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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OK Been getting blocked a fair bit. Not rude or abusive, just polite and friendly. Dont think I am that pushy. Maybe once but learnt from it. Profile not great admittedly. Seems odd as other contacts have been great! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps they feel if you can't make an effort with your profile, you won't make an effort with them?
Don't worry about it, lots block for all sorts of reasons, plenty more fish in the sea, as they say  |
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Many people just block as it makes it easier for you and them to not message each other etc in future - saving you all time and energy.
If your profile is ramped to the max in terms of quality/content, and your messages are sent to appropriate recipients and are well written, it all improves your chances. Get good photos onto your profile, as many view profiles before reading the messages they're sent too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People also block if you're just not what they're looking for!
I've gone to message a couple before that looking at their profile seemed very compatible with me, shared interests and not a million miles away, I was the right age and description of the kind of single guys they were after!
On trying to message found I was already blocked - even though there'd been no contact between us previously!
I can only assume they'd done a search, looked at guys and blocked those they had no interest in. No biggie - just made it easier for me tbh and saved the whole swapping a few messages to have it go nowhere scenario!
Chin up. Patience is a virtue and there's plenty out there I'm sure you'll have more luck with! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many people just block as it makes it easier for you and them to not message each other etc in future - saving you all time and energy.
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This is what we do precicely for that reason. Although we have set our filters well, we genuinely do not have the time to shift through all the messages from guys mainly so to save our time and their time, we block to avoid further contact.
I appreciate this may come across rude but can't think of a more efficient way to deal with the number of messages  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Don't take it to heart, it is just peoples choice of who they block, you don't know those people so why let it bother you that they have blocked you.
Concentrate on the ones that havn't blocked you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to be blunt mate, but a one-line profile would say to me that you really can't be bothered to put in the effort - if I was a woman, of course.
As for the line 'fill in the rest later'.... does that apply to your attitude towards women too?
Women put a GREAT deal of importance into the words you use and what you say. Your profile is saying all the wrong things - and not enough of anything.
Sorry to be blunt, but..........  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to be blunt mate, but a one-line profile would say to me that you really can't be bothered to put in the effort - if I was a woman, of course.
As for the line 'fill in the rest later'.... does that apply to your attitude towards women too?
Women put a GREAT deal of importance into the words you use and what you say. Your profile is saying all the wrong things - and not enough of anything.
Sorry to be blunt, but.......... "
Spot on
A little effort, goes a long way
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rubbish profile, no photos. Here's why we, as example, would block you.
1. you mail us
2. we look at your profile
3. it's not worth a response
4. we block you so you know for sure.
sorry to be blunt but time and time and time and time and time again people WHINE but the reality is you get out what you put in. And most of the whiners don't put a lot in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women put a GREAT deal of importance into the words you use and what you say. Your profile is saying all the wrong things - and not enough of anything."
Not just women. As a dominent male in a D/s relationship, I put a lot of consideration into meets and this includes first impressions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not just women. As a dominent male in a D/s relationship, I put a lot of consideration into meets and this includes first impressions."
This is very true for us too. It is so disappointing when we are approached and only one of us is targeted - usually me. That leads to instant block. Same when I explain I am owned and people ignore it or worse disrespect it.
It may seem like hard work getting results on here but when it works, it's wonderful
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for advice folks. Taken it onboard. As I said profile was a bit crap. Made few adjustments. Not whinging just that one minute getting on fine then the block. Such is life! Cheers again. |
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