Hi everyone, hope you are all well and staying safe x
So we've been trying, sadly without much success, to find another couple for a "virtual" partner swap sop to speak. Given the times we are in we thought that would be best. By that we mean all 4 of us chat in a group (using one of the many famous messaging apps we all know about), chill, find out more about each other, then each one goes for some private sexy sexting time with each others partner, if that makes sense?
Problem is we find that most people we approach either go off the idea or turn out to be fake, like a guy saying he's is part of a couple (even with a verified couples profile), we wait for days for the Mrs to show up then nothing!.
Are we doing something wrong do you think? We personally have absolutely no problem in having our own separate fun, either in real life or online. In fact we both actively encourage each other. But are we alone in this? We are fairly new to the swinging scene, and given so many people only swing "together" we are wondering if this is the right place for us.
Any advice would be much appreciated xx |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
Unfortunately you will find there are quite a lot of couples profiles where the female half is strangely never available. The pretence can be held up to some extent in a group chat situation but obviously becomes more challenging when you try to pair off into two separate chats.
Am sure there will be some genuine couples who will be interested in the type of thing you are looking for, it just might take a while to find it.
Maybe check out the chat rooms? That way you can potentially see that both members of the couples actually exist.
Good luck |
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I'd say that unless you've seen the couple in the chatroom together, just assume it's not a couple until you've seen (and chatted with) them both on some sort of webcam (Zoom, Skype, etc).
Not only that but make sure that they have both acknowledged you.
Years ago, we chatted for a while where a couple were apparently chatting with us on cam.
The female would come up to the camera over the man's shoulder, but would soon disappear.
Turned out he was calling her over to look briefly at something on the screen without her actually seeing the webcam screen, and it was all text, not audio, so she was unaware she was on a swingers site, and he appeared genuine as the lady came up to the screen from time to time.
In this way, he tricked us (for a day or two only) into thinking the lady was participating in the conversation. We soon realised what was happening though.
You need to get acknowledgement from both of the people to be sure they are genuine. |
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