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"Really saying he can't have a profile is pretty hypocritical. I'd advise talking about him about it and teach him that sex with someone important to you is better than casual sex."
That's hypocritical  |
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"just seen our sons porfile how can we get rid of it on her hes 18"
If you get rid of it, it's likely that he'll only go and create a new one.
He's not doing anything illegal or wrong.
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"Can just imagine every 18 yr old guy from newcastle now wondering if you're his parents  "
I wonder how many of them have removed their profiles 
Honestly OP why on earth should you be able to remove his profile? If it bothers you that much perhaps you should remove yours or... as he has the same interests as you talk to him about it! (No that does not mean anything shady) |
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"Really saying he can't have a profile is pretty hypocritical. I'd advise talking about him about it and teach him that sex with someone important to you is better than casual sex."
If that's how you feel then why are you on here? If it's not how you feel why do you think it's appropriate advice?
Because as I read your response all I think is how hypocritical and judgemental it sounds. |
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"Really saying he can't have a profile is pretty hypocritical. I'd advise talking about him about it and teach him that sex with someone important to you is better than casual sex.
If that's how you feel then why are you on here? If it's not how you feel why do you think it's appropriate advice?
Because as I read your response all I think is how hypocritical and judgemental it sounds."
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I found my son on here ages ago.. I blocked him... and told him that can we make sure that we never go to the same events..
I think many parents are shocked that their kids go on to do this.. but I am sure the children are much more shocked to find out their parents do it.
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"Really saying he can't have a profile is pretty hypocritical. I'd advise talking about him about it and teach him that sex with someone important to you is better than casual sex."
Like everything with youngsters ... it's futile to tell them NOT to do something ... just teach them how to do it safely .... give him all the information they needs and be open and then hopefully when they're in trouble it's you they'll come to.
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I think values often run through families, and I've seen this within my own family, how many of us share some less common but wonderful sexual passions.
As for your son, I'm guessing he didn't know you were on Fab, unless he wanted to somehow let you know he was gay/bi/bicurious etc, as well as into swinging - often we communicate more with what we do, than with what we say.
I'd block him, unless/until you want him having fuller access to your sexual interests - some would be fine with this, many not. You could either ignore what you've learned, kind of like burying your heads in the sand, or approach things sensitively.
If you've always let him know that he's loved regardless of sexual/other interests, then he'll be more likely to be able to be open with you, and not feel scared of rejection, criticism etc. Think about what is the main problem/issue for now, and maybe approach things step by step. Is it that you all swing, that he's possibly got some gay sex interest, having swinging partners at your place, etc? There are probably a lot of things, and being open and accepting, and lots of communication between you all, is probably going to allow him to open up, as he sees fit.
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"and i found out hes gay too what a way to find out...lol"
He takes up the ass or sucks or both. Ok not sure where the lol is coming from but good luck best block him.
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thats funny.. does he have cock pics..
just block and ignore.. watch out when he tries to find out when you out for the night..
does he say he can accommodate hahha . chances are he knows you here already and is just checkin up on you.   |
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