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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would likely kill Fab.
The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would likely kill Fab.
The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles. "
This. No-one outside the cliques would stay here for more than a day if this were implemented. |
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"Wow, judgemental about single men much? There are plenty of people here looking for them.
How is it judgmental?
have a look at the op comments in the ffm condom etiquette thread "
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Wow, judgemental about single men much? There are plenty of people here looking for them.
How is it judgmental? "
'The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles'
It speaks for itself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow, judgemental about single men much? There are plenty of people here looking for them.
How is it judgmental?
'The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles'
It speaks for itself. "
If it had been expressed as our own opinion on a demographic, perhaps - reading in context will help you avoid that preconceived outrage and indignance |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Wow, judgemental about single men much? There are plenty of people here looking for them.
How is it judgmental?
'The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles'
It speaks for itself.
If it had been expressed as our own opinion on a demographic, perhaps - reading in context will help you avoid that preconceived outrage and indignance "
It was your opinion on single men on fab who have 'deluded fantasies', they have as much right to be here as you and just because you don't agree with their fantasies, that doesn't mean you should label them all as deluded fantasists. Also, there are plenty of people who are here for single men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow, judgemental about single men much? There are plenty of people here looking for them.
How is it judgmental?
'The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles'
It speaks for itself.
If it had been expressed as our own opinion on a demographic, perhaps - reading in context will help you avoid that preconceived outrage and indignance
It was your opinion on single men on fab who have 'deluded fantasies', they have as much right to be here as you and just because you don't agree with their fantasies, that doesn't mean you should label them all as deluded fantasists. Also, there are plenty of people who are here for single men."
How does one read so much into a simple
Sentence? But hey, don’t let the facts get in the way of your righteousness!
Unfortunately the point seems to have eluded you.  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Wow, judgemental about single men much? There are plenty of people here looking for them.
How is it judgmental?
'The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles'
It speaks for itself.
If it had been expressed as our own opinion on a demographic, perhaps - reading in context will help you avoid that preconceived outrage and indignance
It was your opinion on single men on fab who have 'deluded fantasies', they have as much right to be here as you and just because you don't agree with their fantasies, that doesn't mean you should label them all as deluded fantasists. Also, there are plenty of people who are here for single men.
How does one read so much into a simple
Sentence? But hey, don’t let the facts get in the way of your righteousness!
Unfortunately the point seems to have eluded you. "
What facts? You said single men on fab have deluded fantasies, that's not a fact, that's your opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow, judgemental about single men much? There are plenty of people here looking for them.
How is it judgmental?
'The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles'
It speaks for itself.
If it had been expressed as our own opinion on a demographic, perhaps - reading in context will help you avoid that preconceived outrage and indignance
It was your opinion on single men on fab who have 'deluded fantasies', they have as much right to be here as you and just because you don't agree with their fantasies, that doesn't mean you should label them all as deluded fantasists. Also, there are plenty of people who are here for single men.
How does one read so much into a simple
Sentence? But hey, don’t let the facts get in the way of your righteousness!
Unfortunately the point seems to have eluded you.
What facts? You said single men on fab have deluded fantasies, that's not a fact, that's your opinion."
Did I? I think your reading something else, or reading into something else?  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"It would likely kill Fab.
The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles. "
You didn't say this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would likely kill Fab.
The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles.
You didn't say this? "
The language used is somewhat inflammatory; I might not have phrased it that way, but their overall point stands.
In simple demographic terms single men make up the bulk of profiles, single females the smallest group, with couples in the middle.
Most couples aren't looking for single guys, many single females are but they are outnumbered massively by the males seeking them.
If you could block an entire gender from appearing, or block yourself appearing for an entire gender the site is going to appear VERY empty. Especially for those in groups most likely to be excluded and new users without established contacts |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
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"Would be nice if we blocked a certain sex that u didn't show up to them. "
Going on your comments on the condom thread,
Turn off fabbing pics
Don't look at who looked at you
Problem solved like "just pull out"  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Would be nice if we blocked a certain sex that u didn't show up to them. "
I don't see any value in this, I can already block any sex from messaging me, it does no harm that they can see my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I did.
What I didn’t say is I believe that all single males have deluded fantasies, and don’t deserve to be on the site - which is what you’ve tried to assert.
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"It would likely kill Fab.
The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles.
You didn't say this?
The language used is somewhat inflammatory; I might not have phrased it that way, but their overall point stands.
In simple demographic terms single men make up the bulk of profiles, single females the smallest group, with couples in the middle.
Most couples aren't looking for single guys, many single females are but they are outnumbered massively by the males seeking them.
If you could block an entire gender from appearing, or block yourself appearing for an entire gender the site is going to appear VERY empty. Especially for those in groups most likely to be excluded and new users without established contacts"
What I don't agree with is the blanket negative statement they made about single men, it's judgemental and unfair, if they don't want single men, that's fine, but comments like that are unnecessary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would likely kill Fab.
The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles.
You didn't say this?
The language used is somewhat inflammatory; I might not have phrased it that way, but their overall point stands.
In simple demographic terms single men make up the bulk of profiles, single females the smallest group, with couples in the middle.
Most couples aren't looking for single guys, many single females are but they are outnumbered massively by the males seeking them.
If you could block an entire gender from appearing, or block yourself appearing for an entire gender the site is going to appear VERY empty. Especially for those in groups most likely to be excluded and new users without established contacts"
I don’t see it as inflammatory- it’s a simple statement of fact - which I’m glad you appear to agree with.
It wasn’t a statement of our opinion on anybody (other than how the site operates) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would likely kill Fab.
The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles.
You didn't say this?
The language used is somewhat inflammatory; I might not have phrased it that way, but their overall point stands.
In simple demographic terms single men make up the bulk of profiles, single females the smallest group, with couples in the middle.
Most couples aren't looking for single guys, many single females are but they are outnumbered massively by the males seeking them.
If you could block an entire gender from appearing, or block yourself appearing for an entire gender the site is going to appear VERY empty. Especially for those in groups most likely to be excluded and new users without established contacts
What I don't agree with is the blanket negative statement they made about single men, it's judgemental and unfair, if they don't want single men, that's fine, but comments like that are unnecessary. "
Again you continue to make an absolute judgmental assumption on a deluded sense of self righteousness and zero fact. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"It would likely kill Fab.
The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles.
You didn't say this?
The language used is somewhat inflammatory; I might not have phrased it that way, but their overall point stands.
In simple demographic terms single men make up the bulk of profiles, single females the smallest group, with couples in the middle.
Most couples aren't looking for single guys, many single females are but they are outnumbered massively by the males seeking them.
If you could block an entire gender from appearing, or block yourself appearing for an entire gender the site is going to appear VERY empty. Especially for those in groups most likely to be excluded and new users without established contacts
I don’t see it as inflammatory- it’s a simple statement of fact - which I’m glad you appear to agree with.
It wasn’t a statement of our opinion on anybody (other than how the site operates) "
'deluded fantasies of single men', not some men, just single men, not all of them have deluded fantasies and do not deserve to be bunched under that statement that you are trying to pass off as fact. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"It would likely kill Fab.
The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles.
You didn't say this?
The language used is somewhat inflammatory; I might not have phrased it that way, but their overall point stands.
In simple demographic terms single men make up the bulk of profiles, single females the smallest group, with couples in the middle.
Most couples aren't looking for single guys, many single females are but they are outnumbered massively by the males seeking them.
If you could block an entire gender from appearing, or block yourself appearing for an entire gender the site is going to appear VERY empty. Especially for those in groups most likely to be excluded and new users without established contacts
What I don't agree with is the blanket negative statement they made about single men, it's judgemental and unfair, if they don't want single men, that's fine, but comments like that are unnecessary.
Again you continue to make an absolute judgmental assumption on a deluded sense of self righteousness and zero fact."
Pot, kettle. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention. |
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"It would likely kill Fab.
The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles.
You didn't say this?
The language used is somewhat inflammatory; I might not have phrased it that way, but their overall point stands.
In simple demographic terms single men make up the bulk of profiles, single females the smallest group, with couples in the middle.
Most couples aren't looking for single guys, many single females are but they are outnumbered massively by the males seeking them.
If you could block an entire gender from appearing, or block yourself appearing for an entire gender the site is going to appear VERY empty. Especially for those in groups most likely to be excluded and new users without established contacts
I don’t see it as inflammatory- it’s a simple statement of fact - which I’m glad you appear to agree with.
It wasn’t a statement of our opinion on anybody (other than how the site operates) "
Your statement is fine. In fact we agree. The majority of single men on here are deluded. Those who think 'fancy a fuck' messages and treating women as free escorts will cut it - deluded. Going off the forum posts and messages that is a fair few. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It would likely kill Fab.
The whole model of this site thrives on the deluded fantasies of single men, who, I suggest, would be the main recipients of complete blocks by the majority of profiles.
You didn't say this?
The language used is somewhat inflammatory; I might not have phrased it that way, but their overall point stands.
In simple demographic terms single men make up the bulk of profiles, single females the smallest group, with couples in the middle.
Most couples aren't looking for single guys, many single females are but they are outnumbered massively by the males seeking them.
If you could block an entire gender from appearing, or block yourself appearing for an entire gender the site is going to appear VERY empty. Especially for those in groups most likely to be excluded and new users without established contacts"
But at least then you would be left with the people your actually looking for rather then being clogged with people u have no interest in seeing or talking to. It seems people like the attention even when the attention is from people they don't want to meet. I on the other hand don't like attention off anyone unless it's people I have an interest in meeting |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention. "
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you mean you would like the message filter system to work site wide?
How would that work for people that do meet single men but don't want messages from them? "
Surely that's more of a personal issue if you don't want people messaging you who u want to meet lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?"
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends. |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends. "
Your profile would say "not looking for single men" which then also removes them from who looked at me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends.
Your profile would say "not looking for single men" which then also removes them from who looked at me"
Can still fab me tho. |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends.
Your profile would say "not looking for single men" which then also removes them from who looked at me
Can still fab me tho. "
Simple, turn off pics being fabbed. |
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"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends. "
Then remove fabs off your pics!! I don’t have it
Too be fair think my profile scares the tight men away anyway!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends.
Your profile would say "not looking for single men" which then also removes them from who looked at me
Can still fab me tho.
Simple, turn off pics being fabbed. "
This is not simple. It's not simple removing options the site offers to prevent stuff from happening. Should just be if I'm blocking certain sex it blocks them completely. That's the point of my thread. The fact u have to respond multiple times shows it's not as simple as it could be. I shouldn't have to lose options on my site experience to prevent people I'm blocking from interacting with me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends.
Then remove fabs off your pics!! I don’t have it
Too be fair think my profile scares the tight men away anyway!!"
What u mean tight men lol |
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"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends.
Then remove fabs off your pics!! I don’t have it
Too be fair think my profile scares the tight men away anyway!!
What u mean tight men lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends.
Your profile would say "not looking for single men" which then also removes them from who looked at me
Can still fab me tho. "
So then turn off fabbing on pics.
The problem here is that you are assuming everyone who looks at your profile is perving on you. |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends.
Your profile would say "not looking for single men" which then also removes them from who looked at me
Can still fab me tho.
Simple, turn off pics being fabbed.
This is not simple. It's not simple removing options the site offers to prevent stuff from happening. Should just be if I'm blocking certain sex it blocks them completely. That's the point of my thread. The fact u have to respond multiple times shows it's not as simple as it could be. I shouldn't have to lose options on my site experience to prevent people I'm blocking from interacting with me "
It's simple things your making into a massive issue.
Your not looking for guys (even though have 2 guy veris) but don't feel you should have to tick a box to remove them from showing as looked at you etc. Seriously your coming across as a proper tit. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends.
Your profile would say "not looking for single men" which then also removes them from who looked at me
Can still fab me tho.
So then turn off fabbing on pics.
The problem here is that you are assuming everyone who looks at your profile is perving on you. "
Not at all. I'm assuming the ones fabbing my pics are tho but I thought that was obvious.. |
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"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends.
Your profile would say "not looking for single men" which then also removes them from who looked at me
Can still fab me tho.
So then turn off fabbing on pics.
The problem here is that you are assuming everyone who looks at your profile is perving on you.
Not at all. I'm assuming the ones fabbing my pics are tho but I thought that was obvious.. "
I don't see the harm? Would you tell your guy mates to stop liking your pics on Instagram? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends.
Your profile would say "not looking for single men" which then also removes them from who looked at me
Can still fab me tho.
Simple, turn off pics being fabbed.
This is not simple. It's not simple removing options the site offers to prevent stuff from happening. Should just be if I'm blocking certain sex it blocks them completely. That's the point of my thread. The fact u have to respond multiple times shows it's not as simple as it could be. I shouldn't have to lose options on my site experience to prevent people I'm blocking from interacting with me
It's simple things your making into a massive issue.
Your not looking for guys (even though have 2 guy veris) but don't feel you should have to tick a box to remove them from showing as looked at you etc. Seriously your coming across as a proper tit. Good luck."
Your coming across butthurt cause u only came here after I made you look silly on a thread. I was waiting for when u would show your real agender to insult me. I have a couple men Veri me cause I go to clubs an made friends with other men at clubs. Is that a crime? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends.
Your profile would say "not looking for single men" which then also removes them from who looked at me
Can still fab me tho.
So then turn off fabbing on pics.
The problem here is that you are assuming everyone who looks at your profile is perving on you.
Not at all. I'm assuming the ones fabbing my pics are tho but I thought that was obvious..
I don't see the harm? Would you tell your guy mates to stop liking your pics on Instagram? "
You answered your own question. Mates. Their my mates. Their people I choose to share things with |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
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"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends.
Your profile would say "not looking for single men" which then also removes them from who looked at me
Can still fab me tho.
Simple, turn off pics being fabbed.
This is not simple. It's not simple removing options the site offers to prevent stuff from happening. Should just be if I'm blocking certain sex it blocks them completely. That's the point of my thread. The fact u have to respond multiple times shows it's not as simple as it could be. I shouldn't have to lose options on my site experience to prevent people I'm blocking from interacting with me
It's simple things your making into a massive issue.
Your not looking for guys (even though have 2 guy veris) but don't feel you should have to tick a box to remove them from showing as looked at you etc. Seriously your coming across as a proper tit. Good luck.
Your coming across butthurt cause u only came here after I made you look silly on a thread. I was waiting for when u would show your real agender to insult me. I have a couple men Veri me cause I go to clubs an made friends with other men at clubs. Is that a crime? "
Huh? Firstly sweetheart you haven't made anyone else look silly other then the OP yeah...but seriously I was actually attempting to help but clearly theres no helping stupid. |
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"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends.
Your profile would say "not looking for single men" which then also removes them from who looked at me
Can still fab me tho.
Simple, turn off pics being fabbed.
This is not simple. It's not simple removing options the site offers to prevent stuff from happening. Should just be if I'm blocking certain sex it blocks them completely. That's the point of my thread. The fact u have to respond multiple times shows it's not as simple as it could be. I shouldn't have to lose options on my site experience to prevent people I'm blocking from interacting with me "
It would kil the site.
The whole business model of fab relies on using genuine couples profiles and single females profiles to lure single males in on the promise of easy sex at best, and a fantasy filled perv at worst.
Without those single male profiles boosting the figures (and profits) the site would fold, as it couldn’t rely on the income of female and couples alone.
To use the site it’s just something you have to accept.
Genuine profiles are not Fabs customer base, its Fabs commodity. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends.
Your profile would say "not looking for single men" which then also removes them from who looked at me
Can still fab me tho.
Simple, turn off pics being fabbed.
This is not simple. It's not simple removing options the site offers to prevent stuff from happening. Should just be if I'm blocking certain sex it blocks them completely. That's the point of my thread. The fact u have to respond multiple times shows it's not as simple as it could be. I shouldn't have to lose options on my site experience to prevent people I'm blocking from interacting with me
It's simple things your making into a massive issue.
Your not looking for guys (even though have 2 guy veris) but don't feel you should have to tick a box to remove them from showing as looked at you etc. Seriously your coming across as a proper tit. Good luck.
Your coming across butthurt cause u only came here after I made you look silly on a thread. I was waiting for when u would show your real agender to insult me. I have a couple men Veri me cause I go to clubs an made friends with other men at clubs. Is that a crime? "
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"I just feel that if I'm blocking a certain sex it's cause I don't want them contacting. I don't want them perving on me an so on. I just feel if I'm blocking people they should be completely blocked so we don't cross paths. Bit like on tinder if I say I'm looking for girls it only shows girls an only shows me to girls. So example I'm a bloke looking for girls then why am I showing up or able to be searched by anything other then what I'm looking for. You just end up with a load of unwanted attention.
Simple, set your message filters and it removes single men. I guess as you don't have them listed as looking for this is what you mean?
They can't message me but they can still view me an fab me which is rather wierd. I don't like the thought of being perved on by people I have no interest in. An I don't wonna have to completely hide my profile stuff to only friends.
Your profile would say "not looking for single men" which then also removes them from who looked at me
Can still fab me tho.
So then turn off fabbing on pics.
The problem here is that you are assuming everyone who looks at your profile is perving on you.
Not at all. I'm assuming the ones fabbing my pics are tho but I thought that was obvious..
I don't see the harm? Would you tell your guy mates to stop liking your pics on Instagram?
You answered your own question. Mates. Their my mates. Their people I choose to share things with
Yep and for all you know they could be perving when they see your pics too.
To be fair after some of your incredibly aggressive comments on this and other threads I doubt you will have to worry about fab issues for much longer 
Thank fuck for the forums showing people's true colours  "
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I've deleted posts. I've also deleted posts that quoted.
There's no need for this personal attacking, name calling or argumentative posts.
If you find you're typing long ranting posts then please take a break
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"I've deleted posts. I've also deleted posts that quoted.
There's no need for this personal attacking, name calling or argumentative posts.
If you find you're typing long ranting posts then please take a break
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I totally appreciate and agree with what you're saying, but I'm wondering if in some cases it would not be better to leave the offending comments up, so that people are aware of what certain users are really like? |
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