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By *anKate OP Woman
over a year ago
Kidsgrove |
Just have not felt horny in such a long time. I co habit with a long term male partner, and I have an occassional girlfriend who I go away with.
Have been going through a bout of depression and just coming out the otherside. So medication won't be helping the feeling horny thing.
Love and intimacy is a-ok.
But I want to want a good fucking!!
Hoping to come to a few social nights at xtasia and get the juices flowing again!
Anyone else been through periods of low libido? It's so strange for me. usually very high sex drive. |
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"Just have not felt horny in such a long time. I co habit with a long term male partner, and I have an occassional girlfriend who I go away with.
Have been going through a bout of depression and just coming out the otherside. So medication won't be helping the feeling horny thing.
Love and intimacy is a-ok.
But I want to want a good fucking!!
Hoping to come to a few social nights at xtasia and get the juices flowing again!
Anyone else been through periods of low libido? It's so strange for me. usually very high sex drive. "
Can only really offer some support and confirm that you're not on your own. I'm no expert but yes have been through similar, also depression, its been a very tough 6 months for some. All I'd say is I'm sure worrying about it won't help and be kind to yourself and you will eventually find it. If not try looking in that drawer in the kitchen... The one where you put everything that you can't find another home for... |
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I'm feeling in a similar way to you, OP, although it's starting to get better again.
Bearing in mind that I tend to wank at least once a day on average, I had a period in around May this year when I went almost 4 weeks without one, which is unheard of. Even now it's still something I might do just for its own sake rather than because I really want to, but at least I can manage it again.
Best advice woupd be not to worry about it unduly - acknowledge that it's a phase you're going through and that you will cone out the other side again when you're ready |
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Hi Kate,
Yes certainly. I’ve had similar issues during lockdown. I’ve found myself on here out of habit but then when people have suggested meeting I realised I wasn’t actually in the mood. I was more interested in chatting and flirting than the actual prospect of sex itself. Not like me at all...
I have recently had a meet with a couple I knew well and that went very well, but I’m not back to my “normal” self by any means.
I’ve also felt rather isolated during COVID, so that’s probably not helped my overall libido / mental health.
Feel free to message me if you just want a chat about stuff. Always open to a good old chin wag with like minded people.
And take care xxx  |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
Not had a full sexual meet for 5 months - one soft play at weekend 
I agree I have lost my horn, kinda really know what I want, don’t want to ask anyone to meet during covid, clubs are closed kinda feel a bit lost what to do  |
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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago
Kidderminster |
"Just have not felt horny in such a long time. I co habit with a long term male partner, and I have an occassional girlfriend who I go away with.
Have been going through a bout of depression and just coming out the otherside. So medication won't be helping the feeling horny thing.
Love and intimacy is a-ok.
But I want to want a good fucking!!
Hoping to come to a few social nights at xtasia and get the juices flowing again!
Anyone else been through periods of low libido? It's so strange for me. usually very high sex drive. "
MrsJ has quite a bit with her anti depressants. |
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