. A fantasy typed out or things they'd like to try.
Also, always include a face pic when you message, many of us won't look at messages without.
I'm sure you will have lots of interest x
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You’ve got a good body but most of your pics have the same guns out pose. So you look a bit, look at me, which isn’t a bad thing but may come across as it’s all about you.
Take some pics which don’t look posed and learn to use the time feature on your phone...it opens up a whole new world of pics you can take.
Personally I’d take out the licking pussy part in your profile....every guy can so it sounds cliched.
As others have said you’ll do well on here but you wanting to find more might put others off as it’s a swinging site and a lot just want sex without hassle.
But ultimately if you come across as respectful and join in on the forums you’ll find what you are after.
Good luck
K |
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"Would love constructive criticism on my profile if some people would be willing, would be much appreciated.
Also, I would love to couple up and explorer rather than from a single perspective... any tips on dating? Tinder/bumble its not exactly on people’s profile and neither ok fab?
Cheers. Chris"
The only thing I'd change is the pics of your muscles and there are a lot of I this and I that so it might sound as if your a bit conceited which I don't think you are by the way.
Some people will think saying you're a uniformed superhero is boasting but other ladies will love it.
At the end of the day you can't please all the fab ladies all the time
* ps my advice is invalid and can be ignored as I struggle for meets ! Lol
Good luck I'm sure you'll get lucky and find your partner in crime |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You're good looking and have a lush body, I'd have moved on though as there's too many posing pics about your muscles. I'd just think dick ( being honest). Would you be intrigued with a pic of my bicep??
Ditch the clenched muscle pics, have a couple of pics of you topless so we can see your gorgeous 'v' shape. Tease us with a pic of your boxers so we have an idea of size.
Your written stuff is okay. I like to get an idea what that person is into. A fantasy typed out or things they'd like to try.
Also, always include a face pic when you message, many of us won't look at messages without.
I'm sure you will have lots of interest x
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Thanks you, that’s really helpful as I’m not like that at all but its tough to get the balance right. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You’ve got a good body but most of your pics have the same guns out pose. So you look a bit, look at me, which isn’t a bad thing but may come across as it’s all about you.
Take some pics which don’t look posed and learn to use the time feature on your phone...it opens up a whole new world of pics you can take.
Personally I’d take out the licking pussy part in your profile....every guy can so it sounds cliched.
As others have said you’ll do well on here but you wanting to find more might put others off as it’s a swinging site and a lot just want sex without hassle.
But ultimately if you come across as respectful and join in on the forums you’ll find what you are after.
Good luck
K"
Again, thank you, will definitely take that on board as I’m not like that at all. Just trying to catch the eye as a single guy  . Will be making some alterations x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Would love constructive criticism on my profile if some people would be willing, would be much appreciated.
Also, I would love to couple up and explorer rather than from a single perspective... any tips on dating? Tinder/bumble its not exactly on people’s profile and neither ok fab?
Cheers. Chris
The only thing I'd change is the pics of your muscles and there are a lot of I this and I that so it might sound as if your a bit conceited which I don't think you are by the way.
Some people will think saying you're a uniformed superhero is boasting but other ladies will love it.
At the end of the day you can't please all the fab ladies all the time
* ps my advice is invalid and can be ignored as I struggle for meets ! Lol
Good luck I'm sure you'll get lucky and find your partner in crime "
Cheers mate, it’s all good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would love constructive criticism on my profile if some people would be willing, would be much appreciated.
Also, I would love to couple up and explorer rather than from a single perspective... any tips on dating? Tinder/bumble its not exactly on people’s profile and neither ok fab?
Cheers. Chris"
Your profile is great!! I hope you find someone to couple with xxx |
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"Would love constructive criticism on my profile if some people would be willing, would be much appreciated.
Also, I would love to couple up and explorer rather than from a single perspective... any tips on dating? Tinder/bumble its not exactly on people’s profile and neither ok fab?
Cheers. Chris"
You look really great, only problem is you’re from the same place as my ex lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It sounds like you need to just be willing to move to about five completely different corners of the UK simultaneously so you're local to the people who like your profile; and then the whole thing will open up for you. Relatively simple.. |
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"It sounds like you need to just be willing to move to about five completely different corners of the UK simultaneously so you're local to the people who like your profile; and then the whole thing will open up for you. Relatively simple.."
Not sure what he’s complaining about eh? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It sounds like you need to just be willing to move to about five completely different corners of the UK simultaneously so you're local to the people who like your profile; and then the whole thing will open up for you. Relatively simple..
Not sure what he’s complaining about eh? "
Hahahaha I’ve got a car, can drive, distance isn’t an issue unless we’re talking stornoway  |
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"It sounds like you need to just be willing to move to about five completely different corners of the UK simultaneously so you're local to the people who like your profile; and then the whole thing will open up for you. Relatively simple..
Not sure what he’s complaining about eh?
Hahahaha I’ve got a car, can drive, distance isn’t an issue unless we’re talking stornoway "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Great pics and a well written profile. I don't think you'll have any issues at all x "
Thank you very much! You’ve been on my hotlist for ages and I love your profile, so feeling very good about your kind words xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Great pics and a well written profile. I don't think you'll have any issues at all x
Thank you very much! You’ve been on my hotlist for ages and I love your profile, so feeling very good about your kind words xx"
I'm very flattered  x |
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I think your newer clothed photos are an improvement. I really think you should consider getting somebody else to take them because that looks so much better than a selfie in a mirror. Do them outside in a nice environment on a sunny day for the best light. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You posted the same post a week ago.
Did you take on any of the advice you were given?
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I think I duplicated in the lounge (forum nube) at the same time, but this is the same thread as before and yes I have been making amendments on the advice given |
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