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By *llReal19 OP Man
over a year ago
glasgow/glasgow green |
Awryt well this is just directed at all of fab basically and not to sound fucked up but what's wrong with my profile and more to say I'm not the nicest piece in the window but I take care of myself quite well with my two boys so here's the question what's up with my profile or even me ?? |
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"Awryt well this is just directed at all of fab basically and not to sound fucked up but what's wrong with my profile and more to say I'm not the nicest piece in the window but I take care of myself quite well with my two boys so here's the question what's up with my profile or even me ?? "
For a start you’ve only got friends only photos. I imagine most women will see that and toddle off to someone else who has public pics. Doesn’t have to be face included pics but at the moment they can only see an avatar of just your abs, which not all women are into. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
I would agree with the lack of photos, one or two visible ones might help.
I'd say maybe add some punctuation into your profile to make it easier to read. Maybe add in likes and dislikes etc too.  |
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"And there's a pandemic on, so people shouldn't be meeting strangers for intimacy. Maybe you didn't hear?"
Not the point at all, plenty are meeting for socials which is perfectly legit.
The other thing OP is that as a man on fab, you’ll be unlikely to get that many women messaging you first as there’s way more guys than there are women. Lots of people vying for the same attention.
You’ll most likely have to see the profiles out that you like yourself and send a decent first message With a face pic to get noticed.  |
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Use a full stop. Both your original question and personal description are single, long sentences. I can't be bothered reading them because I can't work out where one thought starts and another stops. Where the hell am I supposed to breath?
Bit basic, but humans like a few grammatical devices to communicate. Lacking them makes you appear extremely uneducated. |
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"Is that the washing drying in the background?
If so do you wear pink pjs?
yeah sorta but my wee boys are my life n they love that we match haha"
I’d retake that photo without the pink PJs in by the way. You’ll forever be getting asked if they’re your wife/girlfriends, and it’s a valid question. |
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By *llReal19 OP Man
over a year ago
glasgow/glasgow green |
"I would agree with the lack of photos, one or two visible ones might help.
I'd say maybe add some punctuation into your profile to make it easier to read. Maybe add in likes and dislikes etc too. "
Hey thanks for the tips
Anything else x |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Take a look at your profile and ask yourself does it truly reflect you and what you're looking for from the site, and more to the point what you think you can offer? Is it generic and much like every other guys profile or does it stand out? Would you want to message/meet you if you read your profile?
Be honest and if you answer no to any of those, make changes accordingly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You live in Glasgow where I know there's at least one swingers club - CJs. Why not find a night that allows single men and try there? When it reopens if it isn't already open. |
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"Use a full stop. Both your original question and personal description are single, long sentences. I can't be bothered reading them because I can't work out where one thought starts and another stops. Where the hell am I supposed to breath?
Bit basic, but humans like a few grammatical devices to communicate. Lacking them makes you appear extremely uneducated. "
This...If I can't see proper sentences/grammar or 'text speak' it puts me off the profile unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It didn't tell me much about what you like /dislike and want to get out of fab... A general 'looking to meet women' is too broad for me
Agree with the punctuation comments |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It didn't tell me much about what you like /dislike and want to get out of fab... A general 'looking to meet women' is too broad for me
Agree with the punctuation comments"
It appeers quite a few peeple can’t stand speeling errors on pro files. Punkchewation also riles em. Fix that and you’ll wallow in vag. |
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"Awryt well this is just directed at all of fab basically and not to sound fucked up but what's wrong with my profile and more to say I'm not the nicest piece in the window but I take care of myself quite well with my two boys so here's the question what's up with my profile or even me ?? "
Seem angry.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It didn't tell me much about what you like /dislike and want to get out of fab... A general 'looking to meet women' is too broad for me
Agree with the punctuation comments
It appeers quite a few peeple can’t stand speeling errors on pro files. Punkchewation also riles em. Fix that and you’ll wallow in vag."
I doubt it but you are one step closer... Not sure why you'd not remove all potential barriers?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Awryt well this is just directed at all of fab basically and not to sound fucked up but what's wrong with my profile and more to say I'm not the nicest piece in the window but I take care of myself quite well with my two boys so here's the question what's up with my profile or even me ?? "
'I don't bite well not too hard'
One of the worst lines used on this site. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
There are literally hundreds of threads on profile advice excetera if you search the forums you will find lots of help, of course it's down to the individual whether they take the advice on board or not. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Awryt well this is just directed at all of fab basically and not to sound fucked up but what's wrong with my profile and more to say I'm not the nicest piece in the window but I take care of myself quite well with my two boys so here's the question what's up with my profile or even me ?? "
. Single guys that can’t accommodate can find it hard on Fabs no matter how genuine the reason is.You need to add more on your profile with regards to what you are looking for from Fabs and what you have to offer.About a year and a half ago I reformatted my profile and I asked for advice the response I got back was positive.You are quite welcome to have a look and decide for yourself.Best of luck with Fabs
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Your profile is 50% covering why you can't meet quickly and that your priority is your kids. That's an unchallegeable position.
The other 50% doesn't sell you. It doesn't include what you bring or want from interaction with others.
Basically, man wants woman.
Which is what the majority of people here are and wants from the site. To stand out from all of those others, you've probably got to give an impression that is truly distinctive and that will make a large proportion of the people viewing you to want to probably be interested in meeting you.
Assuming that most people who possibly like you won't in the end actually agree to have sex with you, because there's not full mutual attraction, you've got to get many of them first to want you.
At present there's not much in your profile that would give people much understanding of you, even before they may be able to be attacked to you.
The virus situation has made it incredibly difficult for everyone here - and single men especially - to get interest and involvement with others. Just that will have made it closer to impossible for most people. As most people aren't meeting, it gives us all a big chance to get to know others, for when we see that it's acceptable to meet. Some won't meet even socially.
Sieze the potential for others to get to know you and likewise you them. |
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