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did anyone marriage fail due to swinging
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like to know your opinions  "
Pretty sure there will have been plenty that have, saw a thread from a guy on here a couple of weeks back where his relationship had failed as he had pretty much pushed his partner into meets when she wasn’t as up for it as him. We are always conscious of how the other is feeling and would ditch swinging in an instant if we thought it would jeopardise what we already have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My marriage is just ending on really good friendly terms, thankfully. Swinging has neither contributed to its decline or made it stronger, swinging is sometimes the spice couples add to fix other problems in their relationship. |
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We've been together a long time. Swinging was something we dabbled in early on in our relationship then it took a side line till we came back to it.
If it was going to cause us issues, it would have long ago.
We are aware of instances it may have been an issue though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s always a risk to take when you start swinging. There’s no doubt that communication and trust are the keys but there’s no guarantee.
If anything it’s strengthened ours but we have agreed that if either of us ever had doubts we would stop.
We have met with couples (not on our veri’s) who have clearly been having issues. Not pleasant to witness at all.
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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I met a school teacher (in a professional capacity) who was introduced to swinging by her ex and she took to it better than her husband thought she would. One of the guys she met was "much better than her husband" so she left him and continued with her swinging! |
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By *nB23Man
over a year ago
London |
Hahaha maybe they added it to the curriculum lol.
From my experience the couples I've spoken to said that swinging helped them explore and add a different type of excitement to their life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It definitely helped to end mine.
It just made me realise that I didn't really love him anymore.
There were other factors, but yeah, it effectively ended a 20 year relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know if swinging causes marriages to fail or succeed but the motives for doing it might"
Most swinging couples who's relationship broke after swinging probably had severe cracks before they started it. |
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"I don't know if swinging causes marriages to fail or succeed but the motives for doing it might
Most swinging couples who's relationship broke after swinging probably had severe cracks before they started it."
Yeah. We've witnessed a few relationships that were clearly not going to last and swinging was just the catalyst. |
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I suspect swinging is rarely to the route cause of a marriage failing. It may however expose, exacerbate or bring to a head problems with the relationship or problems with an individual in the relationship. |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
If a couple ever went into swinging to save their marriage it was doomed anyway.
We swing because we deeply love each other and the feelings swinging gives us enhances the desire we feel for each other to giddy levels. If ever we thought swinging was detrimental to our relationship we would stop x |
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By *aul349Man
over a year ago
Newcastle area |
I have known a few couples through swinging who are no longer together. I would not say the swinging caused the splits but it certainly facilitate them.
Having seen the slow motion train wrecks their relationships became my advice is set clear rules at the start and stick to them.
Don't think swinging will fix a strained relationship, it won't.
The best advice is to always make time to be interment with your partner after the swinging, make sure you both feel happy and comfortable with each other. |
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By *intage74Couple
over a year ago
Lanarkshire |
It’s more buying into the lifestyle of swinging with good communication and clear dos and don’t.Have seen d*unken jealous males or females in clubs arguing which is unfortunate
Certainly for us it adds to our balanced relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My relationship did. It fell apart when my partner decided she wanted more fun than I could give her as a couple. Her need to explore have more solo fun won out. It’s common unfortunately. It’s a shame because the bit missing in life is the non swinging parts we shared. |
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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago
Hertfordshire |
"If a couple ever went into swinging to save their marriage it was doomed anyway.
We swing because we deeply love each other and the feelings swinging gives us enhances the desire we feel for each other to giddy levels. If ever we thought swinging was detrimental to our relationship we would stop x"
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Seen a few fail mainly because their relationship was already fundamentaly floored from the start or they entered the lifestyle with very different levels of commitment.
I think it's rare for couples to split because one of them falls in love with a random fuck in a club but known wives to walk because they grew in confidence due to the lifestyle.
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It ended my cousins as his wife wanted to keep going off with other guys, but it strengthened ours as it spiced up our sex life, it can be swings and roundabouts, if we want solo meets we will do it with each others permission as it's a lot about trust as well as the sex, but we have most our meets together as its a bigger turn on seeing our other half's turned on |
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"If a couple ever went into swinging to save their marriage it was doomed anyway.
We swing because we deeply love each other and the feelings swinging gives us enhances the desire we feel for each other to giddy levels. If ever we thought swinging was detrimental to our relationship we would stop x"
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