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What am I doing wrong?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have no doubt there may be a thread on this topic but I really want to post something on this forum.
I have not had much luck on fab over the years, my main issue is arousing any interest. When I have got a connection going and a few messages rolling things always seem to taper off.
I have had two meets on two older profiles, they were great and we met more than once although we have lost touch now.
I suppose I’m wondering, women... what can I do to arouse more interest?
I know everybody is different but it would be nice to hear what types of profiles and messages get you all interested. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
Your profile is your shop window. There's plenty of advice on mine should you wish to use it and good luck. |
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There are various threads about how to write a good profile. Yours falls a long way short of perfect so almost anything you do will be an improvement.
Before asking others for help do a bit of research yourself |
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1. Trim
2. 'Don't know why I'm here...' neither does anyone else... |
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I'd love some profile feedback too  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I'd love some profile feedback too "
Bio looks fine, some more pics would help.  |
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Your profile says you are looking for people aged 18-99 which always puts me off, would you really have sex with a 98 year old?
Your profile says nothing about you plus starting with I don't know why I'm here sounds very pessimistic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Think I was pessimistic at the time of writing.
No most definitely wouldn’t go with a 98yo. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, it would be less dick pics. Try some teasing photos, a hint of what you have to offer. Just my opinion! |
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"I'd love some profile feedback too
Bio looks fine, some more pics would help. "
Thanks I did put effort into it. Re-photos.. really I could do with someone to hold the camera!  |
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By *ustme1820Woman
over a year ago
Southcoast Gosport |
"I'd love some profile feedback too
Bio looks fine, some more pics would help.
Thanks I did put effort into it. Re-photos.. really I could do with someone to hold the camera! "
just use the timer on your phone op |
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"I'd love some profile feedback too
Bio looks fine, some more pics would help.
Thanks I did put effort into it. Re-photos.. really I could do with someone to hold the camera! just use the timer on your phone op "
But to photograph what?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me, it would be less dick pics. Try some teasing photos, a hint of what you have to offer. Just my opinion!"
Thanks for the advice.
So a bit more provocative, maybe just the bulge. Are you saying it’s more fun not to see my dick? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile says you are looking for people aged 18-99 which always puts me off, would you really have sex with a 98 year old?
Your profile says nothing about you plus starting with I don't know why I'm here sounds very pessimistic"
I did do a bit of research and posting to the forum was something that came up. As I said I just really wanted to post to the forum |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I suppose I am definitely guilty of being lay with my profile. I will be rectifying this soon |
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"For me, it would be less dick pics. Try some teasing photos, a hint of what you have to offer. Just my opinion!
Thanks for the advice.
So a bit more provocative, maybe just the bulge. Are you saying it’s more fun not to see my dick?"
From previous posts in the subject of cocks, few women want to see a pic of just a cock. What about the rest of you? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"For me, it would be less dick pics. Try some teasing photos, a hint of what you have to offer. Just my opinion!
Thanks for the advice.
So a bit more provocative, maybe just the bulge. Are you saying it’s more fun not to see my dick?"
Yes. |
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Your profile and photos really only tell me that you have a penis. Whilst I don’t speak for all women, personally I want to know more about a guy than the obvious fact of penis ownership. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Say you have experience, get the clutter out of pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile and photos really only tell me that you have a penis. Whilst I don’t speak for all women, personally I want to know more about a guy than the obvious fact of penis ownership."
Brilliant input. I feel like I have been so blind. More about the man less about the penis, more about my experiences than what I want to do to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no doubt there may be a thread on this topic but I really want to post something on this forum.
I have not had much luck on fab over the years, my main issue is arousing any interest. When I have got a connection going and a few messages rolling things always seem to taper off.
I have had two meets on two older profiles, they were great and we met more than once although we have lost touch now.
I suppose I’m wondering, women... what can I do to arouse more interest?
I know everybody is different but it would be nice to hear what types of profiles and messages get you all interested."
Take the advice already mentioned, Broaden your interests outside of webcams |
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The first thing that jumped out at me was you are only interested in webcams so I left your profile.
For your profile try and portray you. Basic interests, some positivity of what you have to offer and what you'd like to achieve in general (not a fantasy list though) tweak it as you go to keep it relevant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no doubt there may be a thread on this topic but I really want to post something on this forum.
I have not had much luck on fab over the years, my main issue is arousing any interest. When I have got a connection going and a few messages rolling things always seem to taper off.
I have had two meets on two older profiles, they were great and we met more than once although we have lost touch now.
I suppose I’m wondering, women... what can I do to arouse more interest?
I know everybody is different but it would be nice to hear what types of profiles and messages get you all interested."
1- reflected distant face picture
2- cock pic and not a good one
3- ' Duh duh duh, Duduh Duduh. Du du dud duh. Du du du du, Dudu.'
4- most aren't here for the long term
your a killer!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So far I’ve had two answers to my question, the rest is critique of my profile which I didn’t ask for. I am aware my profile is shite.
Come on what are the things you look for in a profile, everyone’s different there are no right or wrong answers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like interesting, intriguing, intellectual people with depth and the ability to engage in conversation as we get to know each other and figure out if we are on the same wave length with similar interests and needs.
I like to see interesting, teasing, exciting photos that reveal the character of the person |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"There are various threads about how to write a good profile. Yours falls a long way short of perfect so almost anything you do will be an improvement.
Before asking others for help do a bit of research yourself "
Or he can ask for help on the forum |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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To the OP, it could be your profile, there isn't much on it.
Welcome to the forum
To anyone else it applies to, if you are bored with these type of threads, ignore them please as being nasty will result in a ban |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To the OP, it could be your profile, there isn't much on it.
Welcome to the forum
To anyone else it applies to, if you are bored with these type of threads, ignore them please as being nasty will result in a ban"
Thank you for that, but again I never asked why I can’t get chatting or attention. I asked what people like to see in a profile. It just drifted into something else lol |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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To be fair most were polite and told you what they wouldn't want to see on a profile, it is the same thing. You can then figure out what is a better option |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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I like to read a sarcastic profile, to me it shows they don’t take themselves too seriously and that this is just a bit of fun. I message people based on their status updates/forum posts etc ... anything that shows a bit of spark. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be fair most were polite and told you what they wouldn't want to see on a profile, it is the same thing. You can then figure out what is a better option"
I never thought anyone was not polite, just unhelpful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So far I’ve had two answers to my question, the rest is critique of my profile which I didn’t ask for. I am aware my profile is shite.
Come on what are the things you look for in a profile, everyone’s different there are no right or wrong answers "
If as to say you know your profile is shite then why not try to improve on it?
You may be messaging ladies and those messages may or not be interesting but once they read your profile it could put them off replying.
Think of it as a CV. You are selling yourself. Not saying mine is perfect but I'm always tweaking it but at the core I am honest and I've done ok because of it. Hope you take any advice on board from some of the people on here. |
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