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By *restman OP Man
over a year ago
North wales |
Hi all been on site for about a year as got recommend to join whilst I visited a club, met a lovely couple who were helping me with the swing scene.
My ex partner was a swinger and introduce me to the scene, we since have broke up and I visited on my own.
I tend to be shy untill comfortable,I did not go on site that often but have now started to visit more as no chance of meet with covid.
Hoping make friends sending messages and video chat would be nice, I'm not trying to get as many notches on bed post as possible.
I realize the ladies get swamped with messages, is there anything wrong with my profile that messages don't get read, any help appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a lot of guys have to accept that ladies are not always looking or in the mood, even if browsing . Id suggest reacting to a status that a lady is looking or a forum post that's particularly hot |
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Well the fact that the pointless warning at the end is as long as your profile write up may be one issue.
There are quite a few helpful forum threads with profile advice on them that it might pay you to read. |
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You’ve asked for profile advice in the headline - er ok it’s not good. You’ve put a lot more effort into your post than in your profile.
If you are 6’1 and fit then for goodness sake SELL yourself, no one else is going to do it for you. Take some pics outside where you look tall etc.
There’s no shortcut. You must put effort in. |
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By *restman OP Man
over a year ago
North wales |
"I think a lot of guys have to accept that ladies are not always looking or in the mood, even if browsing . Id suggest reacting to a status that a lady is looking or a forum post that's particularly hot"
I have tried replying to status with no luck but will keep trying thank you ?? |
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Sell yourself op, why should someone meet you?
Also get rid of the warning, that's longer than your profile
It's tough at the min, people are not looking to meet, well I'm not, but still get messages asking if I'm free etc.
Try a club or social when things start returning to normal. |
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By *restman OP Man
over a year ago
North wales |
"You’ve asked for profile advice in the headline - er ok it’s not good. You’ve put a lot more effort into your post than in your profile.
If you are 6’1 and fit then for goodness sake SELL yourself, no one else is going to do it for you. Take some pics outside where you look tall etc.
There’s no shortcut. You must put effort in. "
Thanks for advise I'll try make it better |
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I’d say you need to sell yourself, appear cheerful and approachable. Take a look at other guy’s profiles and see what elements appeal and what don’t.
Also decide what you want from the site. Do you want quick DTF meets or do you want friendships that develop into longer term arrangements. Do you want to meet single ladies or couples etc. Then tailor your profile to that! |
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By *restman OP Man
over a year ago
North wales |
"Sell yourself op, why should someone meet you?
Also get rid of the warning, that's longer than your profile
It's tough at the min, people are not looking to meet, well I'm not, but still get messages asking if I'm free etc.
Try a club or social when things start returning to normal. "
Thank you will remove warning, hopefully clubs will open soon |
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By *restman OP Man
over a year ago
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"I’d say you need to sell yourself, appear cheerful and approachable. Take a look at other guy’s profiles and see what elements appeal and what don’t.
Also decide what you want from the site. Do you want quick DTF meets or do you want friendships that develop into longer term arrangements. Do you want to meet single ladies or couples etc. Then tailor your profile to that! "
Thank you |
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