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By *aughtycp1 OP Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
Has anyone noticed the growing trend in Hot Wife play. We have always enjoyed playing this way but when we began a few years ago it was quite an unusual scenario. Now it almost seems a normal part of swinging. |
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over a year ago
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A couple of points popped up on our own thread on hotwifing that rang true.
Probably the one that resonates the most is that it’s usually the case that when trying to meet couples that not all 4 will share the attraction.
Naturally that sometimes leads to scratching the itch individually if that makes sense? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think this was the article , you can find others on google x
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/6432973/stag-men-love-watching-other-guys-have-sex-with-their-wives-but-its-not-cuckolding/amp/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the underlying cause is women’s liberation.
As women have gained greater degrees of equality in other areas of life I have come to realise I was socially conditioned to wrongly believe they weren’t as interested in sex as us men.
Now I know each woman is different I wouldn’t be opposed to my partner having casual sex with strange men if it was purely carnal. |
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I think it’s to do with the fact that, my opinion, love and sex are 2 different things. Most men want to see their lady happy and for those that enjoy sex it can be amazing to just watch her let go and have fun without being the pleasure giver.
I think husband sharing is less popular as my findings are the women feel more of a connection to their men and prefer to keep one guy loyal to just her. I know this is a swinger site so we are more liberated and women here will couple swap or let the husband play, but most seem
More reserved than their male halfs
My 2 pence worth haha I find it fascinating though |
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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago
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"A couple of points popped up on our own thread on hotwifing that rang true.
Probably the one that resonates the most is that it’s usually the case that when trying to meet couples that not all 4 will share the attraction.
Naturally that sometimes leads to scratching the itch individually if that makes sense?"
Yes we agree with you 100%. Many couples complain that its so difficult to find a single fem. But for us it was virtually impossible to find a compatible MMFF . Since we decided on a hot wife scenario, we have never looked back  |
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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago
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"I think it’s to do with the fact that, my opinion, love and sex are 2 different things. Most men want to see their lady happy and for those that enjoy sex it can be amazing to just watch her let go and have fun without being the pleasure giver.
I think husband sharing is less popular as my findings are the women feel more of a connection to their men and prefer to keep one guy loyal to just her. I know this is a swinger site so we are more liberated and women here will couple swap or let the husband play, but most seem
More reserved than their male halfs
My 2 pence worth haha I find it fascinating though "
Well put and spot on. We agree with you 100% as well!! |
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We both really love the hot wife scene it allows Jess to play out some of her fantasies
And Ben loves watching and hearing Jess with her bull’s
Unfortunately covid has really but a block on our fun, but hopefully things will change soon  |
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"Has anyone noticed the growing trend in Hot Wife play. We have always enjoyed playing this way but when we began a few years ago it was quite an unusual scenario. Now it almost seems a normal part of swinging."
I have noticed that too
I do think that generally swinging over the years has changed
There is a huge single market out there for ‘NSA’ fun and let’s be honest men far out way ladies on here so much easier to find MFM than MFF.
Also couples finding couples again is quite hard to ensure all four are attracted and no ‘one for the team’ scenarios
By the way I am a Hotwife and it’s by far our fave way to play
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone noticed the growing trend in Hot Wife play. We have always enjoyed playing this way but when we began a few years ago it was quite an unusual scenario. Now it almost seems a normal part of swinging.
I have noticed that too
I do think that generally swinging over the years has changed
There is a huge single market out there for ‘NSA’ fun and let’s be honest men far out way ladies on here so much easier to find MFM than MFF.
Also couples finding couples again is quite hard to ensure all four are attracted and no ‘one for the team’ scenarios
By the way I am a Hotwife and it’s by far our fave way to play
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I've been involved with it since my late teens in one way or another. Must admit, my most memorable times have probably been the hotwife scenario ones |
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By *abbingMan
over a year ago
Belfast |
I wonder if porn has fueled the trend - many guys watch a lot of porn these days and I wonder for some people, is watching their partner an extension of that
Appreciate people were into Hot wife play for years long before explosion of internet porn, but I wonder given that instant 24/7 hard porn is at everyone fingertips now, and viewership and consumption of porn has skyrocketed - has it lead to people seeking out new and different kinks
Ive certainly noticed a lot more hotwife / wife sharing and cuckold porn around these days - hard to say if thats contributing to the trend or reflecting it I guess! |
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By *ipi2001Couple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Hotwife trend may be due to the fact that it is difficult to find a mutual attraction within the couples.the easiest day is to play with a single.however,have you ever wonder if it is important the attraction or the way people behave and play? |
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"I wonder if porn has fueled the trend - many guys watch a lot of porn these days and I wonder for some people, is watching their partner an extension of that
Appreciate people were into Hot wife play for years long before explosion of internet porn, but I wonder given that instant 24/7 hard porn is at everyone fingertips now, and viewership and consumption of porn has skyrocketed - has it lead to people seeking out new and different kinks
Ive certainly noticed a lot more hotwife / wife sharing and cuckold porn around these days - hard to say if thats contributing to the trend or reflecting it I guess!"
I suppose it depends on the dynamic of a relationship, my Hotwife has been cuckolding me for about 30 years off and on.
Personally I enjoy the fact that she’s enjoyed spending time with other guys and vice-versa.
Like I said it’s dependent on the relationship as not every hubby is happy that his wife’s pussy is being filled with another guys sperm ! |
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What is the real difference between hotwifing and cuckholding?? As far as I can see some times very little difference. I suppose it depends on the rules of the couples., happy fabing to every one out there I suppose so long as both partners are enjoying the scenario who cares. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never really got the hot wife term. Seems to be an amalgam of cuck, stag and vixen and just an open relationship with emphasis on the woman's sex drive. As a sometime cuck, submissive guy I would never dare to look for another woman on here unless C directly asked me too.
I guess it depends on who wears the trousers in the relationship
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Always enjoyed watching mrs4 have fun with others and done it with various other ex's and you have to be 100% secure in a relationship though !! and does lead to some very hot sex and she does the choosing so to speak but only if i'm 100% happy will it progress and had some really hot times watching her enjoying and being enjoyed by others and glad it's finally got a name !! as i just used call myself a perv lol  |
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I think the Hotwife thing is popular because it satisfies in so many ways.
If the guy wants to be cuckold then you can be a hotwife couple. If you have an open marriage then the hotwife can meet guys on her own. If the guy is impotent or has a much lower sex drive than his wife = hotwife. Or there’s the regular hotwife thing of a guy getting off on seeing his partner having sex with other men. Probably more insightful to ask why so many of us blokes want to see their wives fuck other men. |
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"I think the Hotwife thing is popular because it satisfies in so many ways.
If the guy wants to be cuckold then you can be a hotwife couple. If you have an open marriage then the hotwife can meet guys on her own. If the guy is impotent or has a much lower sex drive than his wife = hotwife. Or there’s the regular hotwife thing of a guy getting off on seeing his partner having sex with other men. Probably more insightful to ask why so many of us blokes want to see their wives fuck other men."
I 100% agree with this, it gives pleasure in so many ways and can also add so much trust and excitement into a marriage ive found it brings you closer together |
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We get the hot wife thing but is there a term or a thing for men that like a mf couple to play with their wife or is that still hotwife. We want to be that mf couple as it seems to suit our desires. |
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Sometimes it is just circumstances that create the hotwife. For example we find it hard to find couples where there is mutual attraction, and childcare issues means sometimes we allow each other to go out and have individual fun with others.
When the partner returns, the other likes to hear all about it.
... And thus creates the hotwife/husband! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it is just circumstances that create the hotwife. For example we find it hard to find couples where there is mutual attraction, and childcare issues means sometimes we allow each other to go out and have individual fun with others.
When the partner returns, the other likes to hear all about it.
... And thus creates the hotwife/husband! "
This |
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As someone else said, porn probably has something to do with it , as does a less macho society. A lot of fights used to begin with "you fucking looking at my missus?!" 
Add to that the more accepting society is of male to male contact and many more men not feeling threatened or digusted by bi action. From just watching to actual contact.
I just wish my lady hadnt retreated from the concept of any kind of swinging as we had some good times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s to do with the fact that, my opinion, love and sex are 2 different things. Most men want to see their lady happy and for those that enjoy sex it can be amazing to just watch her let go and have fun without being the pleasure giver.
I think husband sharing is less popular as my findings are the women feel more of a connection to their men and prefer to keep one guy loyal to just her. I know this is a swinger site so we are more liberated and women here will couple swap or let the husband play, but most seem
More reserved than their male halfs
My 2 pence worth haha I find it fascinating though
Well put and spot on. We agree with you 100% as well!! "
Yeah i think you’ve hit the nail on the head there. There’s a def split between those people who associate sex with love and those who like it for what it is. Generally speaking, those of us on this site fall into the latter category so probably find it easier to understand, but I’ve spoken to some who are horrified at sex without love and would have us burn in hell for our sins lol
There is such a thing as enjoyable sex without the love aspect, as we all know on here. Sometimes though, it’s really hard not getting too emotionally involved, that’s when things get a bit more complicated..
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I was a tomboy wallflower who always dreampt of being sexy. When I met my Hubby 5 years ago, he was experinced in the fetish scene and gave me the confidence to spread my wings, and now there is no going back  |
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I started holding some small private house parties a few years ago for couples like myself that enjoyed the Hotwife lifestyle. We just couldn’t find any suitable events or clubs. They all seemed to be aimed at greedy girls or couples looking for female-female play.
The parties just got bigger and bigger until I was hosting big events at an actually club. It was amazing !!!!
Now lots of clubs run hotwife/ stag vixen parties and it’s such a great part of the scene to be involved in. I can travel all round the UK to some amazing nights.
I think it’s really opened up for us hotwives and we’re are so lucky to be spoilt for choice  |
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By *aney BCouple
over a year ago
Walsall |
We’re new to hotwifing but loving everything about it.ive been there with j and just watched and I’ve let her play without me the excitement for us both is really something else and I usually get the pics and videos and can’t wait to reclaim her after her meet it just works for us |
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"wonder when hot husband will come fashionable?
We do that too but not as main stream x"
There have been a few forum threads on it and it is slowly gaining ground. This is part of how we play too. X |
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I’ve played with quite a few hotwife couples - sometimes the husband is there other times not
The common theme I’ve noticed is how much they both seem to absolutely love the dynamic- and from my perspective that adds to things!
They all also say the reclaim sex is usually amazing |
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It’s something we’ve always liked and enjoyed as long as the guy is VWE
Our scenario is always to do it together and for both the 3rd party and the stag to take her at the same time / in turn not just the other guy take her |
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"We’re new to hotwifing but loving everything about it.ive been there with j and just watched and I’ve let her play without me the excitement for us both is really something else and I usually get the pics and videos and can’t wait to reclaim her after her meet it just works for us "
And a very hot wife she is |
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"Sometimes it is just circumstances that create the hotwife. For example we find it hard to find couples where there is mutual attraction, and childcare issues means sometimes we allow each other to go out and have individual fun with others.
When the partner returns, the other likes to hear all about it.
... And thus creates the hotwife/husband! "
This is us to a T.
Precious little free time sadly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the short time we've been on the scene we're leaning more towards hotwife for the reasons given.
Our initial interest was in couples but finding one where everyone is truly compatible is easier said than done.
There is woman's liberation too plus I found it enjoyable watching lady half pleasured so our emphasis has switched now to hotwifem |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s to do with the fact that, my opinion, love and sex are 2 different things. Most men want to see their lady happy and for those that enjoy sex it can be amazing to just watch her let go and have fun without being the pleasure giver.
I think husband sharing is less popular as my findings are the women feel more of a connection to their men and prefer to keep one guy loyal to just her. I know this is a swinger site so we are more liberated and women here will couple swap or let the husband play, but most seem
More reserved than their male halfs
My 2 pence worth haha I find it fascinating though
Well put and spot on. We agree with you 100% as well!!
Yeah i think you’ve hit the nail on the head there. There’s a def split between those people who associate sex with love and those who like it for what it is. Generally speaking, those of us on this site fall into the latter category so probably find it easier to understand, but I’ve spoken to some who are horrified at sex without love and would have us burn in hell for our sins lol
There is such a thing as enjoyable sex without the love aspect, as we all know on here. Sometimes though, it’s really hard not getting too emotionally involved, that’s when things get a bit more complicated..
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Absolutely this. When we play either alone or with someone else there is always sex with love for us whatever the scenario but it's just fun where the other person is involved as we don't love them. I'm not sure I'd want to be that third party but happy as a couple. |
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We enjoy this kind of play more and more now, as when meeting other couples, it's not always a spark with all four, so some times in club we will invite either another single guy or husband to join us in fun, or may help anothe husband myself giving his wife a good time, other than that we enjoy group fun or the odd solo meet, just hope things start getting better again soon |
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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago
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"How exactly does the Hot Wife thing work?,asking for a friend.
A Hotwife is a married woman who has sex with who ever she chooses with her husband full knowledge "
Im not married but in 20yr plus relationship, our rule is never at home, never alone, always safe and very choosy, have found the perfect fwb to suit our needs, my oh loves seeing and joining in.
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It’s always been our thing! For us it’s predominantly driven by the fact that it is rare for all parties to be attracted in a foursome. With a single Guy (or girl) it’s easier to find someone who the lady finds attractive . Plus most guys get off on watching their lady get pleasured in our opinion. |
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Getting the dynamics of couples is very challenging and we came across this by chance as the person connected with us totally and it is something we have enjoyed very much with lady getting extra attention. |
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"Sometimes it is just circumstances that create the hotwife. For example we find it hard to find couples where there is mutual attraction, and childcare issues means sometimes we allow each other to go out and have individual fun with others.
When the partner returns, the other likes to hear all about it.
... And thus creates the hotwife/husband! "
This is us in a nutshell! |
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