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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Hey I would like some feed back on my profile and bio , and am not really getting much from women if anything at all which is a bit disheartening , most messages are from people not my type trying to convince me .
How should I deal with this without being rude?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am gynesexual am only attracted to femininity , and does that put people off to know I like femboys?"
Gynesexual
Is that a thing?
Blimey. Fab is a mine of information |
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Am gynesexual am only attracted to femininity , and does that put people off to know I like femboys?
Gynesexual
Is that a thing?
Blimey. Fab is a mine of information"
Yeah it mean your attracted to femininity as a whole doesn’t matter gender, I didn’t see opinions for it and I don’t like masculine at all |
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I wouldn't message a man who says he is straight, top and looking for femboys
Why not ?
Because I think the profile would be more honest if it said "bi""
I was told being attracted to femininity is straight but I guess u was told wrong then |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"Not sure if your being sarcastic or don’t women want the dick mainly? And I don’t look at guys pages that why am asking for help "
Between this post and your update you have said women are not interested and men are. Your sexual orientation might say straight but your profile is aimed at men only. |
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Not sure if your being sarcastic or don’t women want the dick mainly? And I don’t look at guys pages that why am asking for help
Between this post and your update you have said women are not interested and men are. Your sexual orientation might say straight but your profile is aimed at men only."
Ah okay thanks I didn’t know that , am truly lost what pics or things should I add . |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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First of all welcome to the forum. You have been very polite with posts that didn't look very friendly or constructive, please don't be put off posting.
Your profile pics are fine to me, if we were looking and we matched what you were looking for, I ( fem ) would like to see a penis pic.
Your profile Bio is short and to the point, which won't suit everyone, but you won't be able to please everyone anyway. The pet question is a bit weird though
Good luck in finding what you are looking for
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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To forum posters, if you don't want to be friendly on these type of threads, please avoid them as the thread is for help by users, normally new users and we don't want to give the impression it is a cold place  |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
ribble valley |
Understand you being gynesexual. Me too. Hence straight on my bio. I just need femininity. Some ladies won't meet, but it's their prerogative. Most ladies don't seem to mind tho. As for your profile, it's yours! Put on what you feel is right. |
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"First of all welcome to the forum. You have been very polite with posts that didn't look very friendly or constructive, please don't be put off posting.
Your profile pics are fine to me, if we were looking and we matched what you were looking for, I ( fem ) would like to see a penis pic.
Your profile Bio is short and to the point, which won't suit everyone, but you won't be able to please everyone anyway. The pet question is a bit weird though
Good luck in finding what you are looking for
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Thanks for the comments , I wanted a ice breaker but I’ll need to think of something better , am need to be more confident in my self I think |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"First of all welcome to the forum. You have been very polite with posts that didn't look very friendly or constructive, please don't be put off posting.
Your profile pics are fine to me, if we were looking and we matched what you were looking for, I ( fem ) would like to see a penis pic.
Your profile Bio is short and to the point, which won't suit everyone, but you won't be able to please everyone anyway. The pet question is a bit weird though
Good luck in finding what you are looking for
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PS to deal with unwanted mail, either say No thanks or just delete and block if you don't want to do that. You could also use your filters to block people from mailing and you do the searching and mailing instead
https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"First of all welcome to the forum. You have been very polite with posts that didn't look very friendly or constructive, please don't be put off posting.
Your profile pics are fine to me, if we were looking and we matched what you were looking for, I ( fem ) would like to see a penis pic.
Your profile Bio is short and to the point, which won't suit everyone, but you won't be able to please everyone anyway. The pet question is a bit weird though
Good luck in finding what you are looking for
Thanks for the comments , I wanted a ice breaker but I’ll need to think of something better , am need to be more confident in my self I think "
Ah I see about the ice breaker. I am sure you will do fine,a polite young man is always a good thing
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"First of all welcome to the forum. You have been very polite with posts that didn't look very friendly or constructive, please don't be put off posting.
Your profile pics are fine to me, if we were looking and we matched what you were looking for, I ( fem ) would like to see a penis pic.
Your profile Bio is short and to the point, which won't suit everyone, but you won't be able to please everyone anyway. The pet question is a bit weird though
Good luck in finding what you are looking for
PS to deal with unwanted mail, either say No thanks or just delete and block if you don't want to do that. You could also use your filters to block people from mailing and you do the searching and mailing instead
https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters"
Ah okay  thanks for that , I appreciate the effort |
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Understand you being gynesexual. Me too. Hence straight on my bio. I just need femininity. Some ladies won't meet, but it's their prerogative. Most ladies don't seem to mind tho. As for your profile, it's yours! Put on what you feel is right. "
Ah thanks man , I though I was alone it feels like your either straight bi or gay and if you put bi you have to like all types of men haha |
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You decide your sexuality not anyone on here.
But the caveat to that is being clear on the profile text so others can decide to meet or not. I’m pansexual myself so I’ve added that to my profile as an example.
Personally I’d take down some of your cock pictures, nothing wrong with one or two but more says to people ‘that’s all I am’ a cock nothing more.
Your age rangers could be an issue as the demographic on here is more middle aged so 35+ maybe just increase a bit.
But it’s your profile and if it doesn’t work, keep changing it until it does
Good luck Op |
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"You decide your sexuality not anyone on here.
But the caveat to that is being clear on the profile text so others can decide to meet or not. I’m pansexual myself so I’ve added that to my profile as an example.
Personally I’d take down some of your cock pictures, nothing wrong with one or two but more says to people ‘that’s all I am’ a cock nothing more.
Your age rangers could be an issue as the demographic on here is more middle aged so 35+ maybe just increase a bit.
But it’s your profile and if it doesn’t work, keep changing it until it does
Good luck Op "
Thanks I have been blessed with wisdom |
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"You decide your sexuality not anyone on here.
But the caveat to that is being clear on the profile text so others can decide to meet or not. I’m pansexual myself so I’ve added that to my profile as an example.
Personally I’d take down some of your cock pictures, nothing wrong with one or two but more says to people ‘that’s all I am’ a cock nothing more.
Your age rangers could be an issue as the demographic on here is more middle aged so 35+ maybe just increase a bit.
But it’s your profile and if it doesn’t work, keep changing it until it does
Good luck Op
Thanks I have been blessed with wisdom "
Brilliant, I’m sure you have 
Get involved on the forums and chat rooms, clubs have bi nights and socials so get involved as much as possible. |
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