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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve been on Fabswingers since the start of lockdown. Would somebody mind looking over my profile and let me know how I come across please?
I’m finding it very difficult to get any attention from the ladies. Most just ignore me. If I’m lucky I see my message has been deleted so I know the lady isn’t interested.
Is there any way I can improve my profile to at least get some social meets and try to convert one into a friendship?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is my personal view I think you have far too much personal information added. Steer away for adding about your depression. I can understand that you want to be honest but the honesty could come after you chat to someone first. Also adding your wife's personal past isn't really good to add. Fine to add your married & if you get a woman that is ok with that then well & good but it's not what people want to know about your wife not having sex for so long. I think you need to look at all of what you've written just too much on it .Best of luck to you |
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"This is my personal view I think you have far too much personal information added. Steer away for adding about your depression. I can understand that you want to be honest but the honesty could come after you chat to someone first. Also adding your wife's personal past isn't really good to add. Fine to add your married & if you get a woman that is ok with that then well & good but it's not what people want to know about your wife not having sex for so long. I think you need to look at all of what you've written just too much on it .Best of luck to you "
I completely agree with this 
Plus you have your ‘looking for’ set for women aged 30-65 but then have a paragraph saying that any women aged 18-35 within a 100 mile radius, without filters will be messaged to arrange a meet.
It seems that you have had some rebuttals based on the text, did you read the profiles to see if you may be of interest? Did you send an introductory message or go straight in for a request to meet?
Consider that some keep their mail filters open for chats with people off the forum etc and not as an indicator that they want to meet everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Besides the age issue.
You’re profile has a lot of conditions on your likes and dislikes. Women and Couples have the liberty to state those facts. But us guys have to show what we bring to the table in comparison to the other guys (who make up about 80%) of the users on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think at the end of the day as long as you're being yourself and you're not pretending to be something that you're not that's what you've really got to look at yourself full stop there are a lot of people on here that will BBS s a lot of people just to get their own way |
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