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When their partner contacts you ??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?
I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......
What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?
I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......
What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him."
Just apologise to her and explain he had lied and you had only chatted and not met. Then block his number and if she contacts you again on another number block that too. |
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"Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?
I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......
What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him."
Or maybe it was him bottling a meet and pretending to be his wife, who very kindly spent time letting you know. As if she would lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?
I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......
What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him."
Ask her if she’s up for some fun!!!
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By *reasyMan
over a year ago
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It might just be me but I’m finding it hard to know what to believe anymore. There seems to be so many fake, wannabe and people who get pleasure from screwing with your brain on here at the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had this a few weeks ago the 'ex girlfriend' contacted me
I'd no intention meeting the guy n had only spoken once, she said he'd cheated on her blah blah but afterwards I thought what if she was the freak n not him. Dunno what to believe on here tbh. |
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"Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?
I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......
What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him."
Just thank her and leave it there. You have nothing to apologise for. It's their drama |
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"It might just be me but I’m finding it hard to know what to believe anymore. There seems to be so many fake, wannabe and people who get pleasure from screwing with your brain on here at the moment. "
The trick is to accept things at face value. Understand that what you're being told is unlikely to be 100% true but work with what you have. Don't ignore very obvious warning signs and assume that people will present you with version of themselves which they might not present other people with. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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"Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?
I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......
What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him.
Just thank her and leave it there. You have nothing to apologise for. It's their drama"
Yes, pretty much this. It’s their own problem to solve. |
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"Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?
I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......
What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him."
Stop talking to him? |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?
I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......
What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him."
Ask her if she wanted to meet and play |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you sure it wasn't him pretending to be his wife  "
What would be the point? I hadn't agreed to meet and had told him there was a guy I see regularly so wasn't looking for 1 on 1 meets. He'd given me his number but I never spoke with him outside fab or kik.
I'm not bothered by it as in upset or anything as I haven't done anything wrong. Just wondered if this was common place on this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you sure it wasn't him pretending to be his wife
What would be the point? I hadn't agreed to meet and had told him there was a guy I see regularly so wasn't looking for 1 on 1 meets. He'd given me his number but I never spoke with him outside fab or kik.
I'm not bothered by it as in upset or anything as I haven't done anything wrong. Just wondered if this was common place on this site."
Stranger things have happened |
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"Are you sure it wasn't him pretending to be his wife
What would be the point? I hadn't agreed to meet and had told him there was a guy I see regularly so wasn't looking for 1 on 1 meets. He'd given me his number but I never spoke with him outside fab or kik.
I'm not bothered by it as in upset or anything as I haven't done anything wrong. Just wondered if this was common place on this site."
It does seem quite common.
I sometimes wonder if people deliberately allow their indiscretions to be discovered to force a since because they're incapable of initiating a conversation on a sensitive subject.
When you think about it it's pretty daft to not cover your tracks by simply deleting conversations |
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"Are you sure it wasn't him pretending to be his wife
What would be the point? I hadn't agreed to meet and had told him there was a guy I see regularly so wasn't looking for 1 on 1 meets. He'd given me his number but I never spoke with him outside fab or kik.
I'm not bothered by it as in upset or anything as I haven't done anything wrong. Just wondered if this was common place on this site.
It does seem quite common.
I sometimes wonder if people deliberately allow their indiscretions to be discovered to force a since because they're incapable of initiating a conversation on a sensitive subject.
When you think about it it's pretty daft to not cover your tracks by simply deleting conversations"
To force a confrontation that should say.
I wish I could force myself to proof read  |
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