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Hell you lovely bunch!
I’m seriously debating trying to arrange a hotel room for the lovely Mrs birthday. Have it set up ready for her with blindfold, ropes and toys. Have her walk in and blindfold herself. Without her knowing arrange for a lovely lady to join us and basically have her way with her.
She really wants more girl/girl experience but I’m a little nervous about doing it without Speaking to her first. I’m 90% sure she will love it but still...
Anyone done it? How did it go?
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I'd be weary of doing that.
If she wants girl on girl play I'd imagine she might want to choose the partner and give as well as receive, especially for her first time.
She might want her first time with a woman to be a very different affair to what you are proposing. |
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"I'd be weary of doing that.
If she wants girl on girl play I'd imagine she might want to choose the partner and give as well as receive, especially for her first time.
She might want her first time with a woman to be a very different affair to what you are proposing."
Thanks for the reply.
It wouldn’t be her first time with a woman. We did have a fairly long ‘relationship’ with one a while back but been struggling to find someone new. I know she did try and do something similar for me but unfortunately the other girl cancelled last minute.
A part of me thinks she would love it but another pet says it would be better to speak with her and maybe drop some hints to get a proper feel of how she would take it.
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"Hell you lovely bunch!
I’m seriously debating trying to arrange a hotel room for the lovely Mrs birthday. Have it set up ready for her with blindfold, ropes and toys. Have her walk in and blindfold herself. Without her knowing arrange for a lovely lady to join us and basically have her way with her.
She really wants more girl/girl experience but I’m a little nervous about doing it without Speaking to her first. I’m 90% sure she will love it but still...
Anyone done it? How did it go?
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Even if you know someone well, you should always seek permission of any sexual activity, it’s called consent. |
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"Hell you lovely bunch!
I’m seriously debating trying to arrange a hotel room for the lovely Mrs birthday. Have it set up ready for her with blindfold, ropes and toys. Have her walk in and blindfold herself. Without her knowing arrange for a lovely lady to join us and basically have her way with her.
She really wants more girl/girl experience but I’m a little nervous about doing it without Speaking to her first. I’m 90% sure she will love it but still...
Anyone done it? How did it go?
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90% sure is not enough.
You can't arrange this at the moment anyway. |
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"Hell you lovely bunch!
I’m seriously debating trying to arrange a hotel room for the lovely Mrs birthday. Have it set up ready for her with blindfold, ropes and toys. Have her walk in and blindfold herself. Without her knowing arrange for a lovely lady to join us and basically have her way with her.
She really wants more girl/girl experience but I’m a little nervous about doing it without Speaking to her first. I’m 90% sure she will love it but still...
Anyone done it? How did it go?
Even if you know someone well, you should always seek permission of any sexual activity, it’s called consent. "
Consent isn’t my concern as we/I always check and we always have a safe word that we discuss before and during to make sure we are both happy. It’s something we have always done even though we are a couple, we/I never just assume consent. |
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"Hell you lovely bunch!
I’m seriously debating trying to arrange a hotel room for the lovely Mrs birthday. Have it set up ready for her with blindfold, ropes and toys. Have her walk in and blindfold herself. Without her knowing arrange for a lovely lady to join us and basically have her way with her.
She really wants more girl/girl experience but I’m a little nervous about doing it without Speaking to her first. I’m 90% sure she will love it but still...
Anyone done it? How did it go?
Even if you know someone well, you should always seek permission of any sexual activity, it’s called consent.
Consent isn’t my concern as we/I always check and we always have a safe word that we discuss before and during to make sure we are both happy. It’s something we have always done even though we are a couple, we/I never just assume consent. "
So she will know and agree beforehand? |
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"Hell you lovely bunch!
I’m seriously debating trying to arrange a hotel room for the lovely Mrs birthday. Have it set up ready for her with blindfold, ropes and toys. Have her walk in and blindfold herself. Without her knowing arrange for a lovely lady to join us and basically have her way with her.
She really wants more girl/girl experience but I’m a little nervous about doing it without Speaking to her first. I’m 90% sure she will love it but still...
Anyone done it? How did it go?
Even if you know someone well, you should always seek permission of any sexual activity, it’s called consent.
Consent isn’t my concern as we/I always check and we always have a safe word that we discuss before and during to make sure we are both happy. It’s something we have always done even though we are a couple, we/I never just assume consent.
So she will know and agree beforehand? "
Once she was ‘set up’ I would ask before the lady comes in but thinking about it now they could result in the other lady not being involved if the Mrs wasn’t happy with it. That in itself wouldn’t be a nice/good situation for the other lady too. You also have a good point with the not being able to meet at the moment. I had forgotten about that.
It’s good to talk! Thanks to those that replied, this is why I like this forum.  |
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"Hell you lovely bunch!
I’m seriously debating trying to arrange a hotel room for the lovely Mrs birthday. Have it set up ready for her with blindfold, ropes and toys. Have her walk in and blindfold herself. Without her knowing arrange for a lovely lady to join us and basically have her way with her.
She really wants more girl/girl experience but I’m a little nervous about doing it without Speaking to her first. I’m 90% sure she will love it but still...
Anyone done it? How did it go?
Even if you know someone well, you should always seek permission of any sexual activity, it’s called consent.
Consent isn’t my concern as we/I always check and we always have a safe word that we discuss before and during to make sure we are both happy. It’s something we have always done even though we are a couple, we/I never just assume consent.
So she will know and agree beforehand?
Once she was ‘set up’ I would ask before the lady comes in but thinking about it now they could result in the other lady not being involved if the Mrs wasn’t happy with it. That in itself wouldn’t be a nice/good situation for the other lady too. You also have a good point with the not being able to meet at the moment. I had forgotten about that.
It’s good to talk! Thanks to those that replied, this is why I like this forum. "
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"Hell you lovely bunch!
I’m seriously debating trying to arrange a hotel room for the lovely Mrs birthday. Have it set up ready for her with blindfold, ropes and toys. Have her walk in and blindfold herself. Without her knowing arrange for a lovely lady to join us and basically have her way with her.
She really wants more girl/girl experience but I’m a little nervous about doing it without Speaking to her first. I’m 90% sure she will love it but still...
Anyone done it? How did it go?
Even if you know someone well, you should always seek permission of any sexual activity, it’s called consent.
Consent isn’t my concern as we/I always check and we always have a safe word that we discuss before and during to make sure we are both happy. It’s something we have always done even though we are a couple, we/I never just assume consent.
So she will know and agree beforehand?
Once she was ‘set up’ I would ask before the lady comes in but thinking about it now they could result in the other lady not being involved if the Mrs wasn’t happy with it. That in itself wouldn’t be a nice/good situation for the other lady too. You also have a good point with the not being able to meet at the moment. I had forgotten about that.
It’s good to talk! Thanks to those that replied, this is why I like this forum. "
It seems you are only thinking about this surprise for your wife? No thought for the invited lady! So the invited lady arrives, maybe your wife isn’t happy with it and that’s unfair to the other lady. This is about 3 people not 1 and it’s very unfair to even arrange this without prior consent from your wife.
Surprised you have forgotten meetings of this nature can’t take place as we have a serious virus in the UK? |
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"Hell you lovely bunch!
I’m seriously debating trying to arrange a hotel room for the lovely Mrs birthday. Have it set up ready for her with blindfold, ropes and toys. Have her walk in and blindfold herself. Without her knowing arrange for a lovely lady to join us and basically have her way with her.
She really wants more girl/girl experience but I’m a little nervous about doing it without Speaking to her first. I’m 90% sure she will love it but still...
Anyone done it? How did it go?
Even if you know someone well, you should always seek permission of any sexual activity, it’s called consent.
Consent isn’t my concern as we/I always check and we always have a safe word that we discuss before and during to make sure we are both happy. It’s something we have always done even though we are a couple, we/I never just assume consent.
So she will know and agree beforehand?
Once she was ‘set up’ I would ask before the lady comes in but thinking about it now they could result in the other lady not being involved if the Mrs wasn’t happy with it. That in itself wouldn’t be a nice/good situation for the other lady too. You also have a good point with the not being able to meet at the moment. I had forgotten about that.
It’s good to talk! Thanks to those that replied, this is why I like this forum.
It seems you are only thinking about this surprise for your wife? No thought for the invited lady! So the invited lady arrives, maybe your wife isn’t happy with it and that’s unfair to the other lady. This is about 3 people not 1 and it’s very unfair to even arrange this without prior consent from your wife.
Surprised you have forgotten meetings of this nature can’t take place as we have a serious virus in the UK? "
He's acknowledged all that in the post you've replied to. |
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How do you forget about the no meeting atm... it's not really a well kept secret.
I agree with all the points about consent and consideration for all involved. |
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