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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do any ladies here like having meets where they want just to be licked & teased without the need for full on penetrative sex ?
Or conversely does receiving oral a no no for you on a meet - if so, any particular reason ?
I absolutely love giving oral and building up those waves and was just wondering if for most it is mainly about having the penetrative sex.
Don’t get me wrong as I love a good fuck too but do really enjoy going down - it just got me wondering.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do any ladies here like having meets where they want just to be licked & teased without the need for full on penetrative sex ?
Or conversely does receiving oral a no no for you on a meet - if so, any particular reason ?
I absolutely love giving oral and building up those waves and was just wondering if for most it is mainly about having the penetrative sex.
Don’t get me wrong as I love a good fuck too but do really enjoy going down - it just got me wondering...."
Omg yes please! I cant believe this thread doesnt have more comments! Good oral is the best  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you've never had it done right,"
every woman is different , some can orgasm threw oral some need penetration some need to rub and make themselves cum so you can’t say it’s jut down to technique
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think many ladies like this, they have gushing orgasms through oral I've noticed"
Not for me. I need some sort of penetration to take place for that to happen.
In regards to meeting solely for a woman to receive oral, yes I've done that before and like others, I eventually need penetration. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
Not on Fabs but through a dating site I met a older lady that at first just wanted oral then eventually oral and sex sadly it ended as she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her age and although I never said anything I found it a bit frustrating that she wanted oral from me but would not return the favour. |
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"Not on Fabs but through a dating site I met a older lady that at first just wanted oral then eventually oral and sex sadly it ended as she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her age and although I never said anything I found it a bit frustrating that she wanted oral from me but would not return the favour."
Communication is key! How can anyone know the other is unhappy if you keep quiet? Bizarre! |
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"No thanks. Great oral should be the starter to great penetrative sex. Oral only just frustrating and usually offered by men who can't perform. Massive turn off."
Oh yes and there is no changing their minds that they aren’t good because they think all women are the same and like the same! Guys we don’t all like the same. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Not on Fabs but through a dating site I met a older lady that at first just wanted oral then eventually oral and sex sadly it ended as she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her age and although I never said anything I found it a bit frustrating that she wanted oral from me but would not return the favour.
Communication is key! How can anyone know the other is unhappy if you keep quiet? Bizarre! "
. True communication is key and I did mention it a couple of times she made it clear she wasn’t into giving only receiving it was after the 2nd time I mentioned it that she said she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her own age |
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"Not on Fabs but through a dating site I met a older lady that at first just wanted oral then eventually oral and sex sadly it ended as she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her age and although I never said anything I found it a bit frustrating that she wanted oral from me but would not return the favour.
Communication is key! How can anyone know the other is unhappy if you keep quiet? Bizarre! . True communication is key and I did mention it a couple of times she made it clear she wasn’t into giving only receiving it was after the 2nd time I mentioned it that she said she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her own age"
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Your quote ‘I never said anything’ led me to believe you kept quiet? Problem with some guys is they don’t communicate. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Not on Fabs but through a dating site I met a older lady that at first just wanted oral then eventually oral and sex sadly it ended as she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her age and although I never said anything I found it a bit frustrating that she wanted oral from me but would not return the favour.
Communication is key! How can anyone know the other is unhappy if you keep quiet? Bizarre! . True communication is key and I did mention it a couple of times she made it clear she wasn’t into giving only receiving it was after the 2nd time I mentioned it that she said she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her own age.
Your quote ‘I never said anything’ led me to believe you kept quiet? Problem with some guys is they don’t communicate. "
. I mentioned it 2 times in 6 months which is really not enough but as she was happy with what we were doing I thought I be patient not be pushy and in time she may come round to the idea. |
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"Not on Fabs but through a dating site I met a older lady that at first just wanted oral then eventually oral and sex sadly it ended as she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her age and although I never said anything I found it a bit frustrating that she wanted oral from me but would not return the favour.
Communication is key! How can anyone know the other is unhappy if you keep quiet? Bizarre! . True communication is key and I did mention it a couple of times she made it clear she wasn’t into giving only receiving it was after the 2nd time I mentioned it that she said she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her own age.
Your quote ‘I never said anything’ led me to believe you kept quiet? Problem with some guys is they don’t communicate. . I mentioned it 2 times in 6 months which is really not enough but as she was happy with what we were doing I thought I be patient not be pushy and in time she may come round to the idea."
Ahhhh so you did say something to her. Maybe best not assume she would come round to the idea. The only way things will work with a familiar partner is to communicate. Some men struggle with this. ‘It’s good to talk’! |
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"I get pleasure from giving pleasure. I love going down on a woman it's very intimate .
It’s more intimate than penetration.....in my opinion.
Completely agree "
This is why it needs to be done right! I’ve spent so many sessions saying ‘left, right, up, down’ and he’s not heard me that I’ve just been turned off and even faked it once because of this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get pleasure from giving pleasure. I love going down on a woman it's very intimate .
It’s more intimate than penetration.....in my opinion.
Completely agree
This is why it needs to be done right! I’ve spent so many sessions saying ‘left, right, up, down’ and he’s not heard me that I’ve just been turned off and even faked it once because of this. "
Totally agree about it being more intimate. I’ve never had any issues about getting directed. That in itself can be an extra turn on for me as when you do hit all the right places, the right way and time then the physical feed back & End result can be amazing. I get so turned on knowing my actions are driving the woman crazy.
Fantastic oral helps to add to amazing climaxing full on sex afterwards - can add another chapter.
I’ve heard that a lot of men don’t like giving oral which for me I can’t understand but each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It has to be good oral or it’s pointless.
I need penetration eventually though.
^^^ Exactly this"
What’s the thing that the guys do wrong mostly ?
I can’t get how you can go so wrong if they are reading the reactions right and responding accordingly. |
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"Not on Fabs but through a dating site I met a older lady that at first just wanted oral then eventually oral and sex sadly it ended as she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her age and although I never said anything I found it a bit frustrating that she wanted oral from me but would not return the favour."
It's not a tit for tat thing!
You knew she didn't want to do it to you and you enjoyed doing it to her. Why complain about that?
Next time some bloke tries to stick his cock in my arse, shall I make sure he gets a dildo fuck up his, even though he may not want or like it? |
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"It has to be good oral or it’s pointless.
I need penetration eventually though.
^^^ Exactly this
What’s the thing that the guys do wrong mostly ?
I can’t get how you can go so wrong if they are reading the reactions right and responding accordingly. "
That's an unanswerable question. A woman tells you what you're doing wrong, you don't do it with the next one and she will tell you to do it!
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"Not on Fabs but through a dating site I met a older lady that at first just wanted oral then eventually oral and sex sadly it ended as she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her age and although I never said anything I found it a bit frustrating that she wanted oral from me but would not return the favour.
It's not a tit for tat thing!
You knew she didn't want to do it to you and you enjoyed doing it to her. Why complain about that?
Next time some bloke tries to stick his cock in my arse, shall I make sure he gets a dildo fuck up his, even though he may not want or like it?"
nearly spat my tea out on that one!!  |
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"Not on Fabs but through a dating site I met a older lady that at first just wanted oral then eventually oral and sex sadly it ended as she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her age and although I never said anything I found it a bit frustrating that she wanted oral from me but would not return the favour.
It's not a tit for tat thing!
You knew she didn't want to do it to you and you enjoyed doing it to her. Why complain about that?
Next time some bloke tries to stick his cock in my arse, shall I make sure he gets a dildo fuck up his, even though he may not want or like it?"
I learn so much about men from visiting the forums!!! It’s a good selection process! |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Not on Fabs but through a dating site I met a older lady that at first just wanted oral then eventually oral and sex sadly it ended as she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her age and although I never said anything I found it a bit frustrating that she wanted oral from me but would not return the favour.
It's not a tit for tat thing!
You knew she didn't want to do it to you and you enjoyed doing it to her. Why complain about that?
Next time some bloke tries to stick his cock in my arse, shall I make sure he gets a dildo fuck up his, even though he may not want or like it?"
. No I am not complaining we were both consenting adults I bought up the subject twice in 6 months as other have said communication is the key and when it ended it was because she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her age ( she is 14-15 years older than me ) which I respected it was all amicable it was a good experience for me and I believe it was a good experience for her |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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An oral-only meet would bore me, giving or receiving. A penetration-only meet wouldn’t do it for me either...I’d never get off from that. I prefer both...with a healthy dose of ‘fuck it, let’s do it’ passion thrown in for good measure. Anything less is a waste of time. |
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I've had several oral only meets. There are men out there who enjoy it that much and the orgasms are fantastic, so why not.
That's not to say I don't like penetrative sex, I do, and with the right person it can be just as good. Ideally I'd want both on a meet but sometimes its fun to mix it up. |
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"Not on Fabs but through a dating site I met a older lady that at first just wanted oral then eventually oral and sex sadly it ended as she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her age and although I never said anything I found it a bit frustrating that she wanted oral from me but would not return the favour.
It's not a tit for tat thing!
You knew she didn't want to do it to you and you enjoyed doing it to her. Why complain about that?
Next time some bloke tries to stick his cock in my arse, shall I make sure he gets a dildo fuck up his, even though he may not want or like it?. No I am not complaining we were both consenting adults I bought up the subject twice in 6 months as other have said communication is the key and when it ended it was because she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her age ( she is 14-15 years older than me ) which I respected it was all amicable it was a good experience for me and I believe it was a good experience for her"
Nope, you said "I found it a bit frustrating that she wanted oral from me but would not return the favour"
You were frustrated that you gave but she didn't and again, it's not tit-for-tat. Nobody should give or receive anything with the expectation that they are supposed to do the same. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"An oral-only meet would bore me, giving or receiving. A penetration-only meet wouldn’t do it for me either...I’d never get off from that. I prefer both...with a healthy dose of ‘fuck it, let’s do it’ passion thrown in for good measure. Anything less is a waste of time."
Agreed. Ground rules are fine, but mutual spontaneity can be spectacular. |
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"I've had several oral only meets. There are men out there who enjoy it that much and the orgasms are fantastic, so why not.
That's not to say I don't like penetrative sex, I do, and with the right person it can be just as good. Ideally I'd want both on a meet but sometimes its fun to mix it up. "
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"Not on Fabs but through a dating site I met a older lady that at first just wanted oral then eventually oral and sex sadly it ended as she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her age and although I never said anything I found it a bit frustrating that she wanted oral from me but would not return the favour.
It's not a tit for tat thing!
You knew she didn't want to do it to you and you enjoyed doing it to her. Why complain about that?
Next time some bloke tries to stick his cock in my arse, shall I make sure he gets a dildo fuck up his, even though he may not want or like it?. No I am not complaining we were both consenting adults I bought up the subject twice in 6 months as other have said communication is the key and when it ended it was because she wanted a serious relationship with someone nearer her age ( she is 14-15 years older than me ) which I respected it was all amicable it was a good experience for me and I believe it was a good experience for her"
Yes you was complaining. You said ‘it was a bit frustrating that she wanted oral from you but would not return the favour’. The lady obviously did not want to give you oral which is her decision. Oral is very intimate and men seem to expect it too much.....in my opinion. |
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"Maybe you've never had it done right,every woman is different , some can orgasm threw oral some need penetration some need to rub and make themselves cum so you can’t say it’s jut down to technique "
Totally agree.
After 28 yrs of marriage I know my wife so well that to bring her to orgasm orally doesn't take that long, in fact, often too quickly is she is watching certain porn at the same time  |
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Reading the comments just shows that we all have our likes and dislikes (all of which are valid) when in comes to oral sex, which applies to any other form of sex! On one hand, oral can be the ultimate and best sex ever, whereas on the other hand, it can be the worst! We are all different, each to their own! Whatever brings sexual pleasure and satisfaction should be the aim, whatever form that takes. Enjoy giving and receiving, hopefully..?? ??  |
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A female friend of mine has told me that in her experience, guys who are not well endowed give the best oral.
My take on oral is that if the person giving loves giving, the receiver will usually enjoy it more.
I've had women before who I felt were only giving to return the favour. They weren't in to it, but that would not put me off going down on them again because I adore performing cunnilingus.
I give because I want to, and not because I want them to give back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No thanks. Great oral should be the starter to great penetrative sex. Oral only just frustrating and usually offered by men who can't perform. Massive turn off."
totaly agree oral is forplay dont get me wrong i love oral but it has to be with everything else or not at all as ill just be left a frustrated wreck ...
and i only squirt/gush with penetration oral and fingers never by oral its self orgasm yes thats different buy not many guys get that right which is fine because i get off way more with fucking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I havent read replies yet but i will because if i was female I would guys go down really good bwfore getting the goods.
Im.male and look for Oral with guys only love pleasing..like oral with females too but not as much lol as more men sexuality. Its interesting if females just want oral?? As men can like that for a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you've never had it done right,
Typical Fab Male response. They all think they are so good at it  "
...I agree alot of men lick like a Cat. Iv seen movies where the oral from a male was strange...its like they dont enjoy it...its a mood thimg sometimes
How hungry you are ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It has to be good oral or it’s pointless.
I need penetration eventually though.
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Good oral for as long as the lady can take it but penetrative sex has to be the best |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love oral, giving and receiving, more than penetrative sex to be honest.
As a lady said earlier, I think I love giving because I used to be unsure if I was any good at penetrative sex and while every woman is different and likes different things I can usually make a lady squirt/gush with my tongue and fingers and I can't do that always and certainly not as easily through penetration.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The tounge can be mightier than the penis
Nope!
You haven't experienced a man who thoroughly enjoys doing it
How can you possibly know that?"
Because I can lol |
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"The tounge can be mightier than the penis
Nope!
You haven't experienced a man who thoroughly enjoys doing it
How can you possibly know that?
Because I can lol "
Unsure how you can say that! You don’t know me or my experiences..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The tounge can be mightier than the penis
Nope!
You haven't experienced a man who thoroughly enjoys doing it
How can you possibly know that?
Because I can lol
Unsure how you can say that! You don’t know me or my experiences....."
True and 95% of the oral which I have recieved resulted in me not cumming and thinking about the weather as its happening lol.. But one or two I wouldn't change for anything! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tanya loves recieving oral and as we are new to the Hotwife lifestyle we both think someone just going down on her could be a good way to start.
Just need to find the right guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It has to be good oral or it’s pointless.
I need penetration eventually though.
^^^ Exactly this
What’s the thing that the guys do wrong mostly ?
I can’t get how you can go so wrong if they are reading the reactions right and responding accordingly. "
Many don't read the reactions correctly though. And, however much I enjoy great oral, I also enjoy the feel of a girthy cock through penetration x |
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"It has to be good oral or it’s pointless.
I need penetration eventually though.
^^^ Exactly this
What’s the thing that the guys do wrong mostly ?
I can’t get how you can go so wrong if they are reading the reactions right and responding accordingly.
Many don't read the reactions correctly though. And, however much I enjoy great oral, I also enjoy the feel of a girthy cock through penetration x"
Yes, it all needs to be foreplay that leads to a good deep penetration.
Then it feels even better as body is turned on and wanting more |
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"Do any ladies here like having meets where they want just to be licked & teased without the need for full on penetrative sex ?
Or conversely does receiving oral a no no for you on a meet - if so, any particular reason ?
I absolutely love giving oral and building up those waves and was just wondering if for most it is mainly about having the penetrative sex.
Don’t get me wrong as I love a good fuck too but do really enjoy going down - it just got me wondering...."
When a guy says he loves giving oral, licks for hours, will meet just to give you oral sex, etc it raises red flags for a lot of women. They know 99% of the time it is a guy thinking he will get meets by saying bullshit as I lick for hours, I love going down, etc.
Lots of women will tell you on here they have met guys who have on their profile I love giving oral sex, I lick for hours etc. When they net the guy went down on them for a minute or two.
Also, a lot of women on here have said they get very bored if a guy gives them oral sex for too long.
I am not saying you are bullshitting but a lot of guys do.
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By *rs RavensongWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe you've never had it done right,
Typical Fab Male response. They all think they are so good at it "
This! In my experience, there are few men who take the time to explore and discover what a woman actually enjoys - I rarely climax from oral sex with someone who hasn't spent time getting to know my body well. Not all women orgasm from oral sex, in the same way that not all women orgasm from penetration alone.
Personally, I'd be happy to have oral only when I meet someone, but I would want full penetrative sex rather than just oral myself.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do any ladies here like having meets where they want just to be licked & teased without the need for full on penetrative sex ?
Or conversely does receiving oral a no no for you on a meet - if so, any particular reason ?
I absolutely love giving oral and building up those waves and was just wondering if for most it is mainly about having the penetrative sex.
Don’t get me wrong as I love a good fuck too but do really enjoy going down - it just got me wondering...."
F would probably be up for a group meet when she just gave oral sex to the guys to completion as she loves to give oral more than to receive |
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I love receiving oral ( shocker ) lol
But love giving it too. Its just so sexy and intimate Every women is different of course. I think you have to adapt your style, kinda tune in to the reactions you get from the lady. Giving pleasure is such a turn on for me. Nothing better than feeling a lady orgasm as your tongue makes them hit a crescendo |
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