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Bi, but leaning towards women?
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over a year ago
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So I've recently had my first threesome with a couple. I wanted to take things slow, which we did at first by talking it out with the man and what we were looking for. I didn't feel anything physically until his wife came in and introduced herself.
I know that I'm attracted to both men and women, but it seems that there's only an immediate physical reaction with women.
Is this uncommon? Has this happened to anyone else? |
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over a year ago
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A lot of men on the forums say they’re only interested in cocks and have no interest in the men they’re connected to.
Others say they’re only playful with men when there’s a woman around.
So no. It’s not unusual. X |
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"A lot of men on the forums say they’re only interested in cocks and have no interest in the men they’re connected to.
Others say they’re only playful with men when there’s a woman around.
So no. It’s not unusual. X"
Exactly this  |
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Bisexuality isn't always a completely equal attraction to men, women, and other, it's perfectly normal to lean more one way than another. My husband is bi, but has a strong preference for women. No sexuality has all parameters set in stone. Don't worry too much about definitions and labels etc unless they're important to you, and just focus on enjoying whatever fun you choose for what it is.  |
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We've thought that their is a word between straigh and bi-curious for those who are happy to play bi durin a meet but bi-curious doesn't really feel right ...but NOT hete exible (urg).
for us, (and we know it's not commonly used in this way) 'bi-curious' is about a transient mission of self discorvery (like try-before-you-bi) where as [new term] is knowing you enjoy "playing" bi when meeting as/with a couple, but also knowing you wouldn't have a relationsip with the same sex as you would if you were bisexual.
we just can't think of a term that best describes it and sounds as fun as it is
thoughts? sugestions? |
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"We've thought that their is a word between straigh and bi-curious for those who are happy to play bi durin a meet but bi-curious doesn't really feel right ...but NOT heteexible (urg).
for us, (and we know it's not commonly used in this way) 'bi-curious' is about a transient mission of self discorvery (like try-before-you-bi) where as [new term] is knowing you enjoy "playing" bi when meeting as/with a couple, but also knowing you wouldn't have a relationsip with the same sex as you would if you were bisexual.
we just can't think of a term that best describes it and sounds as fun as it is
thoughts? sugestions? "
Bi flexible?
Situationally bi?
Fun people!? |
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"So I've recently had my first threesome with a couple. I wanted to take things slow, which we did at first by talking it out with the man and what we were looking for. I didn't feel anything physically until his wife came in and introduced herself.
I know that I'm attracted to both men and women, but it seems that there's only an immediate physical reaction with women.
Is this uncommon? Has this happened to anyone else? "
I am attracted to femininity, regardless of what is actually contained in the underwear. But it's the same label for all Bisexual people.
But I can understand that you are not interested in a men only situation, but once a lady is present, it's fine.
Don't know if there is a specific name for this. |
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Weirdly enough I’m attracted to women more than men, when not dressed. However the opposite way round when I am dressed 
I enjoy meeting couples as they know I’m not after the wife or husband, I can give oral to both (actually love giving oral with the wife) and be a part of an experience for them.
I’m more pansexual these days as I do find myself attracted to more feminine guys, when I’m not dressed.  |
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"Bisexuality isn't always a completely equal attraction to men, women, and other, it's perfectly normal to lean more one way than another. My husband is bi, but has a strong preference for women. No sexuality has all parameters set in stone. Don't worry too much about definitions and labels etc unless they're important to you, and just focus on enjoying whatever fun you choose for what it is. "
Perfectly said |
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"We've thought that their is a word between straigh and bi-curious for those who are happy to play bi durin a meet but bi-curious doesn't really feel right ...but NOT heteexible (urg).
for us, (and we know it's not commonly used in this way) 'bi-curious' is about a transient mission of self discorvery (like try-before-you-bi) where as [new term] is knowing you enjoy "playing" bi when meeting as/with a couple, but also knowing you wouldn't have a relationsip with the same sex as you would if you were bisexual.
we just can't think of a term that best describes it and sounds as fun as it is
thoughts? sugestions? "
we call it being "open" |
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