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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To cut a long story short, we are a happily married couple who have been on the scene for about 8yrs....we started off with the couple thing but have found that it hasn't worked out for me. Every male to the couple sadly has been a let down and i've been left feeling there is something wrong with me and have taken it quite personally. When it came to sex, the guy was either too busy worrying about what his partner was thinking or he couldnt keep his erection either due to excessive drink or maybe it was just me after all lol. As it happened so many times we decided to just stick with single guys but now that has caused a prob as my hubby is feeling left out. How do i get my confidence back to attempt the couple fun again?? I was only put off cos it happened too many times Sorry if im in the wrong section here but any advice would be greatfully received, i really would love to give it another go
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Do you meet socially first for a no pressure drink?
Are you meeting " experienced" equally happily married couples?
Do you spend time chatting before meeting?
Are you meeting on YOUR terms as a couple or compromising in some way.
Have you tried soft swap to start off with?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi guys, thank you for replying, yes we have met couples sometimes first for drinks and chat and it goes so well until it gets down to it haha, obviously not every couple experience is going to be like but ive just lost my confidence with it all. We have met newbies and people who have been on the scene a long time. we even tried goin in different rooms to our partners and then it was all fine "no erection probs at all" hmmmm im not sure what's goin wrong  |
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