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over a year ago
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If someone (girl in my case) hasn’t answered your five messages. It’s not just because she hasn’t the decency to open, read and reply..... it’s probably because she’s logged on to find she has 964 messages (true story  )
So there’s no point making that 5th message a nasty one and blocking her.
Mini rant over.
As you were.
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Are men swingers viewed differently to women?
If you found out that your football mate, brother or male next door neighbour is a swinger would you be less harsh in opinion than your female work colleague, female relative or female best friend?
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"If someone (girl in my case) hasn’t answered your five messages. It’s not just because she hasn’t the decency to open, read and reply..... it’s probably because she’s logged on to find she has 964 messages (true story )
So there’s no point making that 5th message a nasty one and blocking her.
Mini rant over.
As you were.
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There's never a need to be nasty.
We don't all get inundated with messages, and still ignore most (the ones that say "hey").
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are men swingers viewed differently to women?
If you found out that your football mate, brother or male next door neighbour is a swinger would you be less harsh in opinion than your female work colleague, female relative or female best friend?
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I wouldn't, but I wouldn't be shocked if others did |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone (girl in my case) hasn’t answered your five messages. It’s not just because she hasn’t the decency to open, read and reply..... it’s probably because she’s logged on to find she has 964 messages (true story )
So there’s no point making that 5th message a nasty one and blocking her.
Mini rant over.
As you were.
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Sooo true, I'm not sure, I just haven't the time to read everything. This happens on generic dating sites too and the abuse I get for not replying is shocking!!  |
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"If someone (girl in my case) hasn’t answered your five messages. It’s not just because she hasn’t the decency to open, read and reply..... it’s probably because she’s logged on to find she has 964 messages (true story )
So there’s no point making that 5th message a nasty one and blocking her.
Mini rant over.
As you were.
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They are just sad despite people and you had a lucky escape x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I relate to this - the sheer volume of messages makes it an impossible task.
Of course I’d love to reply to everyone - but who can sit, reply and keep track of hundreds of messages! "
For the first time in eight years I’ve given up and put on filters.
I’m not meeting so it’s pretty pointless chatting. They get frustrated. I get frustrated. I’ll just use the forums for now. |
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